AnonymousPoster
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I pray that Allah doesn't take away the reward (if any) that
He might give me for going through this test.
I am 23 years old male and I try to keep away from people. I always
get told why don't you talk to so-and-so, etc. Here is why.
People are always so offensive. For one thing, I am a skinny guy and for
some reason every single person I meet will eventually make a note of it.
It gets annoying after some point. Like you know I always wonder why do I have to be the one picked on? Why can't people comment on somebody's else looks? I don't comment on people's appearance so why they do it to me?
I hate group gatherings because of this. We can be 8 people and I will be the one picked on. imsad
People point out that I should shave facial hair. They say it doesn't look good on me. Imagine that, you are in middle of a conversation and your friend stops and says "man you should shave, the hair can hurt your image".
Another example, I have been losing hair since age 18 and so what I do is shave it off completely because it looks better than thinning hair. People tell me you should grow your hair because this bald look doesn't suit you.
I can go on and on with more examples. imsadimsad
Then get this, the same people tell me later "hey why don't you hang around with us anymore?"
It's not easy to tell people I don't want to see people because they will feel the need to comment on my weight, facial hair, and bald head. imsad
subhan Allah. I wish people were just more considerate.
He might give me for going through this test.
I am 23 years old male and I try to keep away from people. I always
get told why don't you talk to so-and-so, etc. Here is why.
People are always so offensive. For one thing, I am a skinny guy and for
some reason every single person I meet will eventually make a note of it.
It gets annoying after some point. Like you know I always wonder why do I have to be the one picked on? Why can't people comment on somebody's else looks? I don't comment on people's appearance so why they do it to me?
I hate group gatherings because of this. We can be 8 people and I will be the one picked on. imsad
People point out that I should shave facial hair. They say it doesn't look good on me. Imagine that, you are in middle of a conversation and your friend stops and says "man you should shave, the hair can hurt your image".
Another example, I have been losing hair since age 18 and so what I do is shave it off completely because it looks better than thinning hair. People tell me you should grow your hair because this bald look doesn't suit you.
I can go on and on with more examples. imsadimsad
Then get this, the same people tell me later "hey why don't you hang around with us anymore?"
It's not easy to tell people I don't want to see people because they will feel the need to comment on my weight, facial hair, and bald head. imsad
subhan Allah. I wish people were just more considerate.