What will women get in Paradise?

I have always thought that it is unfair that a woman in paradise must share her husband with 70 or 72 hour al-ein. I Dunno.
Anyways, I live in an arab muslim society (Tripoli, Lebanon) and I asked about this and most people I asked don't belive in this and some didn't even know about this.
The people I asked are religious and they practice Islam...so if the idea was correct they would agree with it.
Then I asked a mufti and his answer was that in the Quran it is not mentioned that a man gets 72 virgins. In The Quran it is mentioned that there are young boys who will serve the people of paradise and the Hour Al-Ein are also mentioned. Maybe they are also servants?
The mufti I asked said that the people who believe that a man gets 72 virgins in paradise quote a hadith from the prophet (PBUH) that is weak.
Oh and I wanna say that the people I asked r from 3 different generations...now personally this idea that we don't know if a man gets 72 virgins in paradise made more sense to me. I never liked the idea of a woman sharing her husband even if u say that God removes the jealousy from her heart. Why does God remove the jealousy from a woman's heart instead of removing lust from a man's heart? Ur thoughts plz...
 
asalam alaikum wr wb,

Lara said:
Why does God remove the jealousy from a woman's heart instead of removing lust from a man's heart? Ur thoughts plz...
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What would be the point in having even one wife if Allah was to remove lust from a man's heart? The jannatees hearts will be one, so you might actually be over the moon (lol literally) about your husband having another wife :D

wa alaikum asalam wr wb.
 
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Interesting thread...only one question comes to mind;does a woman have to be with her wordly husband in Heaven,or can she marry another?

Not every woman on this earth who gets married is completly and madly in love with her husband,maybe they married each other out of responsibility,maybe she married him because he was a proper husband,but was never really attracted to him,and she never really "clicked" with him.She only gets her husband in jannah,and that means she gets him,and him only for eternity.Does she have an option,or is it her husband right away?


I'd imagine that if he mistreated her gravely,then he would be in Heaven..

Sorry if I sound a bit pessimistic,I've just been surrounded by a lot of "blank" marriages,where women and men do not seem happy,just...o.k.They married because it was "there time".I do believe that a woman should be the happiest with her husband,but not everyone gets a perfect fairytell ending on this earth.And since we are talking here about jannah and eternity and complete bliss,I wonder if it would be allowed for her to marry another man in jannah.

Sorry if this question is unproper
:w::D
 
"In this question there are two mistakes and a misunderstanding. The first mistake is where the questioner says that in Paradise a man will have seventy hoor ‘iyn. What is proven in the saheeh Sunnah is that the martyr (shaheed) will have seventy-two hoor ‘iyn. The least of the people of Paradise will have two wives, and some will have more than that.

It was narrated that al-Miqdaam ibn Ma’di Yakrib said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The martyr has six blessings with Allaah: he will be forgiven from the first drop of blood shed; he will be shown his place in Paradise; he will be protected from the torment of the grave; he will be safe from the greater terror; a crown of dignity will be placed on his head, one ruby of which is better than this world and everything in it; he will be married to seventy-two wives from al-hoor al-‘iyn; and he will intercede for seventy of his relatives.”

------------------------------------ If the ppl of paradise will be given two wives from the hoor, and the shaheed receives 72, then what about this hadith: And more than that has been narrated. Abu Na’eem narrated in Sifat al-Jannah from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A man will go to one hundred virgins in one day – i.e., in Paradise.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 367. ??
How will they go to one hundred if they only have 2 while the martyrs have 72? I'm just curious lol
 
Sahabiyaat said:
JazakAllah Khair. good post
now i can anwser my sisters never ceasing question 'why cant i have 70 husbands, its not fair!'
why she wants 70 is beyond me :|
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LOL sis IDK why anyone would want 70 husbands.. but then again I also don't know why any man would want 70 wives... =/
 
What I wonder about is how the prophets would have other wives, as in from the hoor.. Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. already had many wives and there was significance in each marriage.. He used to love Aisha r.a. the most so sometimes I wonder how he would have other wives from the hoor, and if he would have them. Idk, like they say, curiousity killed the cat =X
 
I'm sure that the Muslimat will have many times to do things which other men aren't much time consume with it. For example: talking with Malaikat, talking with friends, making a game or an adventure with their friends, reading stories which they make, displaying their work of arts, talking with Jin etc.

Because to men, Jima'(s.intercourse) is like no.1 in their mind, while for women is not no.1 obviously, there are so many things which they will do, like wearing various make up, different fashionable outfit, seeing Allahu Ta'ala etc.

Hadits said that Allahu Ta'ala will give Huurin Iin every time a Muslim(man) hold his anger.


Assalamu'alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.
 
Abdul Thayyib said:
I'm sure that the Muslimat will have many times to do things which other men aren't much time consume with it. For example: talking with Malaikat, talking with friends, making a game or an adventure with their friends, reading stories which they make, displaying their work of arts, talking with Jin etc.

Because to men, Jima'(s.intercourse) is like no.1 in their mind, while for women is not no.1 obviously, there are so many things which they will do, like wearing various make up, different fashionable outfit, seeing Allahu Ta'ala etc.

Hadits said that Allahu Ta'ala will give Huurin Iin every time a Muslim(man) hold his anger.


Assalamu'alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.
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Wa alaikum as salam,
yes I know brother most men are like that, unfortunately.. Anyhow, my question was about the prophets. Since their wives knew about this, didn't they ever ask about it or show some sort of disapproval? Not disapproval in a sense that it's wrong or anything but most likely they might've not liked the idea..
 
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sis confused, whenever u read about the rewards of jannah - they will differ in number depending on the reward the person is getting. i.e. the number 7/70 etc. means 'alot' in arabic, so it is true that a person in higher levels of jannah will have more rewards than a person who is of a lower level.


about the wives of Allah's Messenger (sal Allah alaihi wasalam) not asking, they just wished they could get to jannah. besides, there are no ill feelings in jannah like we know from many verses from qur'an [Hijr 15:45], and alot of women get used to the jealousy in this life, but it [polygamy] is for a greater good [i.e. so the wife can be supported financially, intimately, and in every other way for marriage.]


I'll paste an article on a new thread and link to it here insha Allah on how Allah's Messenger treated jealousy with his wives.

http://ahlalhdeeth.com/vbe/showthread.php?t=519
http://www.ahlalhdeeth.com/vbe/showthread.php?t=1362
 
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So it's like "What so big about love to husband or whatever, Allah's reward and meeting with Him are bigger than that, so what do I mind about Polygyny, I only mind if he does not have the capability and does not able to be fair and treat his wifes as equal. When he does so, I will remind him."
Alhamdulillah, Polygyny is essentially blessings from Allahu Tabaraka Ta’ala.


Assalamu'alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.
 
Women and Men are not Equal. Islaam doesn't regard them as equal.
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Islam regards them as different but no gender is better than the other!!
 
I feel like I am doomed as a sister because I have had 3 muslim husbands and although there were some good times, I was also abused by them. Is there anywhere that states that a woman can have a husband that is better than anything they had on earth? Also, I thought the hoor al 3ayn were not just women.
 
moosa said:
all men will get 72 beautiful women, hoor ‘iyn or only martyres will ger ?
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:salamext:

The martyres get a special rank (so they get 72 hur ul 'ayn) because of how much they sacrificed for Allah's sake.

The average man in jannah will have two wives according to other ahadith. And Allah knows best.


Haleema1979 said:
I feel like I am doomed as a sister because I have had 3 muslim husbands and although there were some good times, I was also abused by them. Is there anywhere that states that a woman can have a husband that is better than anything they had on earth? Also, I thought the hoor al 3ayn were not just women.
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There will be no enmity between people [in jannah/paradise] nor ill-feelings:

“And We shall remove from their breasts any (mutual) hatred or sense of injury (which they had, if at all, in the life of this world).” (Quran 7:43)

http://sisters.islamway.com/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=407

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The women who go to jannah from this life will be better than the hur ul 'ayn because they did good and sacrificed in this life for Allah's sake.
Allah knows best.
 

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