Well, I've read the Qur'an, but this is just another point (like the Qur'an's views with regard to Jesus' crucifixion) where I do not find it to give credible testimony.
Thank you for taking time to read it .
did u read it all??
Indeed, his ultimate goal for us is that we might be joined with him in Paradise.
of course, that's our goal. to win that place
So, I don't see why it would demean God in any way to come to earth and dwell here in the flesh.
Because Allah created us, and He is High from doing such thing, and as the verse in the Qur'an says:
112:4. And there is none like unto Him.
and this is our belief. That Allah swt does only things which are godly. and becoming in human flesh isn't a godly thing. and also Allah doesn't need to come in human flesh to forgive people's sins, or tell them how to live ....
He just sends a men amongst men to do it. and that's why prophets were sent to us, so they got revelation, and since the prophets were humans also, they taught how to behave in our lives and the right way to worship God.
also to mention that majority of scholars by commenting verses and hadiths have come to conclusion that Allah cannot be seen as He is, in this world. It's impossible. But in the afterlife, yes.
inshaAllah we will be one of them who see Him
But then, Christians have a much more intimate connection with God than Muslims do.

sorry but I might have to disagree here with you. Muslims do the 5 daily prayers, and they do those prayers connected directly with God, when we read Qur'an, we read the direct word of God, and if you would had have the chance to see, a muslims whenever he goes to bathroom, eats, drinks, sits, wears shoes, gets in the car.......... says "bismillah (In the name of Allah)" . So every action we do by mentioning Allah's name.
So we have a direct relationship with Allah, we don't have anyone in between.
There are also people (they are very few), who have reached the highest level of faith , as Muhammed saws describes:
see the bold part of text,
Volume 1, Book 2, Number 47: Narrated Abu Huraira:
One day while the Prophet was sitting in the company of some people, (The angel) Gabriel came and asked, "What is faith?" Allah's Apostle replied, 'Faith is to believe in Allah, His angels, (the) meeting with Him, His Apostles, and to believe in Resurrection." Then he further asked, "What is Islam?" Allah's Apostle replied, "To worship Allah Alone and none else, to offer prayers perfectly to pay the compulsory charity (Zakat) and to observe fasts during the month of Ramadan." Then he further asked, "What is Ihsan (perfection)?" Allah's Apostle replied, "To worship Allah as if you see Him, and if you cannot achieve this state of devotion then you must consider that He is looking at you." Then he further asked, "When will the Hour be established?" Allah's Apostle replied, "The answerer has no better knowledge than the questioner. But I will inform you about its portents.
1. When a slave (lady) gives birth to her master.
2. When the shepherds of black camels start boasting and competing with others in the construction of higher buildings. And the Hour is one of five things which nobody knows except Allah.
The Prophet then recited: "Verily, with Allah (Alone) is the knowledge of the Hour--." (31. 34) Then that man (Gabriel) left and the Prophet asked his companions to call him back, but they could not see him. Then the Prophet said, "That was Gabriel who came to teach the people their religion." Abu 'Abdullah said: He (the Prophet) considered all that as a part of faith.
Perhaps that experience colors the way each of us percieve what is appropriate or inappropriate for God to do.
muslims have the same colors, bc we learn whatever Qur'an and Sunnah teaches us. As you may have seen everything we talk in Islam, has to be backed up by a verse or hadith, otherwise we can say that there is no proof for such belief. So we worship Allah and know about his virtues based on Qur'an and Sunnah.
Of course, that raises another question, can any human being even have the audacity to assign them concept of considering the propriety of choices God might make.
we as muslims, don't assign things to God or talk about his virtues without having proof from Qur'an and sunnah,so, we speak of what we have been taught by Qur'an and the Sunnah.
He tells us to be holy as he is holy, he doesn't say that we are to judge what is and is not holy enough for him to do or not do.
this links to the above point. in Islam is what we have 'The names of Allah'. you have probably encountered .
this is a list of his names,
http://www.islamicity.com/Mosque/99names.htm
so basically these names, tell us about the virtues of Allah swt. and if you know them, you will come to the conclusion that Allah swt doesn't do things which are ungodly. Also there are many many verses in the Qur'an that tell us that what God does and doesn't.
an example:
God does not perform ungodly acts:
The attributes of Almighty God preclude any evil since God is the source of justice, mercy and truth. God can never be thought of as doing an ungodly act. Hence we cannot imagine God telling a lie, being unjust, making a mistake, forgetting things, or having any such human failings. Similarly God can do injustice if He chooses to, but He will never do it because being unjust is an ungodly act. The Qur’an says: «"Allah is never unjust in the least degree."»[Al-Qur’an 4:40] God can be unjust if He chooses to be so, but the moment God does injustice, He ceases to be God.
God does not make mistakes
God can make mistakes if He wants to, but He does not make mistakes because making a mistake is an ungodly act. The Qur’an says: «"…my Lord never errs."»[Holy Qur’an 20:52] The moment God makes a mistake, he ceases to be God.
God does not forget
God can forget if He wants to. But God does not forget anything because forgetting is an ungodly act, which reeks of human limitations and failings. The Qur’an says: «"…my Lord never errs, nor forgets."»[Al-Qur’an 20:52]