I want a second (and third, and fourth) wife because:
1. I work in daw'ah, and my goal is to influence enough people to realize that the purpose of their life is worshipping Allah subhaana wa ta'aala, and to better live their lives according to how He wishes us to. Daw'ah, however, starts at home, and the first group of people to influence is one's children. My current wife and I plan on having as many children as possible, but in a rational manner (spaced out every 2.5 years, so that the children can complete the course of nursing and the mother can get a break as well).
Along with that, we both see that the best thing we can do for this Ummah is bring in more practicing, righteous children into the world (or, at least try to train up as many as possible), and having more wives is a natural extension of this
2. I prayed istikhaara regarding having more wives, and it came out very positively, in the manner I asked. Consequently, what is best for my deen in this life and the Hereafter is this.
3. Man was created to be polygynous - it's in our natures, so naturally, I have a physiological inclination towards it. It's the propaganda machine of Iblis and his cronies that tries to condition our minds into practices that are twisted and corrupted, and away from our natural disposition.
Finally, it's nothing wrong with my wife. Actually, our lives are very happy, seeking the pleasure of Allah subhaana wa ta'aala. We're just want to expand the happiness
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