Does Allah swt still love me? for the sake of Allah swt plz help

people have prayed istikhara to leave you?

MUSLIM people?


prayin to leave a brother/sister in need?


what the...


YOUR BETTER OFF WITHOUT THEM!!!


chin up, inshAllah things'll get better!


you need none but Allah



Assalamu Alaikum

dont guess, KNOW it coz its true !!!!

got to tell you, if someone came to me spreading rumors about others i.e (backbiting) ghyeba, nameema etc. not only would I not believe what they say, I'd really frown upon them.. You can't allege to be a good Muslim then eat your brother's flesh, which is exactly what nameema and ghyeba are likened to.. eating your brother's flesh

so what have you to worry about, if your friend does said things, not only is s/he a BAD MUSLIM, but they will harm you none since Allah swt will take their good deeds and give it to you instead...

just close this chapter of your life and start anew.. don't look back, looking back won'y fix anything for you.. I speak from experience.. you'll spend years debarred from your life of your own choosing and what a sad way that is to spend one's precious life...

and Allah swt knows best

format_quote Originally Posted by AnonymousGender

May Allah swt reward you. In times of need you were all there, Ya Allah swt jzkallah khair. I am not worried or sad anymore. I am going to improve on my deen. You are correct I need to close this chapter, whatever people might say will not harm me inshAllah I am going to put my trust in Allahswt. This dunya is NOTHING is cursed. What I am going to work on is my deen we could die any moment I should be worried about the punishment of the grave hell fire the day of judgement not humans and their whispers and thoughts.
May Allah swt protect us all from the punished of the grave and hell fire and grant you Jannah.

I was really devastated about an event that happened to me the day before yesterday, I didn't want to share it with anyone, but as a vague vent I wrote about it in the sister's section, well, sob7an Allah as bad as it was and as bad as I was feeling to the point of not knowing how to receive a new day, my sisters all came to my aid and gave me hope and sabr, and encouragement.. that is what a true good Muslim would do for you, avert your sins, keep your secret and be there for you.. you deserve better, and I hope you realize that?

already you are feeling remorse
you made yourself into the guilty party
you tried to make amends for perceived errors
you have been polite to everyone

if Allah swt forgives all, and the prophet SAW was so clement (read below)
then how can this person, not forgive you or at least offer you a kind word after an apology?

sob7an Allah

Outstanding Forgiveness of the Prophet
By Living Shari`ah Staff

Another great quality of Muhammad was that he never took revenge on anyone for personal reasons and always forgave even his firm enemies. His wife `A'ishah reported that Allah's Messenger was not unseemly or obscene in his speech, nor was he loud-voiced in the streets, nor did he return evil for evil, but he would forgive and pardon. The people of the Quraysh rebuked him, taunted and mocked at him, beat him and abused him. They tried to kill him and when he escaped to Madinah, they waged many wars against him. Yet when he entered Makkah victorious with an army of 10000, he did not take revenge on anyone. He forgave all. Even his deadliest enemy, Abu Sufyan, who had fought so many battles against him, was forgiven, as was anyone who stayed in his house. `Abdullah ibn Ubayy, the leader of the hypocrites of Madinah, worked all his life against Muhammad and Islam and left no stone in trying to defeat his mission. He withdrew his three hundred supporters in the Battle of Uhud, which almost broke the backbone of the Muslims. He engaged in intrigues and acts of hostility against the Prophet of Islam and the Muslims. He tried to discredit Allah’s Messenger by spreading slander about his wife `A’ishah. About this incident Almighty Allah says: "Lo! They who spread the slander are a gang among you. Deem it not a bad thing for you; nay, it is good for you. Unto every man of them will be paid that which he has earned of the sin; and as for him among them who had the greater share therein, his will be an awful doom." (An-Nur: 11) Yet Muhammad forgave him and offered his funeral prayer and prayed Allah to forgive `Abdullah. But afterwards, Allah revealed: "And never (O Muhammad) pray for one of them who dies, nor stand by his grave. Lo! They disbelieve in Allah and His Messenger, and they died while they were evil doers." (At-Tawbah: 84)
An Abyssinian slave who had killed Muhammad’s beloved uncle Hamzah in the Battle of Uhud was also forgiven when he embraced Islam after the victory of Makkah. The wife of Abu Sufyan, who had cut open Hamzah’s chest and torn his liver and heart into pieces in the Battle of Uhud, quietly came to the Prophet and accepted Islam. He recognized her but did not say anything. She was so impressed by his magnanimity and stature that she said, "O Allah's Messenger, no tent was more deserted in my eyes than yours; but today no tent is more lovely in my eyes than yours."
Habar ibn al-Aswad was another vicious enemy of Muhammad and of Islam. He had inflicted a grievous injury to Zaynab, daughter of the Prophet. She was pregnant when she emigrated from Makkah to Madinah. The polytheists of Makkah obstructed her and Habar ibn al-Aswad intentionally threw her down from the camel. She was badly hurt and miscarried as a result. Habar committed many other crimes as well. He wanted to run away to Persia but then he came to Muhammad, who forgave him.
Muhammad was all for forgiveness and no amount of crime or aggression against him was too great to be forgiven by him. He was the complete example of forgiveness and kindness, as mentioned in the following verse of the Qur'an: "Keep to forgiveness (O Muhammad), and enjoin kindness, and turn away from the ignorant." (Al-A`raf: 199)
He always repelled evil with good, for, in his view, an antidote was better than poison. He believed and practiced the precept that love could foil hatred and aggression could be won over by forgiveness. He overcame the ignorance of the people with the knowledge of Islam, and the folly and evil of the people with his kind and forgiving treatment. With his forgiveness, he freed people from the bondage of sin and crime, and also made them great friends of Islam. He was an exact image of the following verse of the Qur'an: "Good and evil are not alike. Repel evil with what is better. Then he, between whom and you there was hatred, will become as though he was a bosom friend." (Fussilat: 34)


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format_quote Originally Posted by AnonymousGender

What a amazing man words cant describe him. So forgiving to those who tried to murder him, sob7an Allah!
I am proud for not replying to the terrible text Iblis whispered and whispered i am glad i did not. I cannot change people mind as long as Allah swt knows whats in my heart and i asked for forgiveness once. Khalas that is it.
Sister that was a beautiful article, jzkallah khair

It was my pleasure, I learned something from that article too

so promise now that you'll start a fresh new start and not look back insha'Allah

Greetings and peace be with you Gossamer skye;

prophet SAW was so clement

A wonderful story of forgiveness by the Prophet SAW. And in today’s world would he forgive a drunk driver who has killed?
Sometimes when we look at these very special people and see the remarkable things they did, we then struggle to understand the circumstances we should frogive people today.

In the spirit of rpaying to a loving and merciful God

Eric

As salaam walaikum AnonymousGender,

I'm sorry if I'm repeating this as I didn't get an opportunity to view all the answers.

Basically, people praying istikhara to stay away from you is completely wrong. Islam doesn't allow a person to break ties. Islam says, if you are angry with one another then do not stop talking for more than 3 days. The one who says salaam first gets more rewards. Smile is considered charity. Does it seem like what these people are doing is Islamic? One cannot use istikhara to ask about something forbidden.

In my opinion, if they decided to avoid you, it's better for you. You need to have better friends and better Muslims around you. If you are depressed, I suggest to read the book, "Don't Be Sad". Recite dua constantly. There are so many duas for despair, sadness, etc. Keep the company of good Muslims and try to stay active, eat a healthy diet, get a good night's sleep. Exercise releases endorphins which are the body's "feel good" hormones.

Don't worry about others. Allah does not forsake anyone. This is just shaitaan talking to you trying to make you stray away from Islam and feel depressed. Everyone's Iman level varies and fluctuates from time to time. Including the Sahaba. Infact, Sahaba's would get such thoughts that they told the prophet (saw) that they can't even bring it out to their tongues. It caused them distress. But the prophet said to not worry about it and this is also a sign of faith.

Don't ever give up! Allah will never give up on you as long as you are sincere and believe in Him.

I hope this was helpful. Everything I said has been mentioned in hadith, Quran, etc. Being in a rush, I couldn't provide you the sources but do check it out for yourself as well.

I'm not a member and so I used an anonymous account. InshaAllah the mods with be ok with that. If not, my apologies.

- Sincere Muslima.