Wife beaten up for failed marriage bid

mohammed_alim said:
i dont think hittin ur wife is allowed even if there is no bruises!!! if we r allowed to hit women then they r allowed to hit back. works both ways. does any 1 know if our prophet mohammed PBUH ever hit any of his wifes?????
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[start sarcasm]ooh don't say that, we are not allowed to unless we can first get seal of approval from someone approved by al saud e.g Munajjid[/end sarcasm]

saying correct things here is like trying to light up a dark wind tunnel with a candle

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mohammed_alim said:
u guys were rite thanx i looked it up myself....
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there you go, now you too have been "blessed" by the light spread here by sixten school of sharia
 
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I still think if my other half raised his hand to me I would be gone like a shot, he wouldnt raise his hand to me anyway but if he did, I would walk straight out on him. and like someone said before, If a man hits a woman then she has a right to hit him back, its self defence.

conclusion,

I would not stand for it, thats not me rebelling against anything but unfairness.
 
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i dnt no wat u mean?? i wud never ever hit my wife bcos she no's wat makes me happy n wat dont and i no same abt her. we av an understanding between us. if there is ever any problems we talk it over n sort it out.
 
doorster said:
[start sarcasm]ooh don't say that, we are not allowed to unless we can first get seal of approval from someone approved by al saud e.g Munajjid[/end sarcasm]

saying correct things here is like trying to light up a dark wind tunnel with a candle

:w:
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there you go, now you too have been "blessed" by the light spread here by sixten school of sharia
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Someone looks like they want to get warned. If you had any common sense, you would know its not my opinion, but that of a huge consensus of muslim scholars. Don't hit your head on the way out of this thread.
 
talking about the problem - Thats what people do nawadays, its so old fashioned hitting your wife. there are strict laws against it.
 
SixTen said:
Someone looks like they want to get warned. If you had any common sense, you would know its not my opinion, but that of a huge consensus of muslim scholars. Don't hit your head on the way out of this thread.
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no doubt the same scholars who taught you that descent from ape is possible and breeding of pigs and leather from pigskin is technically halal?
 
doorster said:
no doubt the same scholars who taught you that descent from ape is possible and breeding of pigs and leather from pigskin is technically halal?
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Looks like you fail to understand anything (evident from previous neg reps you have given me).

And, who said anything about pigskin? You are going to be added to my ignore list, you are just a waste of time.
 
SixTen said:
Looks like you fail to understand anything (evident from previous neg reps you have given me).

And, who said anything about pigskin? You are going to be added to my ignore list, you are just a waste of time.
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following quote might ring a bell
SixTen said:
The Khan said:
I've come across pictures of hijabi Malay girls posing with pigs. I wonder what was the meaning of that, lol. As far as I understand, Allah (SWT) has created every creature for a purpose. He has forbidden us from eating pork, that's all. So, what's wrong with working in a pig farm? I haven't come accross any aya stating that it's forbidden to own pigs for any purpose apart from eating them. I mean, pigs are a good source of leather, after all.

Intolerance. Pure intolerance.
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Although you have some technical valid points - the problem is - the intent of those farms, that is, sell off pork for people to eat - albeit them being non-muslim.

This itself is not allowed, as is, you can't sell alcohol to non-muslims.
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the older these men get, the more wives they want.

If my husband wanted to remarry at that age and after so many yrears of being together, it would cause me hurt beyond words, but i would let him, and that would be the end of our relationship.Id live with him, clean up after him, cook his food, to seek reward from Allah, but i could never even smile at him again, let alone show any love.

Women have to endure so much, ...this poor poor woman, first the hurt of him requesting a second wife at that age!...then the humiliation of actually being forced to go ask for her hand for her own husband!....and then being beaten up for something beyond her control....

Can some brother tell me why you men are like this?
 
reading about incidents like this really makes me lose hope in people....It takes so much for me to convince myself that there are good people out there, but things like this, make me lose all hope in an instant....its just so sad isnt it. :(
 
That's like an Islamophobe saying there's no hope for Muslims, all are terrorists, etc etc.

That's like saying all women are *****y, like to gossip, and spread false rumors.

Sisters, this is one man. He doesn't represent all men.
 
Sahabiyaat said:
reading about incidents like this really makes me lose hope in people....It takes so much for me to convince myself that there are good people out there, but things like this, make me lose all hope in an instant....its just so sad isnt it. :(
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think of ten people who you know are better then you who exist today

that should help you restore your faith in people


if you cant do that, then... lol you got superiority issues :p
 

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