Like some sisters have already said, how the day normally goes by depends on the woman and her situation. I can only account for myself, and my days are almost never the same, but then nothing is ever the same and making plans is something you have to learn to forget all about when you have a baby! My day is usually about keeping the baby happy, the house clean and the fridge full for when my husband comes home. I usually try to get the grocery shopping and cleaning done before lunch so I'll have time to play with my daughter in the afternoon. But like I said, you can make all the plans you like, and nothing turns out the way you want them to with a baby around. Some days she's just tired and whiny and have a tummy ache or whatever, so I don't get anything done.
My husband is wonderful, mashaAllah, and he helps me when he can. He does the dishes sometimes, takes out the trash and he's vacuumed the apartment a couple of times when the baby was really small. He also helps me with her, coz otherwhise I'd never get any cooking done or have any showers....