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^:confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused: Anyways thank you :)
Mai abhi tak pareshan hoon wo sher sunkar....stupid g***s :p
 
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Safiya 1 said:
True, mujhe bhi aisa hi lagta hai. Kitna acha lagta hai sooch kar ke yahan par bhi logon ko urdu aati hai :statisfie .Mujhe aaj tak apni zindagi main ek bhi sher samajh nahi aaya :p
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=) lolz same ere anyways wht do ppl usually post in the urdu general thread??
 
abdulmājid ;1411222 said:
Aap aisa nahin karsakte...
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Kion nahi kar saktay? Aap Chutti ki darkhwast dain main uss darkhwast ko manzoor kar loon ga :p
 
ham ne chutti ki darkhwast warkhwast nahin di...ab ham jummah ki namaaz ku jarahe hai...baad me aake baat karte hain. hehe...
 
Safiya 1 said:
True, mujhe bhi aisa hi lagta hai. Kitna acha lagta hai sooch kar ke yahan par bhi logon ko urdu aati hai :statisfie .Mujhe aaj tak apni zindagi main ek bhi sher samajh nahi aaya :p
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Mere khyaal men, bahot kam log samajh the hain shaaiyri ki zubaan.. shaaid woh asli Urdu hai aur aaj kal ke awaam ki Urdu nahin :p
 
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I think this will help you. If you don't understand anything you can ask me. Next time please create a new thread. If you are waek in English then post it in this section but not this thread. :)

1. Take a deep and continuous breath. Start doing dhikr maybe la howla wala quwatta illa billa . This will help you to calm.

2. Have a walk. Look at high sky. Continue to breathe deep and easily. So you value the situation and calm down.

3. Do some physical exercises. When you are angry- your body is very tensed and tough. If you stretch your muscles it will relax your body, as you will spill out all your negative energy into action. Your brains will get more oxygen and it assists to clear your thoughts.

4. Write down all your thoughts. Write down that you are mad and why. Avoid being rational, logical or laconic. Write on paper all you are feeling this moment. Try to write all in details. The function of this technique is to shift all your anger out of your head on paper.Tear the paper afterwards so that no one can see it and know your feelings.

5. Be grateful. Find someone to thank. Do you not forget about yourself. Thank that you have woken up today, you are able to do many good deeds (its another case if you don't) , thank that that the Sun is shining for you, that the sky is blue and the grass is green.

6. Prayer. Ask God to be with you during this anger moment and lead you.

7. Meditation. Close your eyes, look into the sky, and be all your anger breathing deeply.

8. Change of places. Move yourself on your enemy’s place. And look at situation from his point of view. Better look at the situation from the ceiling. Focus on details, especially on funny and foolish ones. Strive to forgive your enemy as well as forgive truly yourself.
Remember the rewards of forgiving.

9. Go back to your childhood memories. Recollect state when you were angry. Hug this child and say: “All is ok. I am here. You are good child. I love you and I will not leave you.”

10. Your values. What is the most significant thing in your life? Who are the most important people in your life? What kind of person do you want to be? Think and accept that point that you are living your life, and you are living your values. There is a good man inside you that wants to help you. I wish you good luck!

http://spiritualglobe.blogspot.com/2008/03/10-ways-to-control-your-anger.html
 
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^ ^o) Then she has to wait to make her posts 300. It means more 455 posts. Its really difficult :exhausted. aap fikar mat karo inshallah aap ko apne gusse par khabo karna aa jayega. Bas aap sab ke diye hue baatao ko yaad rakhiye aur jab gussa aaye to in par amal kare :). Behtar ho ga agar aap ye thread bhi padhe http://www.islamicboard.com/showthread.php?t=134306453
 
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