Where are the brothers for their brothers?

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One of our brothers here has mentioned on a number of occasions how helpful members here have been with regards to the ongoing problems he has been and is facing and has posted about here. However, all the people who have gone out of their way to reach out to him, or help him, have been sisters. Where are the brothers? Why can't brothers go out of their way to be there for their brother in his times of need in the same way?
 
I think women are more helpfull in nature, and respond better to people who need help.
As to where they are, no idea sleeping, on the ps4 ?
But I guess now youv called them out they will suddenly appear here now [emoji53]
 
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Sisters are more caring, affectionate, understanding by nature I guess.

Brothers we need to rise up! :D
 
I think that women have been grown with empathy and this is common in every cultures. Taking care of others is one of the most common characteristics that women hoped to have. How much of kind of feature is congenital and much is learned, is the other thing.
 
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Women are more in contact with their emotions. As for men, they are more on their minds. I think.
 
I think it's widely accepted that women (mothers) are generally more caring, compassionate, understanding and tolerant and the man (father) is stronger, resilient and have greater control over their emotions. I think this is why in the west when a husband and wife divorce, the child automatically, by default, goes to the mother. Unless of course there are extenuating circumstances.

Generally speaking women are more suited to raising the child then men. This of course does not mean that there are some incredible fathers out there and some terrible mothers.
 
Serinity said:
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Women are more in contact with their emotions. As for men, they are more on their minds. I think.
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Yep. Perhaps this is why a lot of the politicians, generals, leaders etc are men. They're just better at critical thinking.
 
EgyptPrincess said:
Yep. Perhaps this is why a lot of the politicians, generals, leaders etc are men. They're just better at critical thinking.
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This is why the leader position is for the males. ;)

That is how Allah SWT created us. All the prophets AS are males, as they needed be.
 
Serinity said:
This is why the leader position is for the males. ;)

That is how Allah SWT created us. All the prophets AS are males, as they needed be.
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Grrr :raging: :) Women can lead also but generally speaking, men are better decision makers.
 
EgyptPrincess said:
Grrr :raging: :) Women can lead also but generally speaking, men are better decision makers.
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It'd be a disaster for women to be a leader. And there is a hadith where The Prophet SAW said that the nation who appoints a woman as their leader, they'll never prosper.

Leadership is man's field.

And Allah SWT knows best.
 
Serinity said:
It'd be a disaster for women to be a leader. And there is a hadith where The Prophet SAW said that the nation who appoints a woman as their leader, they'll never prosper.

Leadership is man's field.

And Allah SWT knows best.
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Margaret Thatcher was one of the best prime ministers the UK ever had. She pulled the UK out of a never ending spiral of coal mining. She made the toughest decisions and she did so with courage and conviction. The British Empire (largest in the world) was ruled in part by Queens, mostly kings but also Queens.

Woman can lead and it's been proven.

Anyway when I have a family I'll be the leader, ain't no man telling me what to do ;D
 
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Margaret Thatcher was one of the best prime ministers the UK ever had. She pulled the UK out of a never ending spiral of coal mining. She made the toughest decisions and she did so with courage and conviction. The British Empire (largest in the world) was ruled in part by Queens, mostly kings but also Queens.

Woman can lead and it's been proven.

Anyway when I have a family I'll be the leader, ain't no man telling me what to do ;D
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But a nation that appoints a woman as their leader won't prosper.

It is in a hadith.

for men to take the duties of women, and women the duties of man, in such a way, the women become masculine and men feminine. Would be a disaster.
 
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Serinity said:
But a nation that appoints a woman as their leader won't prosper.

It is in a hadith.

It'd be very disgusting for the men and the women to switch roles.
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I just told you Margaret Thatcher was a prime minister which means she was appointed and she rescued the UK from uncontrollable debt and a crumbling economy. I'd the the UK is pretty well off lol. We have prospered very much. She also lead the Falklands war which was a decisive victory for the UK... The hadith you're talking about, is it even authentic? Or one you just stumbled across on Google?

As for switching roles, some women just don't like men being in charge... If my husband tried bossing me around he'd get a serious wake up call :Emoji7:
 
EgyptPrincess said:
I just told you Margaret Thatcher was a prime minister which means she was appointed and she rescued the UK from uncontrollable debt and a crumbling economy. I'd the the UK is pretty well off lol. We have prospered very much. She also lead the Falklands war which was a decisive victory for the UK... The hadith you're talking about, is it even authentic? Or one you just stumbled across on Google?

As for switching roles, some women just don't like men being in charge... If my husband tried bossing me around he'd get a serious wake up call :Emoji7:
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your post stinks of unislamic nature, I feel.

anyways:

https://islamqa.info/en/3285
 

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