To be happy with a woman is to understand her first

[ژاله]

A famous writer once said: if you want to be happy with a man, love him less and understand him more, but if you want to be happy with a woman, love her more and never try to understand her.
i think he was right....
p.s. great post sis syilla..:thumbs_up

 

[syilla]

Is this really true? Ladies, please tell me? I thought if you don't agree to the woman's point of view then you can either forget about the food or you gotta sleep on the couch. :heated:

Do all women just wanna blabber without any concern for winning the argument? :nervous:

is true... the ladies sometimes knew that she is wrong but she'll probably don't want to admit it.

If you can't live without her food...then i guess i can't help with you there. ;D
i think literally you let her bully you. ;D

Women will do anything to win an argument they'll use anything against you for example

Sarah: Ahmad, why don’t you ever clean up after yourself?
Ahmad: (exhausted after making dinner) I was busy making dinner for the kids. You never clean up after yourself either.
Sarah: (Becoming evil) What do you mean I never clean up after myself? I make dinner all the time, and the kitchen doesn’t look like this! All you did was make a little bit of pasta!
Ahmad: (getting upset) I honestly cleaned after myself
Sarah: (increasing in intensity) Bull crap!! . You never do anything else. I have to do everything around here. I don’t know what I got from marrying you you're just a bald head i mean look at you , you bloody look like ET.
Ahmad: (Very hurt) Ok, then maybe you shouldn’t have married me!


Its shocking but im afraid its the truth

you copied from the net!!!! then thats just copy cat...doesn't support anything. If you know how to treat your woman and your woman is happy...she can never make you unhappy. She'll adore you more.:statisfie

There should be classes in understanding women.

lol... i don't think anyone will finish the class then...

 

[syilla]

A famous writer once said: if you want to be happy with a man, love him less and understand him more, but if you want to be happy with a woman, love her more and never try to understand her.
i think he was right....
p.s. great post sis syilla..:thumbs_up

aww...you're so right.

to understand a man... is not by his words..but to look at his actions and what he likes. and they actually clueless what they want...so don't ask them what they want...because you'll never be satisfy with the answer. And also man always make mistakes...woman has to accept that especially to those man who is trying their best to make a woman happy.

 

[Italianguy]

You are the best Husband ever....And thanks for the advice

Btw what has happen to your wife's friend ZAINAB??? No new story on them...??;D

Thanks, you are as well,..... or will be?

Yeah, i guess they haven't really done anything crazy enough lately;D
Zainab had to go back to California wih her husaband for a week, a little while ago, to take care of their old home.

Zainab has been comming back over to the house more and now her sister is here (she brought her back for awhile) but she doesn't speak much English So only my wife and Zainab conversate with her....i just smile and wave:welcome:

 

[S_87]

Is this really true? Ladies, please tell me? I thought if you don't agree to the woman's point of view then you can either forget about the food or you gotta sleep on the couch. :heated:

Do all women just wanna blabber without any concern for winning the argument? :nervous:

it depends on what the view is, on both sides there must be limits, a husband must know the wife has opinions and feelings and the wife must remember the importance of obedience towards her husband.

 

[★ηαѕιнα★]

true...everyone need a shoulder to cry on . but i've give up :X i only cry to Allah swt...no one seems can comfort me enough...so i rather cry on the prayer map by myself huhu

That cant be true sis. Dont you have any good friend to talk too??

I fight with my dad let alone my future husband

 

[Snowflake]

i don't think for those who talk alot... pausing for breath is an option. :exhausted

lol you're right sis! I envy sisters who could talk non stop mashaAllah

My convos can put people to sleep. Or give them a good giggle at my ignorance lol


Here's an example of a recent convo with my brothers:

Me: Do mobile fone batteries give off radiation?

Bro 1: *looks slightly gobsmacked*

Bro 2: *looks perplexed*

Bro 1: Not really...

Bro 2: They might..

Me: So which part of the mobile gives off radiation then??? *feeling unsatisfied my mind isn't being given satisfactory input*

Bro 2: radiation is everywhere...

Me: :? *wonders where exactly is "everywhere"*

Bro 2 continues..: back ground radiation from the sun is always present in the atmosphere

Me: Oh! so there's radiation in space? :hiding:

Bros: *crack up ;D* no there's no atmosphere in space *DUH*

Me: I thought space was atmosphere

Bros: ;D No

Bro 1: I think she means 'atmosphere' as in 'vibe, feeling' etc

Me: No! I mean atmosphere as in gases and stuff. That is atmosphere too! ffended:

Bro 2: No 'lol'....

Me: :-\

Bro 2: Some devices give off more radiation than others. *gives examples of gamma rays - x-rays, ultraviolet rays, radiation in microwaves etc, electrical devices and so forth..

Me: *listens attentively - hungry for knowledge*

Bro 1: begins to dose off...

Bro 2: *gives few more details which I can't remember and points to Bro 1 saying he knows more about these things than him*

Me: *Looks over at other bro to see his eyes firmly shut and goes off to make food for everyone*


Is this a normal convo for a woman? :?:embarrass


I hate talking about clothes, shopping, the weather eurgh! But I learnt something here. I should marry a GEEK who'd be happy to answer all my questions on anything and everything! ;D

*suddenly feels like the most boring person alive : ((*




:wa:

 

[bewildred]

Well, well, I've read your posts with a great interest. I found them pretty caricaturistic and overwhelmingly testosteron-centered. Y'all are too rude to us women.

I married a very wonderful man. We get along very well (mashallah). We happen to argue every now and then but it never lasts long because I'm ALWAYS right! Guys have the tendency to watch a stupid game exactly when they know we're gonna watch our fave tv show. The problem is understanding us. For you, we go to the mall. In fact we go to the maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall for we need to analyse every merchandise before we purchase the perfect item. You think we are superficial for we allegedly give importance to things you judge as futile. We give you the honor of sharing our daily emotional turmoils and our frequent feuds with our girlfriends just to make you feel important and involved in our lives.

I hope I convinced you that the idea you have on us women is totally wrong,lols.

 

[Cabdullahi]

Well, well, I've read your posts with a great interest. I found them pretty caricaturistic and overwhelmingly testosteron-centered. Y'all are too rude to us women.

I married a very wonderful man. We get along very well (mashallah). We happen to argue every now and then but it never lasts long because I'm ALWAYS right! Guys have the tendency to watch a stupid game exactly when they know we're gonna watch our fave tv show. The problem is understanding us. For you, we go to the mall. In fact we go to the maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall for we need to analyse every merchandise before we purchase the perfect item. You think we are superficial for we allegedly give importance to things you judge as futile. We give you the honor of sharing our daily emotional turmoils and our frequent feuds with our girlfriends just to make you feel important and involved in our lives.

I hope I convinced you that the idea you have on us women is totally wrong,lols.

the above post is testimony to what we males believe...if they can't go to the MAAAAAAAAAALL! :raging:

they'll nag and call you BAAAAAAALD! all day and make you feel angry for the rest of the week

im afraid its the shocking truth :hmm:

 

[Italianguy]

the above post is testimony to what we males believe...if they can't go to the MAAAAAAAAAALL! :raging:

they'll nag and call you BAAAAAAALD! all day and make you feel angry for the rest of the week

im afraid its the shocking truth :hmm:

Fight all you want bro......I am on my way to the mallimsad with 5 women yaking at me;D And yes Zainab is one of them:hmm:

Hmmmm 2 Christians 4 Muslims and nobody speaks the same language?....I am in for a treat today:embarrass

 

[★ηαѕιнα★]

the above post is testimony to what we males believe...if they can't go to the MAAAAAAAAAALL! :raging:

they'll nag and call you BAAAAAAALD! all day and make you feel angry for the rest of the week

im afraid its the shocking truth :hmm:

I dont agree with sis above, not ALL women love going to the mall. Not me anyway, so theres definetly exceptions for the rule. And why should you be angry because you couldnt go to the mall? Theres more days in the year sis..

 

[bewildred]

lols.....;D

My post was very ironic. Everyone says "You women"...."You guys".....As though we were all alike. The gender battle will always feed debates and convos.

But it pleases men to see us with a condescending eye. Let's not contradict them,lol.

 

[Cabdullahi]

I dont agree with sis above, not ALL women love going to the mall. Not me anyway, so theres definetly exceptions for the rule. And why should you be angry because you couldnt go to the mall? Theres more days in the year sis..

Our first female whistle-blower mashallah....

 

[Italianguy]

Our first female whistle-blower mashallah....

Waaaaa Hooooooooo!!! We got one on our team;D

NAA NAAAAA NA BOO BOOOOOOO!!!!! She's onnnnnn ourrrrr sideeeeeeee;D

 

[bewildred]

When said with such a mature way, it sounds like a huge victory. ;D

 

[zakirs]

Thank you for ur post,

Sis how do you feel about hijab or how does one man approach a woman ( say his sister or a relative ) on the issue of hijab.

Men only need three things in their life , Food , TV/PC , bed/sofa . They are SIMPLE

 

[Cabdullahi]

Thank you for ur post,

Sis how do you feel about hijab or how does one man approach a woman ( say his sister or a relative ) on the issue of hijab.

Men only need three things in their life , Food , TV/PC , bed/sofa . They are SIMPLE

Women are also simple we cannot compare our sisters to western women who like shoes,bags and clothing making them materialists..and our sisters are not like that!

 

[Ibn Abi Ahmed]

I believe the following image accurately depicts the differences between men and women. Please observe:

 

[bewildred]

Ahem.....you also need women......hew

 

[bewildred]

I believe the following image accurately depicts the differences between men and women. Please observe:

I know that map quite well *whistling and looking on the roof*