Love
now here I'm not talking about love after marriage, love for your parents, love for your parents or any other type of halal love
What I'm trying to say here is that having a relationship, loving someone before marriage is the deadliest things tot he heart. This is because when you fall in love (or you think you're in love, as it is hard in the modern society to define the word love) all you think about is that person. You eventually think more and more about that person, your eating routine changes, your sleeping routine changes (you sleep less), eventually its like your worshipping the person you'e in love with, you end up forgetting about your lord. Like in Romeo and Juliet, when I was doing my essay,I wrote about Juliet love for Romeo, I wrote that she is so much in love with him, that she has forgotten god, instead of god she worships Romeo now.
Love can cause many conflicts, it can cause arguments within families, separation from friends, love makes people mad, it drives them crazy, it changes people/
seriously what is the actual meaning of love? the dictionary meaning is no way near to explaining to what love is. Love is the poison which poisons your brain, you entire body, your life. People who are not in love are people who sleep early have restful nights, they are happy and enjoy life. Whereas on the other hand people who are in love tend to restless nights, and tend to cry a lot more then people who are not in love.
I personally believe that love is the deadliest as it can destroy someone's life, I know many peoples whose lives have been destroyed because they have fallen in love with people.
the only true love is love for Allah (swt)
