What do you look for in a woman or man?

[Amat Allah]

I do not care about his shape ,appearance, nationality , social stature, color, height or weigh, but I hope to find someone who fears Allah , knows his way to the mosque , understanding,honest and want him to share with me every moment of his life no matter what it will be to him, silly or important ,sad or happy and never feel shy of me , I want him to love all the people around the world no matter who they are and be modest. I want him to love kids and want him to be my everything , not only a husband but also friend who I can trust and return to after Allah , I want him to correct me whenever I am wrong and teach me the right with out being haughty and may Allah make me good to deserve someone like this and make me able to make that person happy always and for ever no matter what because pleasing the husband is from pleasing Allah...

and at the end , you will be married to whom Allah wrote for you no matter what and you might thinking now about some characters and later marrying something else and might love that person more than what you have dreamed of more than anything , no body knows ,everything is in Allah`s hand and I am begging Allah to grant each one of you the perfect loving caring and well- mannered one who fears Allah and make you happy always and for ever and to be with each other in the highest levels of the paradise with out being reckoning Ameeeeen

take care of your selves...

 

[omar ibrahim]

What about bad Muslims? They want to marry a person who doesn't love Allah though that person may have a good character?
So to you, a good character is only someone who loves Allah?

no not just loves Allah,all people except atheist and some agnostic say we love Allah just as you say you love God ^^ .Good character means honest ,trustworthy kind etc,moreover being a good muslim praying 5 salat not drinking keep the commandments of Allah loves the prophets.

 

[Amat Allah]

good and bad are every where , I met many non muslims and they were amazing ma shaa Allah and whether we were muslims or non , good or bad may Allah guide us all to the path of the endless and real happiness Ameeen

and my noble and respected EllyDicious , I think our brother above meant something else but you understood it in a different way ...

please don`t fight, we are all brothers and sisters in this world no matter what ok?:statisfie

 

[Jennie]

- She dress modestly.
- She don't use drugs and she isn't alcoholistic.
- She wants adopt. If she already have child, that's okay.
- She isn't very fat.
- She must be intelligent and honest.
- She is educated.
- It feels good to be with her.
- We have something common.

 

[Asiyah3]

- She dress modestly.
- She don't use drugs and she isn't alcoholistic.
- She wants adopt. If she already have child, that's okay.
- She isn't very fat.
- She must be intelligent and honest.
- She is educated.
- It feels good to be with her.
- We have something common.

If I may ask, are you a male?

 

[Jennie]

No. I'm lesbian.
Hope you haven't any problem with that.

 

[Asiyah3]

No. I'm lesbian.
Hope you haven't any problem with that.

Not at all. However, are you aware that homosexual acts are prohibited in Islam? My duty is only to spread the knowledge. As in the end, it's in the hand of the person whether to obey or disobey Allah and His messenger SAAS.


Whoever does good, it is for his own soul, and whoever does evil, it is against it; and your Lord is not in the least unjust to his servants. [41:46]

We have shown him the way, whether he be grateful or ungrateful. [76:4]

Verily this is an Admonition: therefore whoso will let him take a (straight) path to his Lord! [73:19]

 

[Jennie]

_muslim_: Yes, I do know what Quran says about homosexuality acts. But it don't worry me, I don't believe that Allah would disapprove me cause of that.
As you might know, this is what I've born.

Huh?...are you Muslim if I may ask?

I would like to have a muslimpartner, but I don't see EllyDicious (or anyone) bad muslim if she chooses non-muslim partner!

 

[Asiyah3]

As you might know, this is what I've born.

Feelings might not always be a 'choice' or a result of our actions, but homosexual acts will always be the individual's choice unless someone is holding a gun at you.

 

[S<Chowdhury]

- She dress modestly.
- She don't use drugs and she isn't alcoholistic.
- She wants adopt. If she already have child, that's okay.
- She isn't very fat.
- She must be intelligent and honest.
- She is educated.
- It feels good to be with her.
- We have something common.

^^^^^ hey that's some of the qualities i want, gd choices ;D

 

[marwen]

_muslim_: Yes, I do know what Quran says about homosexuality acts. But it don't worry me, I don't believe that Allah would disapprove me cause of that.
As you might know, this is what I've born.

I would like to have a muslimpartner, but I don't see EllyDicious (or anyone) bad muslim if she chooses non-muslim partner!

What's going on !
Ok, i'll be glad if homosexual thoughts are not discussed in this forum please. Not to offend, but it's against Islam.

 

[Abdul Wahid]

This hadith for me is sufficient when I choose a partner.

Abu Hurairah related that the Prophet Muhammad said: “Men choose women for four reasons: for their money, for their rank, for their beauty and for their religion, but marry one who is religious and you will succeed” (Bukhari, Muslim).

Most of us don't look even bother looking at religion; sometimes its the last thing on our minds.

Alhumdulillah I will choose someone first & foremost for their deen. That's what is important to me. Another thing I will look at is character. Character is important.

InshaALLAH those of us that are not married find suitable pious partners. Ameen.

:wa:

 

[S<Chowdhury]

What's going on !
Ok, i'll be glad if homosexual thoughts are not discussed in this forum please. Not to offend, but it's against Islam.

^^^ That constitutes homo thoughts LOOOL haha , oh jeeeez she was merely replying back to the question with a lil bit of her own opinion

 

[aadil77]

'Abdullah b. Amr reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: The whole world is a provision, and the best object of benefit of the world is the pious woman. Muslim (Book #008, Hadith #3465)

 

[Jennie]

Feelings might not always be a 'choice' or a result of our actions, but homosexual acts will always be the individual's choice unless someone is holding a gun at you.

Right, I mean that I can't change my feelings. I admit, that's my choice if I act homosexuality. And I don't find that wrong so I won't cover or avoid that.
I anyone of you have some problem with my sexuality, remember: those are your problem, not mine.

What's going on !
Ok, i'll be glad if homosexual thoughts are not discussed in this forum please. Not to offend, but it's against Islam.

Maybe, but homosexuality is still legal.

 

[aadil77]

Right, I mean that I can't change my feelings. I admit, that's my choice if I act homosexuality. And I don't find that wrong so I won't cover or avoid that.
I anyone of you have some problem with my sexuality, remember: those are your problem, not mine.


Maybe, but homosexuality is still legal.

not in islam, people should not reveal their sins whether muslim or not, this is because they are between you and god

 

[Nájlá]

I haven't read the whole thread.... But i saw a post in the first few pages about 'a women who is always moaning' and this reminded me of an email i got.

Sorry not really related to the thread and its in arabic but found it funny =D

من يعتقد ان الزوجة النكدية ليس لها فوائد فهو مخطئ

فللزوجة النكدية فوائد كثيرة ومن أهمها:


تجعل لسان الزوج رطب بذكر الله

طول اليوم قاعد يدعي حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل


تساعد الزوج على غض البصر لأنه سوف يكره صنف الحريم


تساعد الزوج على صلة الرحم

لأنه على طول هربان عند أمه


تساعد الزوج على أن يحافظ على وزنه ورشاقة جسمه

لأنه دائما ً نفسه مسدودة عن الأكل


وأخيراً ،تجعل من زوجها رجلاً عظيماً

فبسبب قرفه وزهقه منها ، سوف يقضي وقتا ً أطول في العمل

مما يجعله إنسانا ً ناجحاً في عمله ويحقق المثل القائل:

"وراء كل رجل عظيم إمرأة"

 

[Darth Ultor]

We don't all speak Arabic, please translate.

 

[Dagless]

We don't all speak Arabic, please translate.

I think its enjoyable in all languages. It goes black, then blue, then purple... then blue, then purple, then blue... and just when you think its over... bang... it hits you with the red (that was my favourite part... I really was not expecting it).

 

[PouringRain]

I think its enjoyable in all languages. It goes black, then blue, then purple... then blue, then purple, then blue... and just when you think its over... bang... it hits you with the red (that was my favourite part... I really was not expecting it).

Oh my! I think this is the funniest thing I have read all day. ;D :bump1: :giggling: