Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But an opinion can not be formed by looking at one side of the coin only. Nor can it be formed by asking one side of the coin about the other side. You have to look at both sides, and form your own opinion. Sadly this is where many of us are lacking. If X and Y have a fight, we can not get a complete picture by asking only X, we have to ask both X and Y. We can not say "X says that Y is bad, so Y must be bad".