The most horrible experience eva!!

amani said:
:sl: :mad: :mad: :'( ;D ;D


then once in wakefield someone tried to pull at my niqab..Alhumdulillah it dint come off though :'( turned around and theyd gone :omg:

anyway i dont care what people think or say :shade:
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omg my cousin had the same experience once in london .. i was wid her and wid some otha cuzin of mine i was like :uuh: but we didnt say anything cuz she went after she tured around yust like how it happened to u .. we left it to Allah (swt) sabr inshallah
 
:sl: So sad man some people are so ignorant!

This old man, well about 60, once tried to chase me:offended:
He was scary and started shouting and swearing at me, that was when I started wearing the full Hijab I was in shock:muddlehea

Yep, the dirty looks, people swearing, people judgin, I even experienced such from muslims thats what hurted me the most:cry:

But is fine now all this made me a stronger person, I am proud of who I am:)
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Subhan Allah :eek:

Be carefull make sure you don't walk alone, spically at night.
 
:sl: I had an evening class *hate them*:mad:

Yep I was scared i slightly pulled my jilbab up and did a runner, I was to scared to look back, I was just started reading Surat and said my Shahada scary subxanallah:cry:
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*Somali-chick* said:
:sl: :brother: s and :sister: s

OK, I was on the train rite? on my way home from school, I was sittin with a friend of mine minding our own business (talking about assignments and stuff) when all of a sudden this lady comes up to us and says "TAKE OFF YOUR SCARVES" in this really angry tone :omg: :omg: me and my friend just sat there not knowing what to do...at first i was thinking of kinda being "rude" to her as well but i just stayed quite coz i didn't want to give islam a bad name and all. When she said this, she was actually getting of the bus, after saying that and she got of the bus...she gave us the rude finger :eek: that was soo unbelieveable wallahi :omg:

We haven't done anything to her but yet she comes to us and acts rude, the weird thing is she was probably around her 50s or 60s, ufff and i thought people around that age were smart or something :'(

oh well, alhamdulilah

did this sort of thing happen to any of you guys before?

BTW, I haven't been to the forum for awhile, alhamdulilah I will be here often now :D i hope i didn't miss much
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OMG thats so bad..!!! inshalah it wnt happn 2 any1 else..or agen 2 u!! :muddlehea
 
Salam Alaikum:

There really are very strange characters in society today. Most that are rude are usually (not always), very uneducated and really don't have a clue what they're babbling about. They just babble for the sake of it and probably have the personality that looks for arguments where there are none.

Before I reverted I was in a line up at the grocery store. The cashier happened to be a Muslimah wearing a hijab. I was minding my own business when I overheard a lady making a comment about how ridiculous this Muslimah looked wearing a cloth on her head and she shouldn't be allowed to work there. :confused: Now, when I looked back to see who would make such a comment, it was a lady around 60 ish, with very unkept hair, tight shorts and a tank top that was far too small. The combination of tight shorts and shirt exposed her protruding belly and ummm, well, let's just say the shirt was not big enough to prevent other body parts from being partially exposed.

I said to her, "If you are able to show yourself in public dressed like that, what concern is it to you what others choose to wear?" She said she couldn't stand to look at it because it was ridiculous. I pointed out all the other cashiers in the store and asked her if she just HAPPENED to stand in this line, or if it was her intent to try to humiliate the girl. She didn't respond. So, I told her I thought the girl, unlike herself, looked beautiful and dressed respectfully. And I ended it by saying, "by the way....nice shirt you're almost wearing!!" She went to another line. lol

As a Muslimah, I've never had one negative comment made to me by strangers. They don't seem to treat me any different from anyone else, Alhamdulillah. I'm sure there are stares and I just don't notice, but I honestly don't know how I would react. I think I would just smile and say, "And you have yourself a wonderful day!! :D " Rude people don't usually know how to react to that. lol

We have such strong sisters here, mashallah! :) Showing such strong control of their emotions is a wonderful representation of the beauty of Islam.

Wa'alaikum salam,
Hana
 
omggg thats a funny story i hpe it taught her a lesson..aww ur so strong u no!!! i wud neva hav been able 2 sy all that..:uuh:

i neva knew these kinda things r goin on..god nos wah wrld am in!!
 
lol sister, before I reverted, I wouldn't hesitate to say anything to anyone, especially rude people. To me, if someone could be openly rude I could openly correct them and never hesitated for a second. This was, for the most part, only when someone was abusive to harsh to another person. I had a friend that, if a situation would arise, she would look at me and say, "Oh dear God, please don't embarrass me." lool Quite frankly, I don't regret those times, but now as a Muslimah I sincerely do try to hold my tongue. Ummmm, I'm not always successful and still have my moments, Alhamdulillah, I'm much better than before. lol

I think it gave this lady something to think about or she would have remained in the line and stood her ground. She must have felt as humiliated as she tried to make this Muslimah feel and hopefully it made her think twice before making such foolish, racist comments.

Given the exact same situation today, I know I would confront her, but in a much different manner by explaining the importance of hijab. But, I do believe that because the comment was made out of ignorance, her reaction would be the same...feeling humiliated from such a foolish comment. Oh well, people have to realize that there can be consequences when you speak without knowledge. :)

Wa'alaikum salam,
Hana
 
salams

aww wud she reali listen 2 d explanation?? i hpe she wud..!!

i dnt hav the guts 2 sy anythin of the kind..!!!:-\

ws..
 
Salam Alaikum:

lol no, she probably wouldn't, but I would do my best. :)

wasalam,
Hana
 
OMG...i frogot this story....about 4 months ago....here in London this is what happend in my neigbourhood!:

one day...around 6PM....4 Polish (3 males, one femlae) were walking back from the Pub..all drunk, shouting etc accross local resident houses....a young grl was walking by...she was only about 14 yrs old....she is a Muslim, hence she was wearing a scarf. What do they do....they started pulling her scarf off...n saying nasty stuff! :raging:....

the grl was frightend... one drunk Man slapped the grl....local boys (aroud 10) wer just minutes away...they heard the girl sreaming....so they went up to them. the girl cried for help & shouted how they wer talking her scarf off & some were slapping her & calling her filthy names! they wouldnt stop throwing rasist comment at the youth..(obviously..as they r drunk)

Obviously...what happens next.......(dreadful)....they end up in Hospital!
 
^^ Astaghfirullah :'( Poor Girl :-\
May Allah Protect Us All At All Times.

btw..did da local boiz beat da polish dudez up?
 
I am a firm believer in carrying some thing of a weapon on you if you have to walk by yourself at night in unsafe areas. I personally have a zapper gun/flash light. will cause mild shock to all zapped by it... enough for one to escape. I have never been big on the defensive or crying for help although screaming at your assailant while zapping them is ideal...The world has turned into an ugly place.... I think a good offense is always best!
 
PurestAmbrosia said:
I am a firm believer in carrying some thing of a weapon on you if you have to walk by yourself at night in unsafe areas. I personally have a zapper gun/flash light. will cause mild shock to all zapped by it... enough for one to escape. I have never been big on the defensive or crying for help although screaming at your assailant while zapping them is ideal...The world has turned into an ugly place.... I think a good offense is always best!
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lol...where did you find that?

i want one....not for those thugs........but just
 
my brother gave it to me as a gift.. requires recharging every so often. I have to tell you. I really have a zero tolerance policy, Wouldn't even mind derailing someone off the road with my four by four. Came close once too with some SOB who was as drunk as a skunk. I got into my car and was about to squish him like a bug. Good thing he had enough sense to move out of my way!
 
You can just buy one from ebay... Mine thankfully can't be detected b/c it looks just like a flash light... here is a link though 300.000 volts... that is pretty powerful
http://cgi.ebay.com/Stun-Gun-300-000-volts-of-pocket-self-defense_W0QQitemZ140081112061QQihZ004QQcategoryZ79850QQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

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There is no way that buffoon was fit for any sort of deep contemplation. He is just after harassing people and getting drunk. I hate to go for vigillante justice But by G-D's will...I WILL NOT BE A VICTIM if I can help it!
 
o my days! dat looks dAnGeRoUs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sis y do u write G-D?

i mean i understand y jews do....but u?
 

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