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    Homosexuality and Islam ?
    Is homosexuality is disallow in Islam?
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    Ruling on homosexual feelings


    Question

    I have a big problem. Sometimes I think that I am a gay, but at the same time I have feelings towards women too. I feel miserable. I know Islam is against homosexuality. Am I sinful to have these feeling towards men?


    Answered by

    Sheikh `Abd al-Wahhâb al-Turayrî, former professor at al-Imâm University in Riyadh


    A person is not sinful for homosexual tendencies in the heart. Allah does not call us to account for the feelings in our heart that we cannot always control. However, we are called to account for the deeds that we do.

    A person who has homosexual tendencies must avoid acting upon them. That person should remain chaste and seek the reward from Allah for being abstinent and patient.

    I advise you to do the following:

    1. Do not proceed with those feelings. Instead, engage yorself with something else that is productive.

    2. Do not look at men with desire.

    3. Do not respond to any mental desire to do any action conforming to these feelings, by touching other men, coming closer to them, or the like.

    4. Increase your portion of worship, particularly fasting, if you can do so.

    May Allah guide you always.


    Source: http://en.islamtoday.net/node/1516





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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    format_quote Originally Posted by EgyptPrincess View Post
    The rest of that message is just the sheikh's opinion, of which sheikhs disagree or certain things. Like the nose piercing thing.
    I would say that it´s more as the interpretation than just an opinion but anyways, with a little search we could find some absolutely opposite interpretations from other sheikhs. Internet is a place which gives everything to everyone - and it´s not only a good thing.
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    Possibility of homosexuality among animals


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    I recall someone interpreting verses in the Qur'an (7:80-81) as indicating that animals cannot exhibit homosexual behavior. Is this a correct interpretation?


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    Sheikh Yûsuf al-Badrî


    The verses in question are:

    “And (We sent) Lot when he said to his people: What! do you commit an indecency which any one in all the worlds has not done before you? For ye practice your lusts on men in preference to women. You are indeed a people transgressing beyond bounds.” [Sûrah al-A`râf: 80-81]

    Perhaps, the commentator of this verse, wanting to show the seriousness of this sin, interpreted this verse to mean that even animals would not commit such a thing. This may have been his way of trying to convince his audience how reprehensible such an act is.

    However, to use these verses as evidence that homosexual behavior is never exhibited by animals is stretching the meaning of these verses a bit too far.

    We must keep in mind that Allah does not hold anyone legally accountable for their doings except human beings and the Jinn.

    The word in the verse translated as “all the worlds” is the word (`âlamîn). This word is used in this context in reference to humanity and the Jinn (also referred to as al-thaqalayn). Animals are not understood from this word when used in this context.

    And Allah knows best.


    Source: http://en.islamtoday.net/quesshow-166-666.htm



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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    format_quote Originally Posted by MuslimInshallah View Post
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    Ruling on homosexual feelings


    Question

    I have a big problem. Sometimes I think that I am a gay, but at the same time I have feelings towards women too. I feel miserable. I know Islam is against homosexuality. Am I sinful to have these feeling towards men?


    Answered by

    Sheikh `Abd al-Wahhâb al-Turayrî, former professor at al-Imâm University in Riyadh


    A person is not sinful for homosexual tendencies in the heart. Allah does not call us to account for the feelings in our heart that we cannot always control. However, we are called to account for the deeds that we do.

    A person who has homosexual tendencies must avoid acting upon them. That person should remain chaste and seek the reward from Allah for being abstinent and patient.

    I advise you to do the following:

    1. Do not proceed with those feelings. Instead, engage yorself with something else that is productive.

    2. Do not look at men with desire.

    3. Do not respond to any mental desire to do any action conforming to these feelings, by touching other men, coming closer to them, or the like.

    4. Increase your portion of worship, particularly fasting, if you can do so.

    May Allah guide you always.


    Source: http://en.islamtoday.net/node/1516





    SubhanAllah. I was looking forward to seeing evidence, Everything is clear hope it helped the brother.

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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    A warning: don't support sodomy, you'll be drawn and get the sin, too.

    However, having gay feeling is contrary to the fitrah, in violation with fitrah. It goes against logic, and basic intelligence.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    Thank you, MuslimInshallah, for providing many answers to my questions. It's now clear with evidence to me that, in Islam, it is generally okay to be gay as long as one does not act on the feelings from that.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    wa'salaam,

    Where do we find this in Al Quran? Thanks.

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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    format_quote Originally Posted by bound View Post
    wa'salaam,

    Where do we find this in Al Quran? Thanks.
    Read again post number 39.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    People are not born gay. It would be divine injustice to create someone that way and then punish him for it on the Day of Judgement. For those Muslims who are saying this, they became convinced of what the disbelievers say about it so it would be accepted as normal but it isn't and will never be. People need to be careful and make sure what they talk about is in the boundaries of Islam and not their secular environment.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    format_quote Originally Posted by Misbah0411 View Post
    People are not born gay. It would be divine injustice to create someone that way and then punish him for it on the Day of Judgement. For those Muslims who are saying this, they became convinced of what the disbelievers say about it so it would be accepted as normal but it isn't and will never be. People need to be careful and make sure what they talk about is in the boundaries of Islam and not their secular environment.
    Finally someone who spoke some sense.

    It isn't with the fitrah to be gay, and since Allah SWT created us ALL under the fitrah, none was born gay.

    Islam calls to the pure fitrah. And it condemns sodomy heavily, therefore sodomy could never be with the fitrah, and as such none was born with it(homosexuality).

    It is a disease. Take into consideration this:

    Allah SWT created EVERYONE with the fitrah.
    Islam calls to that pure fitrah.
    Islam condemns sodomy,
    Therefore sodomy could never be part of the fitrah
    and therefore none could be born with it.

    And not to mention, sodomy is very filthy, and it goes against all logic and common sense. It is faaaaar from the fitrah.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    format_quote Originally Posted by EgyptPrincess View Post
    Like I said, tell me where in the Quran it specifically mentions that no man or woman can be born gay.

    Allah creates men and women with all kinds of disabilities, both mental and physical. Why can't homosexuality be one of those mental disabilities?

    P.S So animals that have same sex intercourse are also inspired by shaytan? Don't be ridiculous.
    Homosexuality is not a mental disability, at least not according to Islam. If it was, then there would be no punishment for gay sex.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    format_quote Originally Posted by Misbah0411 View Post
    People are not born gay. It would be divine injustice to create someone that way and then punish him for it on the Day of Judgement. For those Muslims who are saying this, they became convinced of what the disbelievers say about it so it would be accepted as normal but it isn't and will never be. People need to be careful and make sure what they talk about is in the boundaries of Islam and not their secular environment.
    I agree that this is logical way to think.

    I don´t know do people born as gay or not but here is now this problem: are people punished at the Judgement Day because they are some kind of (like gays) or because they have had homosexual feelings or only because they have had homosexual acts? If you have proof and information for this, please share it with us.

    I don´t try to be "normal" in the eyes of non-Muslims, I am just interesting to know what Islam really says as being gay (without doing any gay-like acts during the life). Can you show clear evidences that people are really punished because they only have had homosexual feelings but not acts? I again underline that people should tell where they have got their information - just same if they claim that people born as gay or not.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    It isn't with the fitrah to be gay, therefore none was born with it. Period.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    format_quote Originally Posted by sister herb View Post
    I agree that this is logical way to think.

    I don´t know do people born as gay or not but here is now this problem: are people punished at the Judgement Day because they are some kind of (like gays) or because they have had homosexual feelings or only because they have had homosexual acts? If you have proof and information for this, please share it with us.

    I don´t try to be "normal" in the eyes of non-Muslims, I am just interesting to know what Islam really says as being gay (without doing any gay-like acts during the life). Can you show clear evidences that people are really punished because they only have had homosexual feelings but not acts? I again underline that people should tell where they have got their information - just same if they claim that people born as gay or not.
    Your intentions do not count, unless you act on these intentions.

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    While I was going to help this man ('Ali Ibn Abi Talib), Abu Bakra met me and asked, "Where are you going?" I replied, "I am going to help that person." He said, "Go back for I have heard Allah's Apostle saying, 'When two Muslims fight (meet) each other with their swords, both the murderer as well as the murdered will go to the Hell-fire.' I said, 'O Allah's Apostle! It is all right for the murderer but what about the murdered one?' Allah's Apostle replied, "He surely had the intention to kill his companion."
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    The intention is there, but if you do not act on it then nothing will happen. Sometimes we cannot control the way our mind works, our intentions, but that's why we are different than animals, we have the ability, the rationality to decide whether or not we act on things and when we know of the consequences.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    This is different of course with good intentions, such as you perhaps wanted to help someone and then you were not able to because something else happened. You had the intention to help, but there were other circumstances that prevented this.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    What an accusation to say someone is born gay.. you are saying that Allah SWT created him gay, which He SWT did not, and not only that, you are saying that ALLAH SWT made SOMEONE gay, to WHICH Allah SWT HIMSELF condemns and says is EVIL. And

    So you are saying Allah SWT put an evil thing from the start? What an evil thing to say!
    So are you saying that Allah SWT created someone gay, while Allah SWT Himself made it impermissible?

    As a brother said, it'd be divine injustice from Allah SWT to create someone gay. And Allah SWT is all-just. Never is Allah SWT unjust.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    There is no need to get angry. Apparently, this thing can be understood in two different ways.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    This topic ended when MuslimInshAllah provided the information and the brother was happy with it..he even said he understands that as long as one doesn't act upon their "gay" feelings they won't be punished for having those thoughts or feelings..if the brother wanted to ask anything else he would've but he didn't so don't know why some people are getting angry and dragging this to next level.
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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    MorbidEntree ain't our brother yet. Allahu alam whether he will be.

    Anyways, sodomy is a deviation from the fitrah.

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    Re: Being gay and Islam

    format_quote Originally Posted by EgyptPrincess View Post
    It's not haram to be gay but it is haram to act on it.
    Are you kidding me? So you're saying it's okay to drink as long as you don't get drunk?

    Being gay and acting upon it are the same!
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