we need many du'as

AnonymousGender said:
hello glo,

actually my past has taught me what to look for, and i am seeing nothing different in my daughter. usually if she is telling a lie, she is almost pulling her clothes off, but when she tells the truth there is no fidgetting or pulling. and she always looks me in the eye when it's truth. but with her lies i get no eye contact which is what i get when i ask her about what happened. this is all just making my husband and i so crazy and stressed. our home is not a home anymore. it's too quiet. it has been 8 days since my children were taken from me and not 1 day passes that i dont cry. i am always asking Allah to guide my daughter to the truth and to help us. i have faith that he will. he has already helped twice in this mess. 1st he made it so i could give the children to their grandparents who live just across the street. and the doctor found no evidence which i have been praying for.

God bless u too dearheart
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Sometimes trusting in God and waiting for his next move is all we can do - even if we yearn to see some action now and have instant solutions.
It is not in our human nature to wait for things patiently - especially when we are hurting or in fear!

I don't think I can give you any more advice sister, and yet I feel an urge to continue posting to you ... just so you know that I am thinking of you. That's all I can do, and it's very little ...

I'm glad to see you holding on to the positive things. Don't lose hope!

peace :)
 
Asalamu Alaikum Sis,

i too am worried how i will react if the children are ever allowed to come back home and my husband is found innocent. my youngest has put such a depression on me, i dont know if i will ever shake it.
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Do not worry too much sis... this will all pass. Kids do all sorts of things... I'm sure she didn't realize what she was doing... don't forget she's still a little girl. A girl who has been influenced by the bad apples of society. Nothing that you cannot fix.

I'm sure you try to teach them about Islam... but, I think it's very important that they understand the values Islam teaches about family and kinship. I hope and pray that Allah guides them to Islam as that will create a better bond between the family; because they will not be joined by family bonds but by faith as well.

Trust in Allah to help you through this... If I were you.. I would encourage the oldest daughter to embrace Islam and be an example for the other sisters to follow. But, that is all up to Allah. Inshallah, everything will turn out for the best.

Stay strong sis... don't forget the power of Duah.

w'salaamz,
Hamid
 
salam everyone,

i would like to thank everyone for their help. especially glo, fi_sabilillah (spelling?) hamid, and F.Y.
may Allah bless you all for your kindness and the advice you give to your Ummah.
i am going to do whatever it takes to clear my husbands name and to bring our family back together.
glo, even though u think your help is very little, your posts have made me feel better, you have a very kind heart. may Allah reward you for your good deeds.
hamid, your posts have also helped me in ways i find difficult to express. may Allah continue to guide you, save you from the punishment of the grave and grant you jannatu firdows. ameen ameen ameen.
thank you all for your prayers and du'as on my behalf.
i love you all for the sake of Allah.

w'salam
 
Wa Alaykum wa salaam sister

I am so sorry to hear what has happened to your family. I hope that everything will turn out all right.

Insha'allah I will make dua for you and your husband. I will remember you in my prayers.

Wa salaam
 

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