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wa3lykoum aslaam..salam,
has anyone ever told you that you may have a slight personality disorder?
Not really.. but would be interested in your diagnosis!
'flaunting' medical expertise doesn't cause one a personality disorder but I am sure we can amend the DSM with your personal opinionsi think you do. you go around on the boards all day flaunting your medical expertise.

Not at all do you?do you think it makes you better than everyone else?
That is an adequate assessment of your person so far!your attitude is quite rude and condescending.
Another adequate assessment of your person.. what is with the rant?you seem to value your opinion higher than others. there are nice ways of saying all the things you want to say, but since you have decided to be rude
Why would I want to seek your validation? Also you're quite apt as posing a faulty scenario and then answering it yourself with the same linear tract that created it in the first place!and Allah has stated in the Quraan that we do not need to be nice to those who hurt us, i will return the favour. first off, your medical opinion or not, i don't care about really, i don't see why you need to always mention your medical expertise in everything to validate your thoughts and opinions, perhaps because you are insecure about your opinions so you think that you need to tell others you indeed have been told you are smart be some medical school. well let me tell you, your logic is so flawed in so many ways it is quite laughable to me. i mean look at this " it would be more painful for me to see someone I love with tubes going in and out of them from every orifice along with a loss of dignity, decline in function for my own selfish reason of wanting them around in any physical form!" RIGHTTTTTT and THAT is not selfishness, that YOU would be the one with the problem seeing them in pain?! now that is a contradictory statement if i ever saw one, it's truly hilarious. well it is to someone at a slightly higher level of understanding/logic than you.
ha? ;Dsecondly, you would not have been able to understand this, because you need to have understood what i wrote in the first place, which you did not,
Again, nothing selfish about that even if we're to stick to your very narrow view of a marriage. It is a matter of what one will be able to psychologically tolerate and still be a good wife!but let me clarify - i was speaking about a very SPECIFIC situation where you love someone, you can marry them, there are no other problems between you, and you decide to NOT marry them based just on the fact that you do not wish to be a part of a polygamous marriage just because you do not want to share. you can say it any way you like: those personal opinions about not wanting to be a part of a polygamous marriage, assuming all else is fine, which is what i was suggesting in my post, those stem from pride and a lack of understanding of Islam. cause a true muslim woman who is free of trashy western emotions, will blindly follow what Allah says and would be ok with her husband being married to someone else in addition to her and would not say "all or nothing".
Who said it is unislamic to not want to share your husband? Perhaps you can evince that for us from the Quran and Sunnah before speaking as if an authority figure on the subject!my inner child eh - you seem like the most childish one here as you need aggression and rage to get a point across? secondly, i am well aware of what life may or may not through my way, who are you to tell me i have a rose tinted view of the world when you do not even know me? i mean talk about judgemental people on this forum. perhaps it can be expected, it's the internet. i do know there can be many other problems in life alright. but i was talking about a SPECIFIC situation, about women who are happily married and their husband says i want to marry someone else and they say sorry no can do, i can't share you. sure i understand life is complicated and can throw a lot at you, but it's you who has a black and white view of the world because it's that all or nothing thought process, which is by the way, also unIslamic. do you think you know better than Allah? shame on you. your ego is so great that not only do you think you are better than others, you also think you know better about Islamic matters.
Again, evince for me from the Quran or Sunnah that it is 'Unislamic' to divorce your husbands based on such grounds!i also get it's a choice, not an obligation. i believe i addressed that when i said, sure all women want to be with the one they love and optimally not share. but life can throw a circumstance at you where you have to make a choice between allowing your husband to marry again OR leaving your husband. you girls who say "all or nothing" would divorce your husbands, which is ridiculous and unislamic and stupid, and it's due to too much pride, lack of love, and overall lack of understanding of life and religion in general. the sooner you women realize that men are polygamous BY NATURE and ALLAH has decreed this, you will get over your pompous internet thug selves.
There there.. Why are you so angry and confused? what is with the 47547647864986 word rant?and i see you agree with me that "It isn't up to you to decide what is considered selfish or oxymoronic." - well you said something was selfish in the beginning of the post, so are you disagreeing with yourself? make up your mind first?

Does it matter to you whether I am a doctor or not? If you really are a doctor, if you really are a doctor, if you really are a doctor? why are you seething with this much hate? Where have I said to you that I am a doctor in such words or 'flaunted' my medical expertise?also, are you really a doctor? it's shocking to me. you are one of the most judgemental people i have ever seen. i am saying this not just based on my interaction with you right now, but i have been reading posts by you before this also and you have some serious personality problems. the internet is not for you to unload all your problems. you, of all people, should be more sensitive about talking about "mummifications" and what not, because you should realize the sensitivity of such issues are realize the other person may have been though something very hurtful and hearing this is painful for them. don't just blindly write whatever you want. live up to your responsibilities, if you really are a doctor. and if you can't do that, at least be a good muslim, which you don't act like on here. how you are in real life, i don't know, so i will not comment on that. but as for here, you come across as someone who doesn't understand simple things, loves jumping to conclusions, has no regard for others opinions and overall has too much of an inflated ego due to your doctor status. get over yourself and stop thinking you're better and more mature than everyone else due to your age or education. i may be half your age and no where nearly as educated as you, but i may have been though much more in life than you can imagine sitting behind your screen, so learn to be humble. come back down to Earth. you head floats in the clouds. i have an exceedingly good intuition and i can tell you something, you probably have many problems in life due to this flaw in your character, so please try to fix it.
Also what do you know of Good Islamic character? I mean surely you've heard of:
Abou Hurayrah relates that Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his neighbor. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his guest."� [Sahih Al-Bukhari and Sahih Al Muslim]
For a good pious Muslim who also has tremendous knowledge in psychology and diagnosing random folks on a forum and reached milestones in Islamic jurisprudence, and fiqh you sure are exasperated!
calm down pls.
Al7mdlillah .. we thank you!wsalam and i have changed my gender to undisclosed and will for sure, not be posting here ever again because this is just not a nice welcoming place where people have good healthy friendly discussions. everyone needs to resort to being rude to get some attention.
best,