Sorry for the typos. I did that in an incredible hurry.
"We are led to believe that it disadvantages women in particular and we have just spent the past 40/50 years creating equality of the sexes here. We also hear of religous police and all that kind of things. Much of it may be neccessary wory but we dont know enough about muslim way of life. On the surface, it doesn't look very attractive. That may be quite wrong but we dont know and the current thinking is 'stop them coming'.
I am sorry that this thread has taken on the vein that it has. It would be nice if we could accept people's questions and anxieties for what they are without going on the back foot. The issues Thomas has raised are of real concern to many English people. Partly, that is Muslims fault for not talking to people about their religion as io mentioned before, and that breeds fear. People, especially if they don't know any Muslims in person, then take whatever they see in the media, which quite frankly, can be a load of old tosh.
Thoams, you said you did want to learn a bit more about Muslims. I am guessing one of your anxieties is shariah law and what you hear about it. I guess you are thinkong that there'll be so many Muslims here eventually that we will all have to live under that barbaric and monstrous shariah law.
Firstly, can I say, that Islam is the only non-Christain religion which makes it an article of faith to believe in the central figure of Christianity, ie Jesus Christ (peace be upon him). If a person calls himself a Muslim and doesn't
believe in, respect, or love Jesus (peace be upon him) then he is NOT a muslim. NO other religion has this stipulation.
We believe that Jesus (peace be upon him) was one of the mightiest messengers of God.
We believe that he was the messiah, translated as christ.
We believe he was born miraculously without any male intervention, which many modern day Christians today do not believe.
We believe that he gave life to the dead with Gods permission.
we believe he healed those born blind and lepers with Gods permission
However we don't belive tht Jesus ever claimed divinity, or that he was God, son of God, or where he said worship me.
We also do not belive that he was crucified.
We belive in all prophets whether we have heard of them or not. That includes the final Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). We are not allowed to pick and choose those we believe in. We also belive in the existence of all the books of God i.e. Bible, Torah, Psalms of David (peace be upon him), and any other books that we have not been told about, revealed before our time. We also believe in the angels, and day of judgement.
Shariah law is very firm but very fair. Can I ask and I hate to ask this question, but what would you want to do say if somebody raped one of the ladyfolk of your family. Most people say, "I'll kill them". Islam gives the same punishment that you yourself would give if that crime was perptrated against you or your family. Yet, when we hear that punishment has been applied to the rapist of someone else's wife/daughter/sister/mother, people say it's barbaric. Hmm...double standards eh? There is also the option for forgiveness too, which our law (I think) doesn't recognise at the moment.
Women.Islam was the first religion to make the woman a legal entity in her own right. The first religion to allow her to earn, own and dispose of her own property as she pleased. The first religion to insist on women receiving a share of inheritance. Muslim women in some Muslim countries do not take on the husbands surname on marriage, as that was a remnant from the slave trade. In Europe women were perceived as being owned by the man on marriage, Like the Palmers and the Williams amongst Afro Carribeans on the plantations. Women in Islam have so many more rights that they have been enjoying and taking for granted hundreds of years before these rights appeared in Europe.
Most people don't understand why a woman would want to cover her face. That lack of understanding makes them think someone must have forced to do it. Some of the women in face veils are the most feminist, opinionated, educated women you could ever hope to meet, and they could describe to you with deep conviction and faith why they personally chose to wear it.
Please do not lose heart if people have been hot headed with you.
I invite you to study more about Islam and ask more questions.
I pray that God guides us all to his straight true path. Amen. Peace
Suicide is forbidden in Islam. The killing of innocents and non-combatants is forbidden, the killing of anyone by the use of fire is forbidden. I believe that suicide bombers are acting contrary to the teachings of Islam.
Sorry for the typos. I did that in an incredible hurry.
P.S. Is the use of the word MOSLEM a rude expression in respect of Muslims?
What is the most polite way of address?
You are either brought up as a Muslim, or you revert. Note I haven't used the word convert, because as I said before, we believe that each child is born a Muslim.
Given that suicide bombers are, in your words, acting contrary to Islam, why is it that there is more outrage expressed over a Danish newspaper cartoon or the naming of a Teddy bear than there is over those who commit these horrible non-Islamic acts in the name of Islam? Don't they slander Islam even more than these other things do? Why does one result in riots, arrests, fatwahs, and violence and the other is hardly a blip on the radar screen.
Grace Seeker said:Grace Seeker
Given that suicide bombers are, in your words, acting contrary to Islam, why is it that there is more outrage expressed over a Danish newspaper cartoon or the naming of a Teddy bear than there is over those who commit these horrible non-Islamic acts in the name of Islam? Don't they slander Islam even more than these other things do? Why does one result in riots, arrests, fatwahs, and violence and the other is hardly a blip on the radar screen.
Woodrow, you (and most, but not all, of the rest of the Islamic community here) have been consistent in your affirmation of the tolerance of Islam for other people's beliefs and its abhorence of these forms of violence. For that I thank you. But, maybe you can help me with something else I see with regard to Islam globally.
Given that suicide bombers are, in your words, acting contrary to Islam, why is it that there is more outrage expressed over a Danish newspaper cartoon or the naming of a Teddy bear than there is over those who commit these horrible non-Islamic acts in the name of Islam? Don't they slander Islam even more than these other things do? Why does one result in riots, arrests, fatwahs, and violence and the other is hardly a blip on the radar screen.
Now, before you say that I should check out some of the places where Muslims do condem such acts, I acknowledge that the Muslim community is not silent on the issue. But even as one who has a positive empathy for the Islamic faith, the difference in degree and manner of the Ummah's response to the two is glaringly alarming.
I disagree with this statement.
A child is not born Muslim, or Christian, or or anything for that matter. Just as a child is not born an accountant, a stockbroker, or lawyer.
The sweetness of emaan comes from a wilful submission to ones Lord. A child that dies young is granted jannah because they have not been tested, regardless of their religion, or religious practices.
In fact this is one of the major differences between Christianity and Islam. The fundamental tenet of Christianity is that human beings are incapable of reconciling with God, and it is the belief that somebody else took the sins that grants them nearness to God. In Islam however, it is entirely ones own actions that determine their fate.
The word Muslim carries a beautiful meaning. An individual who submits to the Will of their Lord is rewarded in such a splendid fashion by Allah ta ala, because they chose to. This is the true meaning of the much misquoted verse in surah al Baqarah "there is no compulsion in religion".
This is clear if one reads the full verse...
Let there be no compulsion in religion: Truth stands out clear from Error: whoever rejects evil and believes in Allah hath grasped the most trustworthy hand-hold, that never breaks. And Allah heareth and knoweth all things.
Al-Baqarah (2:256)
Quran
*whoever rejects evil* - a concious act of free will
*and believes in Allah* - a concious act of free will
A child does not have the mental capacity to make this decision. I disagree with teaching a child memorisation of the Quran, and neglecting the most important part - its message! However this is common in many cultures.
A true revert, is one that had faith, lost it, and came back. That is to say, they wilfully believed in Allah, then went into disbelief, then came back to belief.
A child does not make a concious decision to believe, which is part of the shahadah, and thus a convert has not fallen into disbelief before coming into Islam.
This is not a criticism of your post, and you are definitely not the first person to say that. I know it sounds nice that every child is born a Muslim, but I think the truth is so much sweeter.
For Muslim men and women,- for believing men and women, for devout men and women, for true men and women, for men and women who are patient and constant, for men and women who humble themselves, for men and women who give in Charity, for men and women who fast (and deny themselves), for men and women who guard their chastity, and for men and women who engage much in Allah's praise,- for them has Allah prepared forgiveness and great reward.
Al-Ahzab (33:35)
Quran
I would also like to talk to you Grace Seeker.
Firstly, what 'radar screen' are you talking about? The wonderfully free and fair agenda-less media coverage? Muslims do not need to apologise for the acts of someone who flagrantly contradicts their core beliefs and values. Islam is not the only religion of whose some alleged 'followers' have innocent blood on their hands. Yes, people got bent out of shape over the issue of the Danish cartoon - I wrote an entire thread dedicated to condemning these placards - but why are you judging Islam based on a select group of Muslims? Why don't you do your research into Islam with a rational mind, find out whether the 1 percent of verses that deal with fighting are referring specific contexts of self-defence against those who attack Muslims, or if they are referring to clandestine acts of mass violence against entire populations. I think you will find it is the former. Thomas: I would kindly advise you do the same.
Peace, may we come to a common understanding.
Fourth, in saying "Why don't you do your research into Islam with a rational mind..." it comes across as if you are accusing me of not doing research into Islam with a rational mind. And if this is indeed what you are saying, then I take that as an insult. Having now been insulted, what would be an appropriate response on my part? I am going to give you a chance to amend your words.
Given that suicide bombers are, in your words, acting contrary to Islam
Hi. I came across this site by chance and would really like to understand people I have never met face to face.
I am English born and Christian which faith, by definition, is acquiescent, submissive (turn the other cheek, pray for your enemies etc) but we now seem up against a faith (Islam) that seems to have few if any of these 'disadvantages' to rein in what seems to be a very militant faith. I mean (although it didnt happen in England) tat silly business of Allah being insulted by a teddy bear being named Mohammed when I thought it was one of the commonst names for a boy - like the English JOHN. The other sad things that really irritates and alienates we Brits is Burka covered women holding placards abusing British soldiers as they march past (Luton?). This one act has brought out Brit street mobs to make things much worse for immigrants. Then, yesterday, I read about a 20 years old women ( presume she is female..) going to register for a college cout dressed from head to foot in a burka and refusing to even show her face for identification which seems so incredibly stupid that I can only assume sh was put up to this by others who want to push, push, push the boundaries acceptable to the average Brit. I expect she will appeal against being refused registration - and the appeal will be allowed "in case it offends people of other faiths". In my town we now have a "Tree of Light" instead of an annual Christmas tree "in case th latter offends those of other faiths" . Have you considered how much abuse Christianity takes, every minute of every day through blasphemies and cynicism? And God, in his infinite wisdom allows that whereas muslims seem to feel the need to take revenge - as if Allah is unable to handle it and deal with it.... Dop Muslims ever actually pray for their enemies, do good to those that hurt you and despise you etc?
To summerise, I wish muslim immigrants would just try and assimilate theselves into English life without constanty seeking concessions. OR, are we Brits making misakes by merely thinking that you want Tree of Light etc concessions when you don't want to patronised?
Dear Thomas
I too am from the South Coast of U.K. My father is an 'indigenous' Englishman by which I assume you mean the 'white' descendants of the Celtic, Roman, Anglo-Saxons, Germanaic, Nordish people and so forth who migrated there from Europe across the centuries.
My mother is one of the immigrants who came from Pakistan in the 70s.
I find that your perception of Islam is highly blinkered. Muslims are not a uniform homogeneous mass.
I also feel you have been hoodwinked by the rhetoric of parties like UKIP and BNP, who masquerade under the guise of defending British/Christian values when you know as well as I do that any 'Christian' values England holds as a country today is merely paying lip service.
Muslims couldn't care less about a tree being called a 'Christmas Tree'. I was involved in many school nativity plays, yes, as a Muslim child! I played one of the three wise men, and even a sheep (ironic maybe)! As to why the tree was renamed 'Tree of Light', I think you are asking the wrong people. I think you have that wonderful post-enlightenment 'secularism' movement to thank for that one, which has been politically correcting and championing 'freedom from religion' for the last few decades.
Regarding this mass influx of crazy burka-wearing placard-waving Muslims who are swimming across the channel just to get a chance to live in Mighty Blighty, you do realise that this is, 1. A scaremongering vote-grabbing bogeyman stereotype the likes of which was used to caricature communists during the Cold War, and, 2. A problem which reflects more on the ridiculous open door policy the government adopted as a means to boost the economy, that it does on the immigrants themselves? If you open the door, how can you blame the man who walks in?
Now look Thomas, the majority of true practising Muslims (I won't call them "moderate", because that is like saying "watered down" and is therefore oxymoronic), who follow the Qur'an as it is meant to be followed, do not, I repeat NOT want to bomb you. For a Muslim to take one innocent life is like killing all of humanity. Also, they do not want shariah law in the U.K. They don't even want you to rename your Christmas Tree!They just want what you want: to practise their beliefs, to coexist alongside their fellow human being and People of the Book (Christians and Jews - people held in high regard in the Qu'ran) and to have a good future for themselves and their family. That's IT. No fine print, no BS'ing.
I would also like to talk to you Grace Seeker.
Firstly, what 'radar screen' are you talking about? The wonderfully free and fair agenda-less media coverage? Muslims do not need to apologise for the acts of someone who flagrantly contradicts their core beliefs and values. Islam is not the only religion of whose some alleged 'followers' have innocent blood on their hands. Yes, people got bent out of shape over the issue of the Danish cartoon - I wrote an entire thread dedicated to condemning these placards - but why are you judging Islam based on a select group of Muslims? Why don't you do your research into Islam with a rational mind, find out whether the 1 percent of verses that deal with fighting are referring specific contexts of self-defence against those who attack Muslims, or if they are referring to clandestine acts of mass violence against entire populations. I think you will find it is the former. Thomas: I would kindly advise you do the same.
Peace, may we come to a common understanding.
Why don't Western countries speak against the crimes that Israel committed against the Palestinians for the past sixty years!
And, Woodrow, thank-you for your post above which was made while I was composing this response to Omar. I know that one cannot protest against the dead suicide bomber. And I sort of get your point that one cannot even protest against the unknown recruiter. But I find that the recruiter is not so unknown, at least TV reporters appear to have no trouble finding people to interview who are involved these activities. But beyond that, why not protest the idea, just as once upon a time people protested not just the individual acts of racism by the whole culture of racism that gripped our own country. It wasn't solved overnight, but when people started to make it part of the fabric of our society that racism would no longer be said to be wrong but a blind eye turned to those who perpetuated it, then and only then progress finally began to be made. And while there may be important conversations taking place in a few places, from what I can tell as an outsider sometimes invited it, the overall response of the Ummah to violence done in the name of Islam, remains as condoning as that of 1950s white America to violence done in the name of racial superiority. I hope the Ummah doesn't allow that infection to fester within it as long as America did in confronting its shameful practices.
Thomas said:Interesting to read that your father was English born and your mother was an immigrant. Was your father a muslim from birth?
Thomas said:I expect you will understand why the millions of English born people are currently worried about the seemingly uncontrolled immigration arrangements. Many 'failed' asylum seekers who are not deported and vanish.
Thomas said:After all, if any of them ever decide to come here they will have to put up with more than a few questions being asked of them. Their defense of Islam seems strange compared with the 24/7 abuse that christianity has to put up with. It looks like moderator Woodrow finally summed it up with his comments.
Thomas said:Wherabouts on the south coast are you? I am in Eastbourne.
And when done by supposed followers Islam in the name of Allah..., well I remain surprised that the Ummah doesn't rise with one voice, as it does when Islam is otherwise defamed and slandered, and express its justified condemnation of the perversion of the true way of Islam.
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