salam brothers and sisters.
i've been wondering for a long time, why do some muslims marry their cousin on purpose?
our prophet (pbuh) said that most close person (in blood) that you can marry with is your cousin. but that's just a borderline, it doesn't mean it's a muslimish way to marry a cousin. actually it's not good for the children you may have if there's a blood connection between the parents.
well we all are brothers and sisters bec our parents are Eve and Adam, innt? so thats dont matter who we are married to? Am i right? If im mistake, someone correct me please
salaam
specific people cannot be marraid - close relatives eg Uncles, brothers and sisters.
Do you think the pious don't sin?
They merely:
Veiled themselves and didn't flaunt it
Sought forgiveness and didn't persist
Took ownership of it and don't justify it
And acted with excellence after they had erred - Ibn al-Qayyim
lol yes, that's true. But some people prefer their own family, tribe (?), or/and race. You can't really blame them though... Once becomes accustomed to their own culture after a while, even though these cultures are all under the one hood of Islam! That's what makes us so special! We are so diverse, Alhamdulillah. W can brag about having EVERY nationality! And scores of each one, as well. We have various mixes of races as well. Masha'Allah!
Takbeer! I wonder why I have such a hard time saying this out loud at actual live gatherings....
lol yes, that's true. But some people prefer their own family, tribe (?), or/and race. You can't really blame them though... Once becomes accustomed to their own culture after a while, even though these cultures are all under the one hood of Islam! That's what makes us so special! We are so diverse, Alhamdulillah. W can brag about having EVERY nationality! And scores of each one, as well. We have various mixes of races as well. Masha'Allah!
Takbeer! I wonder why I have such a hard time saying this out loud at actual live gatherings....
yeah i think so or maybe their family know each other very well? of course not MASHAALLAH
So remember Me; I will remember you. And be grateful to me and do not deny Me.
I don't see anything wrong with marriage between cousins. What I find wierd is people marrying their step-parents/step-children and parents-in-law and children-in-law. That i find totally unacceptable but it is allowed in western culture (from what I've seen in soap operas). (It is not allowed in Islam though.)
I don't see anything wrong with marriage between cousins. What I find wierd is people marrying their step-parents/step-children and parents-in-law and children-in-law. That i find totally unacceptable but it is allowed in western culture (from what I've seen in soap operas). (It is not allowed in Islam though.)
Yeah I agree like domestic stories on magazine, some young girls go out with teachers at their school and sometimes have sexual relatives with them. boyfriend/girlfriend found out they were brother/sister in law.
So remember Me; I will remember you. And be grateful to me and do not deny Me.
I think from the day I was born or from when I was quite young my mum had already decided which cousin I was going marry, from backhome. lol I was err.. well ticked off when I recently found out but aint happenin InshAllah muahahaha
# AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu
Well you need to get married to someone soon, otherwise, there wont' be anymore fishes in the sea
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well we all are brothers and sisters bec our parents are Eve and Adam, innt? so thats dont matter who we are married to? Am i right? If im mistake, someone correct me please
W can brag about having EVERY nationality! And scores of each one, as well. We have various mixes of races as well. Masha'Allah!
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