Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

[Ummu Sufyaan]

in some ways i can see myself being closer to my siblings and in other ways, i can see myself being closer to my husband. i personally don't understand this concept some people have where they get married and seem to think that their families don't exist or don't matter anymore. it can be hurtful to the family/siblings, not to mention the married person comes off as arrogant as well. as someone mentioned above, its about distributing your time.

 

[al Iskander]

I would like to add something to my precedent post .

Indeed I'm clooser my wife , I realize that my children grow and I have more discussion with them , specialy my elder daughter ( and the other too ) .

In fact , the family in Islam is very important and each member has its place .

 

[ieshia]

Well i'm very young right now and could wait around 9-12 years before i think about getting married when i'll be like 27-30 or so. Right now my first priority besides myself are my brothers. I love them more than life it self, because they love and care for me without any obligations. I know i will always feel the same if not more love for my two brothers but of course i wouldn't spend as much time with them as i will with the man i get married to.

 

[ieshia]

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Do you have a sister name sana/neelam?
I tried to send private message but i don't have that privilege yet.