Love Before Marriage...

[nebula]

i love some people therefore when i get married id have loved before marriage correct?

 

[Najm]

i love some people therefore when i get married id have loved before marriage correct?

AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Correct. How much you love them before marriage is the real question.

I think i know why love marriage CAN BE haram.

Love marriage doesnt have to be haram. I believe if things are done the correct way then its completely halal. BUT there is one big problem is love marriage. One big problem.

FiAmaaniAllah

 

[burdenofbeing]

I've spent two years with my current wife before marriage as friends. We've been married for 5 years and I'm all too happy.

Being honest, and not trying the borders of islamic law is enough. It is possible to love someone without getting too intimate you know...

 

[convert]

I would argue that love does not exist, or it does not exist in the notion that most believe that it does. Go ahead and flame me for being a cold, bad person for saying this.

 

[crayon]

I would argue that love does not exist, or it does not exist in the notion that most believe that it does. Go ahead and flame me for being a cold, bad person for saying this.

Gladly.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

for inner peace, and a clear conciounce... avoid the pre-marital stuff


seriously.

why get married with a ton over your shoulders...

 

[Najm]

for inner peace, and a clear conciounce... avoid the pre-marital stuff


seriously.

why get married with a ton over your shoulders...

AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

You i know what ur saying 100% right.

There is a matter of opinion here. Cause i have seen many arrange marriages (in the right sense), that havent worked out at all, and then i have seen many love marriages (in the right sense) work out really well. So from my experience, id prefer love than arranged, but never harram.

You dont need love to make a marriage work ( maybe stay unhappy all your life though). But if you have love then it is easier to make marriage work!!!

and using your famous quote:

Why get married to have a ton over your shoulders.

FiAmaaniAllah

 

[Najm]

AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Correct. How much you love them before marriage is the real question.


Love marriage doesnt have to be haram. I believe if things are done the correct way then its completely halal. BUT there is one big problem is love marriage. One big problem.

FiAmaaniAllah

The one big problem: PARENTS

X meets Y,

Y loves X,

X wanna marry Y,

Y's parents goes mad!

And heres the scene.......

pakistani parent:

love........:muddlehea..........before marriage :enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!:
what have i done to bring this day upon myself, somebody get me a paracetomol, this will be the end of me, is this what i raised you up to be!!!!!:enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!::enough!:i didnt even see your father until 6 months AFTER the marriage!!!!! , what will become of this generation, wheres my paracetomol!!!!!:enough!:

i wonder what the prophet would make of this outburst?

So what does X and Y do now?

to be continued....

FiAmaaniAllah

 

[Güven]

Don't leave us in suspense!