Your my sister - shes not ?

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ayan333 said:
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whooo Lets not stereotype, just ther day I saw a sister who is Hafz Quran (I wont say her ethnicity) walking with a boy,before you knew it he had his hands on her n even kissed her..don’t get me wrong, that was the wrong thing to say n if I was there I would’ve definitely let her no

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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

My friend had a similar story as above quote, until i told him they were married! :X

Speaking in this subject of ethnicity..... I know some people who are married who are from different origins. <<< Do i care? Not a single bit, they are Muslims!!! Alhamdulillah!!!!

p.s. i wasnt being personal! I do apologize for any offence. :-[
FiAmaaniAllah
 
Me too, didnt really mean anything sis...forgive me if i offended u x

Lol yh maybe the girl was married...
 
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lol i never said anyone offended me,sorry if i made it seam that way...n they are in high school n i no the girl...and yes ALLAH (SWA) knows best...but no problemo...we r all humans

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Najm said:
AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu


Speaking in this subject of ethnicity..... I know some people who are married who are from different origins. <<< Do i care? Not a single bit, they are Muslims!!! Alhamdulillah!!!!


FiAmaaniAllah
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sorry i dont get where you got that from? from my post?

sorry
 
ayan333 said:
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sorry i dont get where you got that from? from my post?

sorry
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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

I just added that, not from you post at all. Just trying to state Islam doesnt care about cast.

p.s. i was just saying "sorry" if you felt offended!

FiAmaaniAllah
 
I don't think its just somalian people, i mean mashallah my two brothers that i know are somalian and they are my muslim brothers very close and they see me as their brother, nothing less even tho im pakistani, thats how it should be.

Nationalism is haram isn't it, we're all 1 ummah, if you think differently about another muslim because of their race then that person really needs to self evaluate themselfs :S as a muslim!. Kids can be abit cheeky and that, my younger cuzens are very disobident sometimes, they won't even greet their elders with replys :S.

Something i heard on lecture called Dawah in the Park, the speaker said "If your white your alrite, if your brown stick around, if your black to the back, NO NO NO theres no racism with Allah!"
 
:sl: To you all, from my very loooooooong experience i see this as communities sticking together..............I may be wrong but you go to different parts of the UK and you see the small little groups, whether they be Bengali, Somali or anything else........ This comes from lack of education from our elders, not teaching our children that anyone can be a Muslim............ no matter what their background............

A few years ago i had the privilege of reading Eid Salah at a masjid in B'ham and i stood with a Somalian lady,(her mehndi was amazing!) when salah finished i turned smiled at her and wished her a happy eid as i would to anyone else.........unfortunately the Somalian community were all looking for each other as were the Pakistani community, afterwards outside the masjid there were little groups dotted about Pakistani on one side and Somalian on the other................. It happens thats life!!!:w::bump1:
ayan333 said:
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no need to,i undertand


may ALLAH (SWA) reunite the ummah InshALLAH.Ameen

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Sahabiyaat said:
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little incident that happend which made me think about the sorry state of our ummah.

My little sister, whos 13, has a somalin friend with whom shes goes swimming every Friday.The swimming baths she goes to is apparently swamped by somalian women, not leaving room for anyone else! lol. Recently, my sister told me that she was waiting for her friend to leave the changing room so she could use it, as her friend came out and she was going to go in, a somalian girl, came and held a long conversation with my sisters friend, in arabic.

Later my sister discovered that the girl had been asking her friend to let her go in first instead of my sister......because.......she is somalian and so should do her fellow somalian a favour....

her exact words were, 'your my sister, shes not'.

we are pakistani btw.


:) wow.So this is what the ummah has come to.
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What if...

The other Somali girl was actually her biological sister? You know, her sibling.

Unless I'm barking up the wrong tree.
 
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its like everyones bent on proving me wrong!!!

"their kids...its like a friend thing"...they were not friends!!
"are they sisters" they were certainly not real sisters!!!

"are they aliens" (just incase someone pops this one) ..NOOO! loll.

I dont think this was just a kids way of getting into a changing room.

Im talking about the roots, im trying to touch on the ideology, the concept of 'the other', which has no place in Islam.


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:D im over reacting, becuz u r all so so so stooooopid and ....stoopid. blargh.
 
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Love it! :D

P.S Random, I havnt read the thread properly
 
Sahabiyaat said:
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its like everyones bent on proving me wrong!!!

"their kids...its like a friend thing"...they were not friends!!
"are they sisters" they were certainly not real sisters!!!

"are they aliens" (just incase someone pops this one) ..NOOO! loll.

I dont think this was just a kids way of getting into a changing room.

Im talking about the roots, im trying to touch on the ideology, the concept of 'the other', which has no place in Islam.


:enough!:

:D im over reacting, becuz u r all so so so stooooopid and ....stoopid. blargh.
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I understand what you're getting out. Islam has no place for pride and arrogance of groups against groups... I guess kids at an even younger stage (like primary school age) should really be educated about brotherhood and sisterhood in Islam. Without it, you loose your Muslim identity; and your national/ethnic identity becomes more important to you.
 
I agree with sis Sahabiyaat, yes maybe cuz she was a kid and she used it as an excuse to get in the pool. Maybe. But kids don't just come up with these ideas themselves...they obviously have influence from family...community etc...ppl they stay with more often...

If she's smart enough to understand using that as an excuse, then shouldnt she know theres no such thing as race in Islam? Most likely she hasn't learnt it. I'm not saying I know what happened, but anything is possible. So i dont blame sis Sahabiyaat for getting worried.

Allahu Alam tho.

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Alpha Dude said:
To be honest, I think the Somali girl only used race as an excuse to be allowed to go first, not that she is inherently racist. Kids tend to useeee things when it suits them.

I mean, perhaps the girl came over to your sister's friend and said "let me go first" and your sister's friend says "no", then when backed into the corner, the girl thinks of the first thing she can say to allow her entrance which, unfortunately for your sis, turned out to be the race card.
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I agree, she might have been using it as an excuse just to go first lol.

Somalis are VERY LOUD and pushy, so she was just probably trying to get in their faster by saying they're both ''Somalis''.

Seriously though, I think we could say the same thing about Desi people, Arab people etc. We tend to stick to ourselves and whatnot, but at 13 years old the last thing she was probably thinking about was ''I'm Somali, she's not, let's try to make her feel ostracised''. Kids don't care, they do whatever they want to do. And like someone else said previously, they're cheeky lol.

Allaahu 'alam.
 
Sahabiyaat said:
"their kids...its like a friend thing"...they were not friends!!
"are they sisters" they were certainly not real sisters!!!

"are they aliens" (just incase someone pops this one) ..NOOO! loll.
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Perhaps it was code language?

Islam, today, seems more cultural than universal. It's disgusting. -_-
 
The Ruler said:
Perhaps it was code language?

Islam, today, seems more cultural than universal. It's disgusting. -_-
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Unfortunately. It's almost as if Muslims themselves have created this situation... Only in Hajj, can you see so many different Muslims all for one purpose.
 
Of course the muslims themselves created this situation. You can't blame anyone other than yourself for your own downfall.
 

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