in-the-shadows
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τhε ṿαlε'ṡ lïlÿ;1439517 said:
are you muslim? just wow. you have so much down that is so wrong. what makes you think it was not segregated? have you not read the Quraan already that you should know this? about not mixing freely with men and that you should no interact with non-mahrams? what is wrong with you? and if you have not read it or ever heard of that being wrong, which frankly surprises me, i am sure you have and are just acting like you don't know, still, here, fatwas full of Quraan references:
1- Attraction between the sexes can occur in any circumstances, no matter how much men and women may deny that. The attraction may start within the bounds of sharee’ah and end up going beyond those bounds.
Even if a person protects himself (by marriage), he is not safe from the snares of the Shaytaan.
3- Even though a person may be able to guarantee himself and he works with the opposite sex within reasonable limits, he cannot guarantee the feelings of the other party.
Finally, there is nothing good in mixing and it does not bear fruit as they claim. On the contrary, it corrupts sound thinking.
- i had inserted links but due to the discrimination on this website it will not let me post links to prove you wrong. how ironic that you can go around saying whatever stupidity comes into your brain and someone who has something constructive to say, they won't let them post it. but moving on.
internet forums did not exist at the time on the Prophet so i would not be able to give you any direct Hadith which mentions that. but you see i, unlike you, am not one to challenge my Allah. i don't go up to brothers with beards and say salam even, i look down when i walk on the street and they pass me, therefore, if it's the internet, i still have my heart in hijab and don't want to even talk to them, as i would not talk to them in real life. end of story. you may need lots of evidence to convince you because you are too arrogant, a good muslim looks at the Quraan and says, ok Allah said this is wrong, meaning it's wrong in every way, any way, all ways. finish. if there were ANY exceptions, Allah would state them. He did not. Prophet did not. so therefore, neither can you pass fatwas according to you messed up views. go study Islam and stop wasting time on forums. this is by no way a good halal thing to engage in when you are talking to all sorts of guys on here. it is not even related to work so it's in fact the worst type of interaction. it is completely unwarranted and unnecessary. for instance, i saw a post last night about you going swimming - was that really necessary - why do you want people to know how you dress when you swim? do you not realize weak men may start picturing you or being curious about how you must look? have some sense! you're not a child i am sure. for all your claim to be smart, your actions are quite stupid. it is absolutely necessary to speak up against wrong people like you so you fail miserably in your agenda to spread lies and get other people off track!
again it was necessary to post this for smart people, excluding you, to read this and understand, you have too much of an ego to ever admit you are wrong. but hopefully other sisters will read this and smarten up. i posted this for their benefit.
men are weak creatures at heart. they can literally even be attracted to so much as a fingernail that is really nice looking and the colour of the skin around it. why has Allah told us women to be ever so careful. even our attitude and our rudeness can be attractive to some. perhaps having our gender as undisclosed can still make them wonder, oh i wonder if she's a girl, oh i wonder how she looks, oh i wonder this and that. i'm not saying all brothers on here are like that. but many are, which i can tell from the fact that you will always see them posting in the common forums and engaging in wrong topics. there are even topics on here about intimate relationships and very sensitive stuff, and you will see brothers jumping up to comment on those. i do question the integrity of any of those who talk to or ever reply to a female on this forum. they should not be doing it, end of story. we are muslims and we need to be responsible and stop all this nonsense of brother/sister, these people are not your mahrams, there is no need to interact with them. the fact that you need to have so many posts before you can gain access to a girls only section is sad. it's not like i never have to interact with men in real life, i definitely do, BUT that is necessary, and work related and it ends at that. this on here is unwarranted and it's not like you are getting any reward for it, and isn't it better to be cautious and protect yourself? who do you know is out there? be smart girls. stop posting in the common forums and post only where other sisters read your threads, because YOU do NOT realize even things which you would never think could attract a man, they could attract him, you don't know yourself as well as your Allah does. so obey him and stop being such a question machine asking for "evidence" and asking people to convince you. read what Allah expects from you, follow that, be happy, finish. if our Prophet even prohibited us from looking or talking, how about mixing freely on the internet talking about sex and other filthy topics? it angers me and cannot find people who engage in it good in any way.
someone needs to break your ego and put you in your place. don't act like you know all that, you barely know Islam. you choose not to answer to valid points and try to stick up fights on stupid little points. just wow. borderline personality disorder much?
