unhappy convert

Conversion one religion to another religion is making people shock is drastic
but anyway slowly they can accept ya religion cause they cant do anything...
if u r new muslim dont be scared...Allah is watching....not much people can see the light...except the chosen one...beCause Allah love the chosen and put into track of Allah....no any differences new convert and inheritance muslim....as long as ya faith is to Allah....! the Conversion to new religion has lotsa tEst from Allah...and he is testing our faith to Allah...!....dont be scarEd....remain as low profile as yourself...and pray to God... silently....but u can tell ya parents i had change my eating habit i dont eat pork...and i dont drink liquor...or beer...
but in Future at least need to tell ya family slowly...and gentle way....if they anti or discriminate you...just runaway for few month and get along with ya brother/sister in islam for temporary shelther and just get some ZakAt from mosque(masjid)...just some money or get in Baitul mal for money,is for new convert people....jusT be strong and patience....! insyaallah.:sl::D
 
sis much has been said, so lemme just pray sincerely for ur hapiness, strength n Iman..

Be true to urself, do wats right n try to ignore wat others think cz Allah will judge ur actions by ur intentions nt anyone else's..

Ol d best!!
 
Sister,

I agree with Niler, alot of beneficial advice has been provided by other brothers and sisters so I will only contribute via dua and that is I pray that Allah SWT will strengthen you and those around you and make amongst the ranks of the believers.
"Once you gain the pleasure of ALLAH SWT, ALLAh SWT will make those around you pleased with you"!
 
just always keep ur head up.. n dont let anyone make u think that ur fake or watever.. as long as u believe in ur self.n in allah that wat all matter. :) n inshallah everything would work out for u. well good luck
 
You came to the right place for advice and consolation sis! there are so many recent and not so recent reverts here with similar stories. I hope they will be of help to you insha Allah.
 
Sister,

I would like to remind you of our Prophet Noah, who faced many hardships in his time. He was beaten and insulted, and his obstacles far outnumber yours and mine. Keep in mind sister that the pious Muslim/Muslimah wants hardships to befall them. The more patient we are in obeying Allah tabarak wa ta^ala the more thawab we recieve. There is a story about a man, who would every Friday after prayer donate 101 dollars. He would take a hundred dollar bill and hide it inside of a dollar bill and drop it off. Every Friday, the Shaykh would wonder who placed the hundred dollar bill in the box. The people when they would see this man, they would say, "look at this rich man, with all of his wealth, he only donates one dollar." When that man died, his wife went to the Shaykh and she told him that her husband was the one who was donating the hundred dollars every week. In the end sister, insincerity is the last sin a person loses before reachign the level of waliyy. It is a very hard sin to lose because we must constantly watch ourselves and make sure that what we do is done for the sake of Allah only. Sister, there are many communities which do not prejudge the person. However, I do not ask you to rush to those communities. I ask you to test your patience, and your devotion to this great religion. To worship Allah, love his Prophets, and learn the creed. I will keep you in my du^aa. Let me know if you need anything more.

Muhammadiyoon
 
Asalam aliakum Sister,
As a convert too I feel the same in some ways. But inside I know who I am pleasing and who I want to do things for and it is Allah.
There are alot of reverts that I have met in the same situation and feel like under same scrutiny. And unfortunately I don't have answers since I am still on a learning path.
Just be true to your heart and do things for Allah, and I beleive things will become easier in time. Try to pray the Salat every day and pray that Allah will ease this situation for you and he will.
Take Care Sister and InshAllah things will get easier for you and your husband.
 
Salam Sister
I am really shocked to learn how those Muslim-from-birth treat you. Least they could do was welcome you. Like Niler said, much has been said on the topic. I pray that things will be better for you and your family.
 
Can I suggest you join a camp or full time course in cairo where you are separated from your husband for a few weeks or days. Your faith so far has been a joint venture in a way. I think that is why you are confused. Your confidence and faith appears to be shaken. You need to get a way from the questionning and find the inner strengeth to deel with them including your husband. To do this you need to ecertain yourself. I think you doing something ike this might help.

Ive never been to cairo but I always gettold of amazing courses there or in other parts of Egypt. Or you could travel further. Pack your bags, go and learn... and get closer to God. I think maybe when you do something- e.g if you wear a hijab wou might yourself not be sure if your doing it for you or your husband...due to the questionning from others. You two need a break- go make some more friends and do a course somewhere else so you can get closer to god without distractions.
 

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