Thanaa
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Salaamu Aleikum.
I was wondering if anyone here can offer me advice?
As you probably already know, my parents hate Islam, and I'm not keen on them. My Dad is really pressuring me to leave at the moment-he keeps texting me and telling me that he's going to throw me out at some point in the near future, but her never gives a date.
I pay my parents £200 a month, as well as £106 for my car loan and money towards other things like my fuel, so I have no money for the deposit on a flat. I've looked for bedsits too, but even for a skanky rubbish room, I still need to pay a months deposit and a months rent in advance.
Getting married isn't really an option, and its going to take me a good few months for me to even begin setting up a jewellery making business, due to time and lack of funds.
There are no adverts for Islamic flatshares in my area at all, and even then, I'd need to pay a deposit...
I have no idea what to do.
I don't want to carry on living at home, but I can hardly live in my car either (well, I could, but how long would I keep my job for if I turned up all messy and smelly in the morning?)
I could support myself through selling Islamic clothing, etc. but I'd need to be out of my parents house before I can do that, so I'm back to square one.
My jobs sucks, and I can't practice my religion there.
I have absolutely no way to be a practicing Muslimah.
It's becoming harder and harder for me to function as a person, and I have no idea what I'm supposed to do with myself.
x-posted to The United Muslimahs, sorry if you see it twice.
I was wondering if anyone here can offer me advice?
As you probably already know, my parents hate Islam, and I'm not keen on them. My Dad is really pressuring me to leave at the moment-he keeps texting me and telling me that he's going to throw me out at some point in the near future, but her never gives a date.
I pay my parents £200 a month, as well as £106 for my car loan and money towards other things like my fuel, so I have no money for the deposit on a flat. I've looked for bedsits too, but even for a skanky rubbish room, I still need to pay a months deposit and a months rent in advance.
Getting married isn't really an option, and its going to take me a good few months for me to even begin setting up a jewellery making business, due to time and lack of funds.
There are no adverts for Islamic flatshares in my area at all, and even then, I'd need to pay a deposit...
I have no idea what to do.
I don't want to carry on living at home, but I can hardly live in my car either (well, I could, but how long would I keep my job for if I turned up all messy and smelly in the morning?)
I could support myself through selling Islamic clothing, etc. but I'd need to be out of my parents house before I can do that, so I'm back to square one.
My jobs sucks, and I can't practice my religion there.
I have absolutely no way to be a practicing Muslimah.
It's becoming harder and harder for me to function as a person, and I have no idea what I'm supposed to do with myself.
x-posted to The United Muslimahs, sorry if you see it twice.
