11 Year Old Gives Birth is the headline of all newspapers and tabloids in London. It is reported in a story that an 11 year old gives birth to a boy in the metropolis. About thirty years ago, such news could have created uproar in the society. But in the modern era, the news of 11 year old gives birth does not jolt that much, rather it has become an acceptable matter not only for other people but also for parents as well. Today, the standard of morality has gone through a drastic change. What was immoral and unacceptable in the past, is now tolerable. Any criticism from any quarter on such issues is considered encroachment upon human rights.
As per media information, a young girl who is just eleven years old has become a mother of a boy recently. Her parents are reportedly happy on becoming grand parents. They said that the girl and the newborn are in good health. The doctor also spoke to the media. He said that the young mother was being closely observed during her pregnancy, because she was exposed to high risk factor due to her tender age. In the western countries, such young mothers are in abundance now-a-days. There are hundreds of teenage mothers.
But in the instant case, the mother is not a teenager yet. She is herself a kid needed to be looked after by her parents. In this situation, it will be very difficult for her to bring up her child.
Such incidents are the consequences of free-sex society. Girls of tender age indulge into sexual activities. Pornographic material is readily available in printed as well as visual form and is accessible to people of all ages. No doubt, there are warnings for under-age kids, but its easy availability cannot be avoided.
nah it really has nothing to do where your living brother its how your parents raised you at the end of the day there is a growing number of pakistani familes here. my friend has two sisters aged 11 to 13 and they go to non muslim schools here.. they are so well raised that you would not believe.
They are so deep into education and concentrating on wanting to be a doctor like there dad, that is there aim. there parents are wonderful and spoil me when i go to there home
Mary was pregnant at 11 and had Jesus at 12. In Islam the only requirement is marriage before sex so I don't know why you are focused on how old someone is. Must be Apostates or something.
Mary was pregnant at 11 and had Jesus at 12. In Islam the only requirement is marriage before sex so I don't know why you are focused on how old someone is. Must be Apostates or something.
Brother do you have a source for that?
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What's so astonishing about this...? It is, but how repugnant!!!!!!!!!
What happened to that poor girl...?
What is your problem? "poor girl"??? She is just a young pregnant woman. She didn't get murdered or anything! She may not have married first so that makes it zina but you are making out that she is a "victim", but she was not raped. The word "rape" is legal semantics in this case. Again what is your problem? And who are you to judge?
Such incidents are the consequences of free-sex society. Girls of tender age indulge into sexual activities. Pornographic material
Young girls give birth at very young ages in muslim countries too, it's not cuz they're fornicating, they're married. Rasul Allah married Aisha, Mother of the Believers, radiAllahu anha, when she was 6 and consummated the marriage (had sex) when she 9.
In Islam the only requirement is marriage before sex so I don't know why you are focused on how old someone is..
yes , Mother Aisha ra came to Prophet's home to start her married life when she was 9 .
Now a days , u try to arrange marriage of a 16 yrs old girl , u will be jailed for it while many young girls have unlimited boyfriends and illegal childs
Christ will never be proud to reject to be a slave to God .....holy Quran, chapter Women , 4: 172
this sunnah is not a sunnah to be followed. It was a special case because Allah decreed it.
Allah did not fixed any minimum age for marriage ; also there is no maximum age gap between spouses mentioned in holy Quran . So , if a girl is not forced in to marriage and parents also did not arrange the marriage just because they are unable to pay a loan etc , then marriage is valid if a girl is 9 and husband is much older than her .
U ask any Indian Hindu or Muslims from Indo - Pak continent , they will tell u thier grand mothers , mothers got married when they were 10 , 12 or 13. Young marraige was common not only among Muslims but in different socities around the world even in US only 100 yrs ago.
What Allah did not forbid , we must not condemn it . Also we should remember young marriage is not a must.
And Allah Knows Best.
Last edited by Muslim Woman; 03-25-2010 at 02:59 AM.
Christ will never be proud to reject to be a slave to God .....holy Quran, chapter Women , 4: 172
Allah did not fixed any minimum age for marriage ; also there is no maximum age gap between spouses mentioned in holy Quran . So , if a girl is not forced in to marriage and parents also did not arrange the marriage just because they are unable to pay a loan etc , then marriage is valid if a girl is 9 and husband is much older than her .
U ask any Indian Hindu or Muslims from Indo - Pak continent , they will tell u thier grand mothers , mothers got married when they were 10 , 12 or 13. Young marraige was common not only among Muslims but in different socities around the world even in US only 100 yrs ago.
What Allah did not forbid , we must not condemn it . Also we should remember young marriage is not a must.
And Allah Knows Best.
No one is saying it is fixed or what not. If you ask those same SE Asians and they'll tell you how the husband was abusive in most cases. Islam also educates us to choose someone that is compatible. In MOST cases a 9yr old is not compatible with a 40+ yr old these days. Also, in Islam you can't just marry anyone you want. Your unborn kids have a right over you to choose a good partner. How is a 9yr old going to support fatherless kids at 20 when her husband long gone?
What is your problem? "poor girl"??? She is just a young pregnant woman. She didn't get murdered or anything! She may not have married first so that makes it zina but you are making out that she is a "victim", but she was not raped. The word "rape" is legal semantics in this case. Again what is your problem? And who are you to judge?
Yes, I was wrong at drawing false assumption that she was raped... My bad...why should I bother even she commits zina or gets raped or murdered...I think I should stop reading to these kind of news.
Originally posted by Karl http://www.islamicboard.com/world-af...ml#post1309009
Mary was pregnant at 11 and had Jesus at 12. In Islam the only requirement is marriage before sex so I don't know why you are focused on how old someone is. Must be Apostates or something.
Do you have any reliable source for this...or just you said it...
Mary was pregnant at 11 and had Jesus at 12. In Islam the only requirement is marriage before sex so I don't know why you are focused on how old someone is. Must be Apostates or something.
please use the term maryam may Allah be pleased with her and prophet isa pbuh
i dont know where you got this evidence from you should fear Allah when talking about things you have no knowledge of or give a source always on this forum
What is your problem? "poor girl"??? She is just a young pregnant woman. She didn't get murdered or anything! She may not have married first so that makes it zina but you are making out that she is a "victim", but she was not raped. The word "rape" is legal semantics in this case. Again what is your problem? And who are you to judge?
That's just the thing though- she isn't a 'woman', not in any sense of the word. She is a girl. A child. She was 'raped'- she was under the legal age of consent, and dangerously so- by five years (16 is the age of consent). I'm not sure about you, but in my opinion, children should not have sexual intercourse- it is morally, ethically, scientifically, and psychologically wrong. And anyone who thinks that having sex with children is fine and the 'norm' is, in my opinion, no better than a peadophile themselves.
Yes, I was wrong at drawing false assumption that she was raped... My bad...why should I bother even she commits zina or gets raped or murdered...I think I should stop reading to these kind of news.
Don't apologise. Karl is a member that thinks the BBC is invading India, and now he seems to think raping young girls is fine.
i dont know where you got this evidence from you should fear Allah when talking about things you have no knowledge of or give a source always on this forum
I'm not sure where Karl got that evidence from- the same website that says the BBC is invading India and it's fine for 11 year old girls to have sex I suspect!
That's just the thing though- she isn't a 'woman', not in any sense of the word. She is a girl. A child. She was 'raped'- she was under the legal age of consent, and dangerously so- by five years (16 is the age of consent). I'm not sure about you, but in my opinion, children should not have sexual intercourse- it is morally, ethically, scientifically, and psychologically wrong. And anyone who thinks that having sex with children is fine and the 'norm' is, in my opinion, no better than a peadophile themselves.
Don't apologise. Karl is a member that thinks the BBC is invading India, and now he seems to think raping young girls is fine.
I'm not sure where Karl got that evidence from- the same website that says the BBC is invading India and it's fine for 11 year old girls to have sex I suspect!
Wow what a perfect little systemite, you have all your politically correct ducks in a row, and full of lies too. It is Impossible for children to have babies only women can! Shame you are not a Christian are you? You sound like some kind of commie pommie. A real Christian would not antagonize the truth. I don't need an Antichrist commie picking on me. Don't speak to me or about me ever again, Supreme. I'm sick of your commie politically correct crap.
Allah did not fixed any minimum age for marriage ; also there is no maximum age gap between spouses mentioned in holy Quran . So , if a girl is not forced in to marriage and parents also did not arrange the marriage just because they are unable to pay a loan etc , then marriage is valid if a girl is 9 and husband is much older than her .
U ask any Indian Hindu or Muslims from Indo - Pak continent , they will tell u thier grand mothers , mothers got married when they were 10 , 12 or 13. Young marraige was common not only among Muslims but in different socities around the world even in US only 100 yrs ago.
What Allah did not forbid , we must not condemn it . Also we should remember young marriage is not a must.
And Allah Knows Best.
Excellent posts, Muslim Woman!
Unfortunately a lot of Muslims, Hindus, Christians etc these days are kowtowing to the secularist new world order and it's control of all facets of life based on the numerical AGE of the individual. This is subjective and illogical but it has taken over and crushed all forms of reason. It is pure prejudice based on the numerical age of someone.
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nah it really has nothing to do where your living brother its how your parents raised you at the end of the day there is a growing number of pakistani familes here. my friend has two sisters aged 11 to 13 and they go to non muslim schools here.. they are so well raised that you would not believe.
married Aisha, Mother of the Believers, radiAllahu anha, when she was 6 and consummated the marriage (had sex) when she 9.
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