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You're married and post on forums;

Does your husband/wife mind; you 'talking' to sisters/brothers?

because let's face it, this forum is more 'chit chat' then actually 'discussing' topics.

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I think if I was married I wouldnt let my wife talk on the net in anyway to strangers at all....sounds harsh but you cant be to reckless ..and in return I would cease activites like forums talking on msn with strangers and so on regardless of them being of the same gender...
 
hafizmo said:
I think if I was married I wouldnt let my wife talk on the net in anyway to strangers at all....sounds harsh but you cant be to reckless ..and in return I would cease activites like forums talking on msn with strangers and so on regardless of them being of the same gender...
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^ I think that its fair if a husband or wife wants their spouse to end "chit chatting" online the spouse stops as well
 
Khadeejah said:
^ I think that its fair if a husband or wife wants their spouse to end "chit chatting" online the spouse stops as well
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well thats for anything in life really the way I see it if I want my kids to do something e.g perform salaah or read quraan then I should be an example and do it with them .....or if I wish for my kids not to do something then I myself must refrain from the same thing e.g swearing/cursing....and that goes for the husband/wife thing too...its only fair...I cant expect her to stop internet "fraternizing" if I'm doing the same thing........that would just be wrong....
 
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whats wrong with sisters talknig to sisters on msn etc?

forums ok but talking to members of opposite gender on msn etc. is different.
well to me anyway
 
I mean, I would choose my spuse wisely, so that if they are on these sites etc. they would remain loyal and have Taqwaa....Why should you always have the constant feeling that ur wife/husband is chatting to men/women
 
Beware of intermingling with the oposite sex..& from irrelevant idle talk...
"Four Rules of Communication:
1... Is it true?
2... Is it necessary?
3... Is the motive pure?
4... Is it beneficial?
If you can't say 'yes' to all of them, then say nothing at all"

Ibn 'Umar reported that the Prophet (Pbuh) said: "Do not indulge in empty, useless talk without the rememberance of Allah, for excessive talk without Allah's rememberance hardens the heart; and the person farthest from Allah is the one who has a hard heart"
 
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When i joined i didn't think that there was going to be married people on the forum i thought that it was more for teenagers. But if i was married i don't think that i would be on here
 
Sister i still would have been? shall i tell you why...well gaining and seeking dawah is a act that can be carried out at ALL ages...if your intentions are impure and you enter this site to free-mix with the oposite sex and to cause coruption then Astaghfirullullah...your intetions MUST be pure!! WalaykumAsalaam x
 
Salaam,
You never know i might still be here then but i doubt it i normally won't stick to any forum for long so lets see how long I last here.
 
Neither do i...for several reasons which i dont wish to disclose...but my point being i think married girlies or boys can visit forums because if their intentions are pure and they are willing to gain knowlegde and give dawah i think thats very good MashAllah...WalaykumAsalaam x
 
Salaam.

I would keep my wife at home at all times with a wireless fence around the entire house barring all sorts of communication. I'd also have the lamposts and certain objects outside the house rigged with wireless cameras giving live feed to my notebook at work.
 
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Salaam.

I would keep my wife at home at all times with a wireless fence around the entire house barring all sorts of communication. I'd also have the lamposts and certain objects outside the house rigged with wireless cameras giving live feed to my notebook at work.
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a wireless fence? wireless cameras? everything wireless has some sort of wires somewhere......... and I think thats waay to harsh......she is your wife and not your slave if you dont trust her then who will??
 
Wow talk about protective husband style ...Lovin' it bruv...erm by the way you forgot the handcuffs and the electric chair...i mean she might try to communicate with guests hai hai what you going to do then??...WalaykumAsalaam x
 
Salaam.

'if you dont trust her then who will?'

Really, funny you should say that.
 
Z said:
Salaam.

'if you dont trust her then who will?'

Really, funny you should say that.
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why funny? its true if you dont show you trust her by going through extreme measures she might decide to find someone who actually does trust her.......
 
hafizmo said:
a wireless fence? wireless cameras? everything wireless has some sort of wires somewhere......... and I think thats waay to harsh......she is your wife and not your slave if you dont trust her then who will??
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hafizmo is right.........if theres no trust.......then where's the love??
 
Salaam.

And she'd understand why she isn't allowed on the Internet and allowed to browse boards and forums?
 

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