The Pangs of Divorce

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Dagless said:
Can't you see one will lead to the other?

You want to get to know someone before getting married (on a very long term basis it seems since you think people in the west don't get to know each other for long enough :|) but you are against the kind of life where women have 100 partners.

If you get to know someone but you don't like them then you will move onto someone else. It is unlikely you will settle on the first or even the second or third... because you're human. Humans get bored, and the grass is always greener etc.

You can't have it both ways.
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human beings want perfection...they're never satisfied......

in islam we get to know the person whilst having parental monitoring....so you can meet up with the person and chat with them for however long you see fit
 
Dagless said:
Can't you see one will lead to the other?

You want to get to know someone before getting married (on a very long term basis it seems since you think people in the west don't get to know each other for long enough :|) but you are against the kind of life where women have 100 partners.

If you get to know someone but you don't like them then you will move onto someone else. It is unlikely you will settle on the first or even the second or third... because you're human. Humans get bored, and the grass is always greener etc.

You can't have it both ways.
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You do have a point in that. But I'm not going / don't want to be in a relationship with everyone who I come across to. I'm picky and I want to choose my partner.
Sure It could be the first partner I may end up marrying, but It may not. If I make a mistake in the first relationship, I'd try to not repeat the same mistake when looking for a man.
 

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