Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

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Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

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Abdullahii said:
how close will you be to your reflection from the mirror, like Queen Grimhilde forever and always?

or where you referring to rasema's post
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No, I don't think she was rererring to my post. While I was editing it, due to typos, I added more stuff. May Allah,subHana wa ta'ala, unite us.

Umer r.a. prayed fajer and recited Surah Yususf,and when he reached the verse"I expose my distress and anguish only onto Allah," he raised his voice in crying

"Abdullah ibn ash-Schikhir relates:"I saw the Messenger of Allah praying and his chest was'buzzzing',like the buzzing of a cooking pot,due to crying."
 
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Abdullahii said:
i could spend a day without both of them the nagging wife and the annoying siblings
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rofl.. I was tickled by that...


on a separate note: how can anyone choose, it is like saying you are lost at sea and can save only one person, who would it be your mom or your spouse?..

I think I'd just sit there and die with them.. I mean how can you choose?
 
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Emotions are emotions. In a few minutes they disappear then we regret and feel guilty of the way we felt. Just like our mood change.
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Gossamer skye said:
rofl.. I was tickled by that...


on a separate note: how can anyone choose, it is like saying you are lost at sea and can save only one person, who would it be your mom or your spouse?..

I think I'd just sit there and die with them.. I mean how can you choose?
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That's definitely a tough position. As much as I'd like to use that opinion as well, I don't think it's the right way to go.
 
Rashad said:
That's definitely a tough position. As much as I'd like to use that opinion as well, I don't think it's the right way to go.
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Why not? I thought about it alot actually, as it was one of those dumb questions they posed us in philosophy class.
and so I figured, I get tired after exactly ten to fifteen mins max with a massive rush of adrenaline before my whole body shakes and I get cramps under water. In other words, I can't be that far off shore even to save just one. So the options are.
1- assess whether I can make two trips back and forth
2- ask the stronger of them to float on her/his back until I make another trip by myself or with help
3- make one trip and assess quickly if someone on shore can help me or if I can go back for another swim for the other party.

given that being that close to shore is unlikely in such a case in all likelihood I'd risk not just killing one but two people if I attempt to swim in any direction, also the other person has got to be completely trusting in other words when you tell them to float while you keep with one hand their head above the water while swimming with the other hand, there can't be sudden moves so you both don't end up drowning, in such a case to stay all there try to keep them both afloat and wait for help would be far better than choosing a party, even if it means you die together..

the problem with these questions, is that they are so far detached from real life situation that in order for you to properly assess what you'll do there has to be some realistic aspect to it..

probably if you really thought about it, you'd draw the same conclusion.
but who knows?

:p

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Obviously one would be closer to spouse & eventually children because you live with them. You tend to become distanced from parents/sibs at least somewhat after marriage. Your focus is then on your own family.
 
In the Name of Allah .
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Ask to choose between mother and wife is a stupid question because we are not yet in this case and we don't know how the situation will become ( if it will become ) .

Argue about it is speculation and Islam is not founded on speculation but on real case . Allah is The One who is doing the situation and if it happens a such case , you should see how you will act .

So now I reply at the question , with whom am I closer ?

With my wife . I was muslim since 6 years when I met my wife and I completed my dihn with her . She changed my life , we shared feeling across and a lot of things of the life that it is not possible with others .

After that , of course , it is evident we must do the efforts to close to Allah .:statisfie

But this is not the same story .:D

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im not married but im closer to my mother than my bros! mother deserve gold, sliver and bronzer! masha'Allah
 
Like sis Rasema, I'm happiest on my own. Solitude brings out the best in me. I'm single, but people, whatever their relationship to me is, are just like flowers whose scent I will enjoy for a little while but then I need to be alone. I feel only Allah understands me and I don't have to justify myself to Him because He knows what I do and why I do it. He is the bestest friend anyone can ever ask for. He is my best friend and all I need.
 
The Ruler said:
Physically or emotionally? On both levels, pretty close.



No, I don't unnecessarily pick on people.
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that sounds like queen grimhilde to me but once the prince comes it'll be more like snow white...im positive

Being alone is good it means you can get more things done but a human being needs a partner and the closeness felt with that partner supersedes the closeness felt with siblings

Life started that way with adam and eve.....
 
Abdullahii said:
that sounds like queen grimhilde to me but once the prince comes it'll be more like snow white...im positive
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No. She thought she was pretty. Prettier than Snow White. Gay.

Being alone is good it means you can get more things done but a human being needs a partner and the closeness felt with that partner supersedes the closeness felt with siblings
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Not always.
 
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I'm close to my siblings and even closer to my cousins (my cousins are around my age and my siblings are much older or much younger),

but I am by nature a loner and an introvert, which really worries me for when the time comes for me to marry, I don't know if I can communicat with my husband properly.imsad
 
mingzayni88 said:
I'm close to my siblings and even closer to my cousins (my cousins are around my age and my siblings are much older or much younger),

but I am by nature a loner and an introvert, which really worries me for when the time comes for me to marry, I don't know if I can communicat with my husband properly.imsad
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Marriage is the beggining of a new life and the mentality changes with time .

Don't despair , Allah has the capacity to gives you a good life with a good husband .

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AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

I was always closest to my sister until she got married. She cant spend too much time with me course the hubby gets jealous and eavedrops!

I havent got anybody close now. At least it gives me a lot more time to reflect and do more ibaadah so i can get closer to Allah :statisfie

FiAmaaniAllah
 

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