Why women cry?

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Hmm...
I really don't cry. I cry when I really have to. If someone pass away or whenever I think about the punishment of grave, punishment of day of judgement, and punishment of hell fire.

Girls are really emotional but not me lol :D Alhamdulillah!! I get emotional when I see the situation of this ummah or when I'm talking about Islam.

If someone gets mad at me I don't cry ;) khair. hehe.

Wasalmaualikum Warhatmulahi WAbaraktahu.

PS. if i don get chocolate every day i get irritated and i cry :P once in a blue moon hehe. *okay I didn't say that* lol.
 
I for one cry when I see our prophet talked about, when I see the religion I so love....put down, or misread,,,But the tears are inside me....
The tears that show, are when my child was killed.....or i see, as I often do here..a child abused....a child in this rich country, hungry(as I often do)....I cry when hearing a beautiful verse is read..............or recieting of the quran...theses can bring tears to my eyes....ones I have no controle over!!
I am a emotional female, and 90% more sense I reverted 5 years ago....as I feel now, inshaAllah....
 
In respond to you...maybe before I reverted I felt that way,,but too shy to do anything,,after I reverted...I learned I didn't have to "play God" that there is a God...and one thing he needs, is no help of anykind,,,,that we are servents(i say slaves)...and he wants not one of us unhappy:) ,,and sure bad things happen, But I also learned that all things have reason..maybe not seen that min...but later, its seen,,,that is if one notices..:)
So why feel like a under-dog...thats not the purpose of life....
I find if I feel sad...or some normal feeling...(hurt, ect)....go somewhere, where people really have sadness...but also have a smile:) ..did u ever wonder why??? They have God, thats why...(call him anything u please) mine is Allah...
Now I could sit here, and give u some true sad tales...and I do have them...But I smile:) ,,as there is reason for everthing....I once , right after I reverted, wanted someone hurt, and hurt bad....I wanted him to feel every tear I had shed, for a life he took.......But I leaned things in Islam..a peace, knowing things happen for reason, and the story doesn't end till Allah ends it:) ----so why waste good mind thought, energy on things thats not even for us to worry about....Its Allah's work...so why do it??? I perfer to have the life I now have...wouldn't give it up for anything...I will fight for it:) ..so if i am to do anything, it will be to fight for my religion..and never for what is Gods work....as we don't know his plans...so why do u use u engery in such a useless way?
If you ever want some peace...happiness...and a better way to live,,,its here, inshaAllah...peace to u:)
 
why women cry?

Why women cry?


A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"
"Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he asked God. He said, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

Allah said:

" When I made the woman she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said Allah, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."
 
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awww... dt poem iz soo sweet.. now ive realised y i cry easily.. :rollseyes

but weneva i cry i feel better cuz ive let it all out.. if any utha sistaz get me? :rollseyes
 
Women crying is a lot like babies crying - on and on, sometimes for no apparent reason. But at least if you change the latter's nappy, it'll shut up and look cute. You can't change the former's nappy. Or her taste for shoes.
 
Ra`eesah said:
Assalamu'Alaykum



Why Women Cry​

Little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I need to" she said.

"I don't understand," he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will." Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," his dad answered carelessly

The little boy , still wondering why women cry, finally asked the old wise shaikh. "He surely knows the answer", he thought.

"Ya Shaikh! Why do women cry so easily?"

He answered: "When Allah made the woman she had to be made so special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. He gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes from her children. He gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her very badly. He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers."

"You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

The little boy got the answer and never asked the question again.
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Why can't libraries in my area have books with THAT kinda stuff in it? I love stories like that. They are TEH awesome. And thanks for sharing. =D
 
Why do women cry?

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i thought i would share this with u all, about why us women cry :cry: , i got it from another forum. Enjoy!

Why are you crying, a young boy asked his Mom?

"Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said,
"And you never will, but that's O.K.".......

Later the little boy asked his father,
"Why does Mom seem to cry for no reason?".
"All women cry for no reason," was all his Dad could say......

The little boy grew up and became a man,
still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God and when God got back to him, he asked "God, why do women cry so easily?"

GOD answered......

"When I made woman,
I decided she had to be special.
I made her shoulders
strong enough to carry
the weight of the world, yet,
made her arms gentle enough to give comfort...

I gave her the inner strength
to endure childbirth
and the rejection
that many times will come
even from her own children.

I gave her a hardness
that allows her
to keep going and take care
of her family and friends,
even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue without
complaining....

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all
circumstances. Even when her child has hurt her badly....

She has the very special power to make a child's boo-boo feel better and
to quell a teenager's anxieties and fears....

I gave her strength to care for her husband, despite faults
and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart....

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but
sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him
unfalteringly....

For all of this hard work,
I also gave her a tear to shed.
It is hers to use
whenever needed and !
it is her only weakness....
When you see her cry,
tell her how much you love her, and all she does for everyone, and even though
she may still cry, you will have made her heart feel good.

She is special!
Please send this to women you know, and those with mothers,
sisters, and special women in their lives.

But, also send this to men so they will understand about what a
wonderful thing a woman is.
Each day is a mountain that must be climbed; with courage each step
gets easier.


Love your Mother Always

and keep her Smiling
 
why women cry...lessons to be learnt here, y'all!‏

Why Women Cry
A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"
"Because I'm a woman," she told him.
"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"
"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"
God said: When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.
I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.
"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes , because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."
 
Re: why women cry...lessons to be learnt here, y'all!‏

good article...

but, one thing come in my mind...:?

a man CALL God by PHONE!!!...:omg: and this kind of kuffar style story...
it's not good even for story like this. Worse, if u tell the story to the children, and they wonder having a phone call with GOD!!

create islamic story, with the same message will be a lot better...:thumbs_up
 

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