Urdu Sex Stories in the Syllabus of Sex Education (OP)
Urdu Sex Stories in the Syllabus of Sex Education
By Amna Gilani • Mar 14th, 2010
There are many Western non government organizations working in Pakistan in different sectors. At least I haven’t seen any of person in the Pakistan from the poor stratum of society praising the work of these NGOs, or saying that they are really doing some fine work and he or she has benefitted from their work.
These NGOs are even present in the remote areas of Pakistan. Surprisingly, a huge number of these NGOs are working in the Northern areas of the country, where people are even unaware of basic necessities of the lives. These NGOs have opened up offices there and providing these people their own version of education. To be fair to these NGOs, they are also providing food and some health care to those far flung areas, but the way some of them are educating those people is very strange and alarming given our social barriers.
Some NGOs are rendering sexual education to the children of these areas, especially around Kafiristan and Gilgit. They are doing so in the name of the sex awareness. I am not against the sex awareness among the kids, because they are exposed to some form of it from media. In this time of cable and Internet, it’s unrealistic to think that kids are not curious about the sex, but the alarming thing about sex education given by some NGOs in NA is that they are handing out printed sex stories in Urdu.
Whats’ the point?
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The point is that the enemies of Islam and Pakistan are out to destroy this society just as they have destroyed the western societies with widespread debauchery and teenage pregnancies. Helping them are the hypocrites of the country who have sold their religion for a measly portion of this duniya.
and if you now assert that sex within marriage is safe is a myth, where does this "safe sex" happen then?
Remember you wrote this a few minutes ago:
I think he/she means using condom. Married couples can use condom.
Go to UK there are 14 year olds are having sex these days. That maybe true for other countries in Europe too.
It is not Al-Birr (piety, righteousness, and obedience to Allâh, etc.) that you turn your faces towards east and (or) west (in prayers); but Al-Birr is (the quality of) the one who believes in Allâh, the Last Day, the Angels, the Book, the Prophets and gives his wealth, in spite of love for it, to the kinsfolk, to the orphans, and to Al-Masâkîn (the poor), and to the wayfarer, and to those who ask, and to set slaves free, performs As-Salât, and gives the Zakât, and keep their word whenever they make a promise, and who are patient in extreme poverty and ailment (disease) and at the time of persecution, hardship, and war. Such are the people of the truth and they are Al-Muttaqûn (the pious).
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format_quote Originally Posted by EllyDicious
That's what I meant.
Condoms are not used only outside marriage. Are also used within marriage. So, sex inside marriage is not always safe.
Well you said it is a myth. There are few cases where sex inside marriage was not safe in which spouse had STD(s). I guess it depends on the culture, in cultures with high infidelity, sex within marriage might not be safe. Really ironic, when sex within marriage is not safe... it is just not right.
Anyhow, condoms in marriage are usually used as method of birth control.
It is not Al-Birr (piety, righteousness, and obedience to Allâh, etc.) that you turn your faces towards east and (or) west (in prayers); but Al-Birr is (the quality of) the one who believes in Allâh, the Last Day, the Angels, the Book, the Prophets and gives his wealth, in spite of love for it, to the kinsfolk, to the orphans, and to Al-Masâkîn (the poor), and to the wayfarer, and to those who ask, and to set slaves free, performs As-Salât, and gives the Zakât, and keep their word whenever they make a promise, and who are patient in extreme poverty and ailment (disease) and at the time of persecution, hardship, and war. Such are the people of the truth and they are Al-Muttaqûn (the pious).
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format_quote Originally Posted by Chuck
Anyhow, condoms in marriage are usually used as method of birth control.
But in fact condom is not popular in sex inside marriage. There were many complains from the husbands "I feel like bath while wear raincoat" they said.
Later, I see condom producer are trying to promote their product for men who want to having sex not with their wives. I can feel it when I watch their ads.
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life is about learning from your mistakes. if they want to have sex then let them have it but let them catch all these horrible diseases and get pregnant because that is the only way they are going to learn not to be going around like a Prostitute and thats how others will learn too.
what a big burden that is for any state of a country to be looking after these stupid people. this is why they grow up and they don't know any thing about life so the lack of responsibility falls on there children. i also want to say that the thousands of young girls in my country that go to the clinic several times in one month to get the morning after pill. these kids are being given pills and they dont even know the side effects of these pills either. these are not sweets that can be taken all the time when they make a stupid mistake. these pills are also known to give abortion to a woman also
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format_quote Originally Posted by EllyDicious
That's what I meant.
Condoms are not used only outside marriage. Are also used within marriage. So, sex inside marriage is not always safe.
We are talking about faithful marriage. If either a husband or wife or both get STDs from having extra-marital sex, then it is not sex within marriage anymore. It means either or both has broken the bond of marriage.
Hence, punishment for zina for married person is very very severe in Islam.
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Would you like me to post pictures of a little book taught to k-elementary students? You'll find all the stuff in there that was taught to us in grade 6 briefly and grade 9 more in details. Do kids really need to know all this when they don't even know what puberty is?
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format_quote Originally Posted by ardianto
"BTW Teenage pregnancy is fine as long as they are married".
Not fine for their health, physical and mentally.
Is this a joke? If not then speak for your own species not mine. Confine "their" to your kind, NOT MINE!
My species are adults by the age of 12 and that's the best time for them to have offspring.
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format_quote Originally Posted by Karl
Is this a joke? If not then speak for your own species not mine. Confine "their" to your kind, NOT MINE!
My species are adults by the age of 12 and that's the best time for them to have offspring.
Only if the 12 year old Mum and Dad can rely on the Bank of their Mum and Dad to help raise the offspring.
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format_quote Originally Posted by Chuck
Well you said it is a myth. There are few cases where sex inside marriage was not safe in which spouse had STD(s). I guess it depends on the culture, in cultures with high infidelity, sex within marriage might not be safe. Really ironic, when sex within marriage is not safe... it is just not right.
Anyhow, condoms in marriage are usually used as method of birth control.
Is Islam ok with birth control and the use of condoms (by married couples)? Or is there a taboo or rule against it like with the Catholics?
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