That's fine. Honorable even. It just seems to be the exception.
Theists define outside of theism any group that engages in behavior later deemed to be considered anti-thetical to the theism in question. For instance, Hitler was not banished from the Catholic Church (the Vatican) at all during his reign. Only AFTER he was vanquished and only after the world expressed outrage at his acts of brutality, and only AFTER the deaths of over 20 million people in WW2 did the theists start to argue that "Hitler wasn't religious".
Yes he was. And his totalitarian views and hatreds grew from his religious upbringing.
This is merely an expansion of Jaques Maritains ill-conceived notion that if one is not a Catholic, one is an atheist by definition, and if one is an atheist by definition, one is also mentally insane by definition. Hitler was religious, he proclaimed it publically, and theists can claim he wasn't until the sun goes out and it won't change the fact that he was.
We are seeing the same thing with Islam now -- "Oh," they cry, "These terrorists hijacked and perverted Islam".
Well, no they didn't. One can make the case that the Quran calls for jihad against the infidel. Moslems have also to come to grips with the fact that their religious views can be a wellspring of divisiveness and hatred. Any belief system that asserts, "Believe in this or be condemned to everlasting torment" will have precisely such an effect.
Then how does one reconcile that with:
1. Qur'an & Sunnah [Examples of Islam's "light of justice and glory."]:
o Say: "You people! I am God's emissary to you all..." —Qur'an 7:158
o Fight against such of those to whom the Scriptures were given as believe in neither God nor the Last Day, who do not forbid what God and His apostle have forbidden, and do not embrace the true Faith, until they pay tribute out of hand and are utterly subdued. —Qur'an 9:29
o It is He who has sent forth His apostle with guidance and the True Faith that he may exalt it above all religions, though the idolaters abhor it. —Qur'an 9:33
o We have sent you forth to all mankind, so that you may give them good news and forewarn them. But most men have no knowledge. —Qur'an 34:28
o This is but an admonition: an eloquent Koran to exhort the living and to pass judgment on the unbelievers. —Qur'an 36:70
o Allah’s Apostle said, ‘I have been ordered to fight the people till they say: "None has the right to be worshipped but Allah. Whoever says this will save his property and his life from me." —Sahih Bukhari 84.59
2.Sunnah:
o Yahya related to me from Malik from Zayd ibn Aslam that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "If someone changes his deen [faith, religion —ed.] - strike his neck!" —Muwatta Malik 36.18.15
o I would have killed them according to the statement of Allah's Apostle, "Whoever changed his Islamic religion, then kill him." —Sahih Bukhari 84.57
3.Qur'an & Sunnah, et al.:
o Those that believe in God and the Last Day will not beg you to exempt them from fighting with their wealth and with their persons. —Qur'an 9:44
o Therefore fight for the cause of God You are accountable for none but yourself. Rouse the faithful: perchance God will overthrow the might of the unbelievers. Mightier is God and more terrible is His punishment. —Qur'an 4:84
o I heard the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) say: A group of people from my Umma will continue to fight in obedience to the Command of Allah, remaining dominant over their enemies. Those who will oppose them shall not do them any harm. They will remain ill in this condition until the Hour [al-Qiyamah—the Last Day, Day of Judgment —ed.] overtakes them. —Sahih Muslim, 20.4721
o "We are those who have given a pledge of allegiance to Muhammad that we will carry on Jihad as long as we live." —Bukhari, 4.87
o Defense of Muslim Lands, Ch. 4, Sheikh Abduallh Azzam
o A bearded young man named Nurullah, introducing himself as a student, pointed to a fresh board nearby that has been prepared for the names of the latest martyrs, men who died fighting with the Taliban after Sept. 11, and said, "Jihad will continue until doomsday, or until America is defeated, either way." —Bin Laden Stirs Struggle on Meaning of Jihad, NY Times, January 27, 2002
As you do, I live in the U.S. where our secular laws prevent anyone from forcing religion on anyone else. Freedom of religion is default freedom from religion.
There is no state mandated religion which does in fact compel religious belief.