would you?

[MetSudaisTwice]

then sis tell the truth she will understand

 

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

Tell her/him your dog chewed the invite... or you younger brother fed it to the goldfish.

Oh sweet, those junior school days...

 

[S_87]

^^ :lol: hmph the world isnt as thick as those teachers who sometimes believed them excuses

JazakAllah ...i dont think ill to the halls..
and inshaAllah i wont regret it either
this weddings ages away ??? in summer but already preparing ;D

 

[Uthman]

The scholar Sheikh Abu Hanifa on Islam Channel was asked this question. His advice was to tell them the truth about why you couldn't go and help them understand. He also said that you can go to visit them one day before the wedding and one day after the wedding

 

[h1jabi_sista]

or...you could forcast a 'flu'?? NO sorry bad advice!

the brothers have got good advice for you, tell the truth and if she's a good friend she'll understand and you can visit her later!

 

[BlissfullyJaded]

We just tell 'em straight off why we're not gonna be there. Usually they understand and they're fine with it..

But then...we don't go to many weddings anyway, so maybe thats why they understand...

 

[S_87]

yh i dont go to weddings either but this is my friend who like is my longest good friend first friend i made in school when i moved to englanda ..only friend who managed to laugh at my accent then
only friends for a lotttttttttttttttttttttt of things so thats why its gonna be hard

HS i cant forcast a flu im gonna be there for most of the week when its not mixed so she`ll not believe me good idea otherwise though ;D

 

[S_87]

The scholar Sheikh Abu Hanifa on Islam Channel was asked this question. His advice was to tell them the truth about why you couldn't go and help them understand. He also said that you can go to visit them one day before the wedding and one day after the wedding

inshaAllah ill be there a few days before the wedding (from three days before wedding its mixed halls here )

and yup ill tell her the truth

 

[SalafiFemaleJih]

Asalamualaikum wr wb,

I'm going to the weddin in june...its my cousins wedding....FIRST cousin...we are all really really close to each other...she is going to have her mehandi and haraam music all dat sht.

I have to go to her wedding...because my whole khandan is going to be there...inculding my family...its like 4 to 5 hours from where I live....my parents will not leave me alone for 3/4 days...not in milllion years. I even told my mom that I have school...she said I still have to go....

I don really wanna miss her wedding...but music and haraam stuff which is going to happen there is makin me change my mind.

well she is going to have girls/guys seperated though...but by the end of the party it gets all mixed...subhanAllah.

I'm havin second thoughts....
I really don know what I should do.....

walaikum salaam wr wb.

 

[S_87]

well totally unrealistic option is come down mine and we`ll party together

not possible ;D

how bout u off the music if u HAVE to go?

 

[h1jabi_sista]

HS? wow! i like it!

you cant actually off music but you can turn it off!! hahaha sorry i dont mean to be tease its just that i said once ' can you off the light' and my sis teased me for ages about!

well if your really stuck you could always do an istikara?

 

[S_87]

i always say off the light man or off the light nuh :-[
we all do in my fam
what else r u supposed to say?

 

[makaveli]

I would go. It's going to be a fun time and the person getting married is one of your best friends! I'm sure he or she would show up at your wedding. Party Up!

 

[S_87]

yh but in the mean time earn sins?
and knowing what im doing is wrong?
i couldnt live with that
and then what about other friends who get married?
same thing?

so thats loads of bad

 

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

I tell ya what, give me a few good reps first and then...

...I'll storm the place with my troops. We'll take out the video man, the DJ, and all the semi nude women - SWAT style! Then you can go in and enjoy yourself. Your not far from me either, so it'll be a quick move too. How's that?

 

[Ibn Syed]

That wouldn't be that Islamic and I wouldn't do that. That would be totally crazy. Mayhem.

 

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

Oh, and I forgot to add, I was only being sarcastic.

 

[S_87]

...and all the men and your on :thumbs_up lol
were talking ago good few thousand

 

[Ibn Syed]

I think you're high on sugar if you coughed all that up in one post.

 

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

Huh?