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~Sam~ said:
Why are you interferring for?
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seeming i use 2 go oxford last year then did a transfer now i am at imperial i knw what courses u can and cant do there

thats what u do when u care for a friend ..... he lies through his front teeth and if she cant c that im not going to let him make a fool of an innocent girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Chill out will you?. If you tried your best and she neglected the fact then why carry on trying?

Ever heard of a dog barking and when does it stop when it's thirsty. Leave her, let her inspire her so called 'Boyfriend' and then she will come running to you. Maybe they might change once they get married to each other or there is a chance for them to sort things out on there 'Own'.
 
True but this girl has had so many bad things happen 2 her in the past......

i dont wanna pik up the pieces in the end ...'best before neva'
 
yh, i agree with Sam, you've tried helping her out but she aint listening so y waste your time to someone who's not listening to you, i wouldn't.No women deserves a man like that.
 
1 time when they were meant 2 go to an islamic conference 2getha he came up with this story that his grandmother died and a week later same thing again but this time is mother.....and i know his mother or grandmother didnt die because i have seen them before.........
i tell her he is lieing but she says im jelous which is funi.....
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Next time you see them, take a photo of them and show it to her.
 
Yong_Sista you are very keen on helping your friend. This friend of yours is not your true friend because she's ignoring you. If she was a real friend to you she would not have the guts to ignore a friend rather listen to them and sort the situation out. Your so called 'friend' has the nerve to to pull the attitude out and start firing others. She needs to learn about love and not take it as a joke. Well they both need to!

You may think i need to fix up but i don't because you are stressing over a selfish friend of yours, She is very selfish and letting you get involved in this issue aswel. Once a person neglects you then the offer comes to say 'Feed your ownself love'. Just leave her and leave him to there self.

It's time for her to grow up!
 
Seeing as her friend has made so many excuses before she could easily say that the pic was taken before they died.
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Well than she can take the parents/grandmother to visit her g/f and when she tells them that her bf told her that they had died,the guy will probably end up losing his parents for real and will end up without a wife and parents.
 
All too often when we try to help a friend, we are placing ourselves in the position of becoming an enabler and without realizing it have given them the means to continue with their wrongs. Usually this need only be moral support. Unitentionaly you are giving your friend emotional support to carry on. she has no need of feeling guilt or shame as emotionaly you have assumed that burdan for her and placed her in the posistion she has no need to fear what she does as you have taken on the responsibility of protecting her from her self.

There is times you need to stop trying to teach a friend how to swim. There is a time you need to let them know if they wander into the deep end of the pool they better be ready to swim, because the life guard is off today.
 
looks like she wants to learn stuff the hard way, well then let her!

i know many ppl who get things come easy to them but they choose to go the hard way, fearing that they might loose out on something.

Her best cure is time, when it all comes back to her face then she will realize how you were trying to help her. Right now even if she does litsen to you which may be unlikely she will always blame you for loosing the guy, unless she gets to see teh other side of him herself.

If she rather go through this herself than simply beleiving you, then i think she is a fool and ppl like her need to then learn a lesson for next time.
 
Salamualikum.

Wow OMG!! Sam has been neat down here. Masha'Allaah go on then sister


There is a time you need to let them know if they wander into the deep end of the pool they better be ready to swim, because the life guard is off today.
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Well said Nan agree.

Ma'assalama
 

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