y are ppl like this??

you know what thank u so so much I kinda feel better guess I just had to let it out.

buh one cn find such ppl everywhere how should one handle them if they're not tht cunning or over smart etc??

cuz I'm srsly not the chalaak type guess thta y ppl think I'm dumb :p

don't want to turn into some one I'm not.
 
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Sis, you're just naive because you are young. Once you grow older, you'll wisen up in sha Allah, and no one will be able to make you feel like this again. :)

When I was in my teens, I was getting taken for a fool on a daily basis, but you wouldn't guess it now, right? :)

Scimi
 
Periwinkle18 said:
jazakAllah sis
wow u actually said no.
oh n ive learnt one thing plz who ever lives in paki land NEVER ever volunteer or do anything for free for anyone. cuz ppl over here don't care at all.
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wa iyyaki.
That's really sad, is it definitely like that everywhere or is it just the people around you? The pakistani people I know in my country are so nice...
 
tearose said:
wa iyyaki.
That's really sad, is it definitely like that everywhere or is it just the people around you? The pakistani people I know in my country are so nice...
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I guess mostly ppl over here are like that. I just don't know y.
 
You treat human beings with who you're, knowing that:

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Yastabshiroona biniAAmatin mina Allahi wafadlin waanna Allaha la yudeeAAu ajra almumineena​
3:171 They glory in the Grace and the bounty from Allah, and in the fact that Allah suffereth not the reward of the Faithful to be lost (in the least).

and they will treat you with who they're, so it is a reflection on them & shouldn't bother you.. although I understand all too well the hurt, abuse and lack of understanding of receiving absolutely nothing in return of your good deeds save a barrage of insults and abuse... it is just our worldly selves that suffer but our spiritual selves should rejoice.. attainment of paradise springs from calamities!

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^ jazakAllah sis I guess this is just what I needed.

Alhumdulilah ala kuli haal I guess.

I hope I make the right decision InshaAllah.
 
Sister, dont take ANYTHING personal. Good or bad. Just have the right intention and keep doing good for the sake of Allah. What people do doesnt matter.

I have been in your situation and it made me angry, but I have come to a place where I dont really care what people think. I just do everything for the sake of Allah. If anyone is rude to you, be the bigger person and be still nice. Keep talking good about that person. You will be rewarded from Allah in sha allah.
 
i know exactly what you are talking about - has happened to me way too many times to count.

I kind of made it my intention to never expect a return anymore. helps :)
 
May Allah SWT help you sis!

I noticed this too. If you are nice because you believe in following in the footsteps of our rasool, people think you are naive and they think they can take advantage of you and push you around. I really dislike that kind of thinking. Sometimes I feel like saying something back but remind myself to be patient.
 
Allah<3 said:
Sister, dont take ANYTHING personal. Good or bad. Just have the right intention and keep doing good for the sake of Allah. What people do doesnt matter.

I have been in your situation and it made me angry, but I have come to a place where I dont really care what people think. I just do everything for the sake of Allah. If anyone is rude to you, be the bigger person and be still nice. Keep talking good about that person. You will be rewarded from Allah in sha allah.
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akhi it's been two years now I kept telling myself tht I'm dng this for Allah buh I guess I've had enough now ive gone v sick.
 
IbnAbdulHakim said:
i know exactly what you are talking about - has happened to me way too many times to count.

I kind of made it my intention to never expect a return anymore. helps :)
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I know rite, I mean I dont get it he shouldn't tell everyone tht if u feel burdened come talk to me I'll help n wen u go to him he doesn't do anything.

anyho I guess ur rite :) jzk
 
What happens sweet sister?
this reaction is very common now-a-days. but you should not hurt on these reactions. so please don't think on these things. just ignore :)
 
assalam o alaikum sister.
i m sorry to hear what happened with you. dear i m also the person who can never say NO so i can understand how you would be feeling. i hope now when u have made the decision u are feeling much better.

Periwinkle18 said:
oh n ive learnt one thing plz who ever lives in paki land NEVER ever volunteer or do anything for free for anyone. cuz ppl over here don't care at all.
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mmm i would disagree here dear.. through one experience you cant claim that for every one.. you will find people like that every where and so are here..
we should make our selves so strong that people cant use us without our will..

and if you are planning to go for another school sister i would advice you to learn to say NO. its very important. you can not be too humble and heplful always if you are out for a job and want to earn money..

and if you are out to volenteer, never ever expect returns from people. they will never..!!
 
I see my post got deleted ;D

The admins/mods won't close your thread (I don't want to say why). It's up to you to tell them to.
 
Periwinkle18 said:
Assalam o alikum

I srsly dont know y ppl don't care for others anymore y are they like this?

hav u ever been treated like crap?? I mean they'll just use u n throw u away like rubbish y are ppl like tht srsly it hurts me so much. just because one doesnt say anything has a pure heart wants to help y to ppl take advantage.

aren't we suppose to care for each other we're one ummah one big family no?


The prophet salallahu alayhi wa salam said ‘my ummah is one ummah’ and ‘the ummah is like one body, if one part of it is ill, the whole of it is ill”

then y do ppl still act as if they don't care they'll b happy if u help them out buh wen you'll need help they'll just back out.

it's just v sad srsly :(

has anyone been treated in such a way? what do u do wen ppl treat u like tht??
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Periwinkle18 said:
Assalam o alikum

I srsly dont know y ppl don't care for others anymore y are they like this?

hav u ever been treated like crap?? I mean they'll just use u n throw u away like rubbish y are ppl like tht srsly it hurts me so much. just because one doesnt say anything has a pure heart wants to help y to ppl take advantage.

aren't we suppose to care for each other we're one ummah one big family no?


The prophet salallahu alayhi wa salam said ‘my ummah is one ummah’ and ‘the ummah is like one body, if one part of it is ill, the whole of it is ill”

then y do ppl still act as if they don't care they'll b happy if u help them out buh wen you'll need help they'll just back out.

it's just v sad srsly :(

has anyone been treated in such a way? what do u do wen ppl treat u like tht??
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i always say that if you know what angers and upsets you, then you should not do it to other people.


bear with it periwinkle18,

it will give you noor... or destroy you.


...dont let it change your intention



some people will do anything for a move to centre stage.

when you take it then you better hope your feet hold firm and your tongue talks straight and your body does not betray you.





...and build something solid.

?





edit*what an odd reply for my 666th





actually truth is iv never actually challenged those that have done me wrong, so the above post is just chicken talking.


i put my hope in allah swt and the last day.

and hope my own hands wont be my undoing.
 
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