Narrated by our Mother, A'isha (Allah is pleased with her)
A man asked for permission to enter upon Allah's Messenger (Allah exalted his mention and may exalt further). The Holy Prophet said, "Admit him. Waht a bad person of his people". But when the man entered, the Prophet spoke to him in a very polite manner. (And when that person left) I said, "O Allah's Messenger ! You had said what you had said about him, but still you spoke to him very nicely?" The Prophet (may peace & blessings of Allah be upon him) said, " O A'isha ! The worst person in the sight of Allah on the day of Judgement is one whom the people leave or avoid (cut relations) to save themselves from his dirty language or bad behaviour."
[Sahih Bukhari & Sahih Muslim]
We see many people around us proclaiming very proudly,
I am so powerful that people are scared by me. Or
I am so and so that no one dares to speak in front of me, or like that.
Infact, people avoid to meet or speak with such kind of people due to thier dirtyness and to save themselves from their bad behaviour and bad language. They are worst people in the sight of Allah (swt). We need to look into ourselves to find and get rid of this behaviour. May Allah save us.
A man asked for permission to enter upon Allah's Messenger (Allah exalted his mention and may exalt further). The Holy Prophet said, "Admit him. Waht a bad person of his people". But when the man entered, the Prophet spoke to him in a very polite manner. (And when that person left) I said, "O Allah's Messenger ! You had said what you had said about him, but still you spoke to him very nicely?" The Prophet (may peace & blessings of Allah be upon him) said, " O A'isha ! The worst person in the sight of Allah on the day of Judgement is one whom the people leave or avoid (cut relations) to save themselves from his dirty language or bad behaviour."
[Sahih Bukhari & Sahih Muslim]
We see many people around us proclaiming very proudly,
I am so powerful that people are scared by me. Or
I am so and so that no one dares to speak in front of me, or like that.
Infact, people avoid to meet or speak with such kind of people due to thier dirtyness and to save themselves from their bad behaviour and bad language. They are worst people in the sight of Allah (swt). We need to look into ourselves to find and get rid of this behaviour. May Allah save us.