sis first Alhamdulillah its really good that you wanna make Allah subhanahu wata'ala happy, try your best to realise first and foremost that by trying to keep your bf happy your making Allah, in whos hand is your destiny, unhappy. By making Allah unhappy... things could get ugly! Also if you make him happy, he may give you something far greater then that which you already have.
ok lets think abuot the balance here:
if you keep your bf happy by staying with him you also:
1. make your parents sad ( if they should ever find out)
2. Make your image worser
3. prevent yourself from the true and sincere worship of Allah
4. thus stop yourself from ever truelly making Allah happy
( THIS COULD RESULT IN GOING TO HELL AUDHUBILLAH)
and if you giv up this relation then:
1. Mercy will flow through (trust me i've experienced this)
2. Allah will bestow upon you something much greater (inshaAllah)
3. You will live a honest life
4. Allah will be happy with you
(this could result in going to heaven
)
Whats the point of a bf sis, look if its possible marry da geezah (ONLY if his willing to completely change into a true muslim) but if its not, then do that which is best in pleasing Allah inshaAllah
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