The Wife, The Husband, and The Mother In Law

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THE WIFE, THE HUSBAND, & THE MOTHER-IN-LAW












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Get the balance in your life,
Between your MUM and your WIFE











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Al-Hamduli-Allah Our Islam has taught us the best lesson that includes guidance for every step in life.
"Be moderated"
But it has been done since many years that man dont give his wife and mother equal space. and it is caused by either wife or mother too.
if both these characters try to live with peace and Man too try to treat them equally as Islam said then the environment of home would be so peaceful. in-shaa-Allah​
 
each party needs to realize their own position and rights and the rights of each of the other parties. in this way there will be love and respect and there won't be feelings of jealousy. there's no need for a mother to become jealous of her daughter-in-law or for a wife to become jealous of her mother-in-law.
 
I dont understand a mother's unnatural attachment to their sons. It is rather strange. I can understand a little if the woman is unmarried, widowed, or divorced from her husband. Her husband should be the male companion, not the son. The son is for the wife. Some mother's even ill-advise their sons about the wife and that is terrible.
 
cottonrainbow said:
I dont understand a mother's unnatural attachment to their sons. It is rather strange. I can understand a little if the woman is unmarried, widowed, or divorced from her husband. Her husband should be the male companion, not the son. The son is for the wife. Some mother's even ill-advise their sons about the wife and that is terrible.
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the son is for the wife?

you make it sound like the sons main duty lies with the wife.


a hadith makes it clear it is with the mother actually.

but why dispute about two different forms of love which can never be compared, that towards a mother and that towards a wife.

These two both have their merit, we should honour and regard both.
 
I like the middle picture!, it was my mum who'd wet her finger with saliva and scrap off crust in the corners of my eyes to make me look presentable.
 
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Just out of curiosity who is the target audience for this picture, seeing as the man seems to be the one being focused on?

I can't imagine a man deliberately and consciously distancing himself from his mother because he's married now.

If anything I know guys who didn't want to get married because they said their wives will take them away from their mothers.

:?
 
a mother wiped off your nappies. a mother will wipe off your intestines if you are dying of colon cancer and will never complain. I have seen it myself.

show me one wife who has done that without any complaint.

Boys/men/uncles -> love your mothers till they depart from you.
 
'Abd-al Latif said:
Just out of curiosity who is the target audience for this picture, seeing as the man seems to be the one being focused on?
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The first post in the thread is directed towards the authoritative head (i.e. the man) because Allah says in the Qur’an:

"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means”

members are welcome to add more good reminders. Also for the women.

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1st pic: where the mother is being oppressed and neglected
2nd pic: where the wife is being oppressed and neglected
3rd pic: Both are given their rights.
 
I know that already but it's not entirely clear who this message is aimed at.

I'm a man and I can honestly tell you it does not relate to the man, at least not alone.
 
CosmicPathos said:
show me one wife who has done that without any complaint.
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I can show you many but the thing is that,there is no competition between these relations,there can't be.A wife of one is a mother of some and the mother of some is the wife of one.And thats why men are commanded to treat both in the best possible way.If Jannah lies under your mother's feet,then the best of you are those,who treat their wives well.Islam is all about balance which the OP pointed out through the pics.The beauty of every relationship is balance.
 
Why mothers often criticize their sons wives?.

Every mother wants her son get a perfect woman who can make her son happy and can also make her feel proud.

Unfortunately ......... there's no perfect woman!.

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