What is Women Role in Islam?

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Abu Umamah Al-Bahili (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said,

"I guarantee a house in Jannah for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right; and I guarantee a home in the middle of Jannah for one who abandons lying even for the sake of fun; and I guarantee a house in the highest part of Jannahfor one who has good manners.''

[Abu Dawud]

 
sweet106 said:
subhanallah, you dont know his record! lol @ you support his racist attitude!
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Salaam,

From my experience, most Pakistanis are racist. They wouldn't want their daughter to marry a Black or White Muslim man. However, they are fine to see their sons get married to a White Muslim lady. I don't think the Pakistanis that I know are intentionally racist, it is really bizarre.

Oh no, double standards!
 
CosmicPathos;1504595 No need to seek out pious males outside when you have [B said:
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Good day.
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Good luck with that. :statisfie
 
Tragic Typos said:
Salaam,

From my experience, most Pakistanis are racist. They wouldn't want their daughter to marry a Black or White Muslim man. However, they are fine to see their sons get married to a White Muslim lady. I don't think the Pakistanis that I know are intentionally racist, it is really bizarre.

Oh no, double standards!
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haha, you are guilty of being the same what you accuse others of. Yup, no one wants their daughter to go and suffer at the hands of unknown cultures, especially white cultures where promiscuity is commonly accepted, and rightly so. I aint sending my daughter into promiscuous cultures and those with similar values! And I'd ask you when you have daughters!
 
Sweet106- Don't let your emotions take over, nor listen to wiswas of shaytaan also get rid of the feminist propaganda out of your head.

Both men and women are equal in islam, but have different roles to accomplish. When a couple is married, the husband needs to lead and his wife to follow. We men are made to lead, its in our nature. Women need to stay at home, raising up the kids, teaching them properly, while the husband takes care of the income. Women can have their jobs yes, but it can be in their homes or very nearby. Also they need to plan their schedule good how much they work, since she needs to have alot time to raise the children. Women only can go outside with Mahram and only that. Ofcourse there are exceptions. but i'm talking about the normal situation, if you understand me. Fitnah these days is over the top, and i really suggest women to pray for a good husband and stay home. A women's home is her masjid, its her place. Ofcourse she can be outside but with family or husband. Also she can teach her knowledge to other people inside home. This might be sound difficult but it isn't. your thoughts make it harder then it is.

Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers werewomen who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you." (Book #2, Hadith #28)
 
this thread will come back ontopic when cosmicintuition finally comes online... and makes the epic post to end all posts... that is, if the mods havent closed it by then... (don;t close it)

Scimi
 
CosmicPathos said:
haha, you are guilty of being the same what you accuse others of. Yup, no one wants their daughter to go and suffer at the hands of unknown cultures, especially white cultures where promiscuity is commonly accepted, and rightly so. I aint sending my daughter into promiscuous cultures and those with similar values! And I'd ask you when you have daughters!
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Salaam,

Are you saying all white people are promiscuous? What about white Muslims that have converted? If I had a daughter, she would marry a practicing Muslim man. If that Muslim man was white, that would be irrelevant. As long as he prays 5 times a day, fasts and is polite, that is fine.

I have a male relative who married a white Muslim women. They get along very well.

Sorry, you sound racist to me.
 
CosmicPathos said:
that doesnt matter. the fact he chose Ali (ra), someone from his tribe, over others says a lot.

this was my last msg to you.







Good day
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I ask once again, did he REJECT others that were not from his tribe! Did he place level of emphasise on his tribe like you?

Remember last when you were sooo upset that you said you no longer going to reply to me? well you did!
 
Tragic Typos said:
Salaam,

Are you saying all white people are promiscuous? What about white Muslims that have converted? If I had a daughter, she would marry a practicing Muslim man. If that Muslim man was white, that would be irrelevant. As long as he prays 5 times a day, fasts and is polite, that is fine.

I have a male relative who married a white Muslim women. They get along very well.

Sorry, you sound racist to me.
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I didnt say white ppl. I said white cultures. Yes, all cultures of white people are promiscuous on this earth. be it USA, Scandinavia or Australia. You find exceptions at individual levels.


almost all white females (from different cultures! from French to Italian to Irish) in my class dress with toned and tanned calves showing. Show me a white female from white culture in my class who dresses conservatively taking care of hayaa and modesty, I'd accept that I was wrong.
 
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sweet106 said:
where is your future wife?

didnt answer the question on why you still in contact with someone who is not your wife.

:)
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:) does it bug you? What do you know of our situation? Are you jealous? because you sure do sound it... I pray Allah sends you a husband that will be of benefit to your life. How much benefit you will be to him?... well, Insha-Allah is all I can say.

As for CosmicIntuition? When she comes online - you're gonna wish you'd never started this thread... this is why I am not saying much. I am going to give you the opportunity to witness what a true partnership should be like. Something you may not have experienced in your own life. I feel sorry for you. May Allah put kindness and mercy in your heart.

Scimi
 
Asalaamualaikum Brother

Why would you label all whites as the same? I am aware now of a Pakistan Brother who is married but also has sex with Muslima in same Masjid. This sister is not white.
 
CosmicPathos said:
I didnt say white ppl. I said white cultures. Yes, all cultures of white people are promiscuous on this earth. be it USA, Scandinavia or Australia. You find exceptions at individual levels.
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Salaam,

It sounds like broad generalisation. Where's your evidence?
 
Scimitar said:
:) does it bug you? What do you know of our situation? Are you jealous? because you sure do sound it... I pray Allah sends you a husband that will be of benefit to your life. How much benefit you will be to him?... well, Insha-Allah is all I can say.

As for CosmicIntuition? When she comes online - you're gonna wish you'd never started this thread... this is why I am not saying much. I am going to give you the opportunity to witness what a true partnership should be like. Something you may not have experienced in your own life. I feel sorry for you. May Allah put kindness and mercy in your heart.

Scimi
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I am shaking in my boots!
 
From my dua? LOL, ok :)

you really hate men that much?

Scimi
 
sweet106 said:
I was hoping this thread was closed by now tbh.
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Given that the whole thing has veered wildly off-topic, and you as the thread starter feel the thread should be closed, I'm going to lock this thread. If you want it re-opened after a cleanup, PM myself or one of the other moderators for this section.
 
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