Todays husbands/wives (Not literally)

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Umma Wasat said:
Today's men allow their wives to attend unIslamic functions, to intermingle with men, and reveal their honour. Haven't they heard the saying of the Prophet (SAW), who declared: "A man's sins are as great as his wife's ignorance"? If he argues that he cannot control her actions, then woe onto him! The Messenger of Allah clearly stated that "whoever is submissive to the likes and dislikes of a woman will be thrown by Allah into Hell," and "Shame on a man who becomes his wife's slave." [Al-Firdausi]

And the wives who allow their husbands to play with Riba, and watch adulterous movies. Indeed, the first account a woman will have on the Day of Judgement is that over her husband.

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In today's world a lot of women feel they have equal right to make their own choices without the need for permission from their husband.

If a woman in her nature feels this way, then any harmony between them is in serious trouble if he starts saying 'I forbid you do to xyz !! '

Thats not to say he wrong to do that, just that there is more than one way to stop this and personally i think a better approach for both men and women to each other when the other is doing something anti-islamic is to provide daleel , to be kind, to be patient, to encourage the opposite type of behaviour and to show disapproval for other actions. We also have to bear in mind all the hadith about treating wives well and wives obeying husbands, so its not as straightforward I would think as going and having a shouting match which will be the inevitable result of trying to 'control' each others actions.
No one likes to feel controlled man or woman, if it is done it should be done subtly with patience and guidance and respect for each other. The couple should have a better communication strategy than to just give orders to one another.

Allahu ahlam

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