salam.
agar koi admi 2 logo ki mojodgi may kisi aurat se kahe ke may tum se nika karta hu. aur aurat is ko mazaq samjhe. magar jawab dy k han mujhe nikah qabool hy. toh kia yeh nikah hojata hy?
I mean. If a man in front of two witness, says to a woman that I do nikah with you. The woman thinks that he is kidding. But she says, yes I accept nikah with you. So the nikah is made?
Likewise, you cannot jokingly say there is no God! In other words, do not joke around with subjects of serious nature as there is no humour in matters pertaining to religious practices.
حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عَمَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا حَاتِمُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ حَبِيبِ بْنِ أَرْدَكَ، حَدَّثَنَا عَطَاءُ بْنُ أَبِي رَبَاحٍ، عَنْ يُوسُفَ بْنِ مَاهَكَ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ " ثَلاَثٌ جِدُّهُنَّ جِدٌّ وَهَزْلُهُنَّ جِدٌّ النِّكَاحُ وَالطَّلاَقُ وَالرَّجْعَةُ "
It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that:
The Messenger of Allah said: "There are three matters in which seriousness is serious and joking is serious: marriage, divorce and taking back (one's wife). " (Hasan)
Sunan Ibn Maajah
English reference : Vol. 3, Book 10, Hadith 2039
Arabic reference : Book 10, Hadith 2117
An alternative translation I have seen, is "There are three matters when they are done seriously, they are to be taken seriously, and when they are done jokingly, they are to be taken seriously: Nikah, talaaq, and taking back one's divorced wife."
Source for alternative translation: The Fiqh of family, marriage and divorce, published by the American Open University, written by Jamal Zarabozo, 1997.
As mentioned above, you need to consult a local 'aalim or mufti, as we are not 'ulamaa here. They will need to take into account whether a wali was present, and they will know if it makes any difference if the one accepting is joking as compared to the one offering etc. We cannot help you. You must go to them and explain your situation to them, and get an official answer or fatwa from them.
Last edited by Insaanah; 11-27-2013 at 01:44 PM.
Stunningly beautiful adhaan from the Dome of the Rock in Masjid ul Aqsa Download (right click and choose "save target/link as").
This is a clear message for mankind in order that they may be warned thereby, and that they may know that He is only One God, and that those of understanding may take heed (14:52)
Indeed Allah knows, and you know not (16: 74, part)
Likewise, you cannot jokingly say there is no God! In other words, do not joke around with subjects of serious nature as there is no humour in matters pertaining to religious practices.
salam.agar koi admi 2 logo ki mojodgi may kisi aurat se kahe ke may tum se nika karta hu. aur aurat is ko mazaq samjhe. magar jawab dy k han mujhe nikah qabool hy. toh kia yeh nikah hojata hy?shukria
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said: "There are three matters in which seriousness is serious and joking is serious: marriage, divorce and taking back (one's wife). " (Hasan)
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