enaged and marriage?

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Brasco said:
She asked her parents and they said that she was too young for marriage. So far now, I've only asked my mom and she only smilied :D For now, my parents went to Iraq and they'll return in September, and at that time I will ask them again and I want a clear answer but I guess, my parents will be again marrying (this) early :D Insha'allah all will be okay!
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i forget to ask, how old is she?
 
Thanks sister! I'll make du'a for you and me!! Insha'allah all will be okay!! :cry:
 
Brasco said:
Thanks sister! I'll make du'a for you and me!! Insha'allah all will be okay!! :cry:
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Thanks, u will in my prayer too InshaAllah Allah will make it easy for us... i realise getting married is hard- not easy i thought it would be imsad
 
Yep, that's right! but it is just the course of life :D btw. where do you live??
 
Brasco said:
Yep, that's right! but it is just the course of life :D btw. where do you live??
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Yes but we must fight, we shouldnt give up just bec people say so. Look at Christian, boyfriend/girlfriend is easy, why cant getting married easy for Muslim too? :cry: i live in UK... i see that ur live in Germany, a nice place mashaAllah, i visited there for summer last year, lot of people in there convert to Islamic MashaAllah
 
Well, I guess, it is also easy for muslims to marry :) but the parents are just too worried. they want us to be happy! they want us to keep a good life! they want us to have a good future! You may now that phrase: "Trust in Allah ta'ala, but tie your camel first"

Of course I want to get married right now :D hahah
 
Brasco said:
Well, I guess, it is also easy for muslims to marry :) but the parents are just too worried. they want us to be happy! they want us to keep a good life! they want us to have a good future! You may now that phrase: "Trust in Allah ta'ala, but tie your camel first"

Of course I want to get married right now :D hahah
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Maybe ur right, but we are adults, aren't we? Of course, we have to be patient and we cant do anything to change our families' mind expect Allah. Me too, brother. Maybe Engaged would be good? :D Its good to know other person is on the same page as me, i though me and my partner soon to be inshaAllah are the only one LOL :-[
 
but being engaged will not help us much :D the situation will be still the same :D
 
Yep that's right!! insha'allah all will be okay!! I can not wait having kids :D
 
Brasco said:
Yep that's right!! insha'allah all will be okay!! I can not wait having kids :D
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Excatly, its what im planning to do wiv my partner soon to be :statisfie InshaAllah, awww bless u!
 
Yanoorah said:
:rollseyes

Bridal shower is like the hennah party, the girl gets all prettied up n stuff. But then some cultures differ on when they do it.



No thats called a Baby'Shower.
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Oh right. How'd I get that confused..
 
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Engaged is the step before getting married,and married is when you both are halal for each other.

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Engaged is the step before getting married,and married is when you both are halal for each other.

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Salam,

The problem here is terminology, translation and understanding. When using the word Engaged/Engagement and Marriage in the english language they have a specific meaning, and the words Niqah, Maher and Walima in the arabic language have a specfic meaning.

Alot of people translate Niqah as engagement which is totally incorrect, engagement is the period before the actually wedding cermony takes place (interms of english tradition), and Niqah on the other hand is the actual contract/agreement between the two parties and on its completion makes the couple husband and wife. The actual "Wedding" is a party/walimah, which is a occasion of celebration. There is also a narration were the prophet (saw) encouraged the women to beat the drums so the community know they are married and not commiting zina.
 
IbnuFarah said:
Salam,

The problem here is terminology, translation and understanding. When using the word Engaged/Engagement and Marriage in the english language they have a specific meaning, and the words Niqah, Maher and Walima in the arabic language have a specfic meaning.

Alot of people translate Niqah as engagement which is totally incorrect, engagement is the period before the actually wedding cermony takes place (interms of english tradition), and Niqah on the other hand is the actual contract/agreement between the two parties and on its completion makes the couple husband and wife. The actual "Wedding" is a party/walimah, which is a occasion of celebration. There is also a narration were the prophet (saw) encouraged the women to beat the drums so the community know they are married and not commiting zina.
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:statisfie Thanks for telling me that, i do not know about it at all! :embarrass
 

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