Please observe a certain level of maturity!

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I do not want to complain, but I feel as this is quite important especially in some of the more important/serious forums.

At times, there are occasions that people lose their maturity, and with it their self respect...

There is a certain way of speaking, which should definately be avoided on an Islamic forum, such as: Awww bwess...and u kno..the common slang/ganster language....

Also, maturity in general, some people tend to act slightly, well, what can i say? Just immature. There's nothing wrong with that at times, but not all the times.

I hope I haven't offended nobody, Just a thought.....
 
yeah true man, my apologies people I act totally immature at tyms but i cant help it! sowi!
 
I also think that a certain level of maturity also means writing correctly. The post above is hard to understand. If she took the time and maturity to write, it would be comprehendable.
 
mlsh27 said:
I also think that a certain level of maturity also means writing correctly. The post above is hard to understand. If she took the time and maturity to write, it would be comprehendable.
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''she'' has gotta name and sorry if u cant understand my post its just the way I write...U a bit harsh in ya reply :rollseyes. Im a fast typer doesnt mean i dont take enuf time 2 write it properly nor does it mean that i write immaturely :rollseyes
 
I think it is necessary to look at what you write. It doesn't matter if you are a fast typer or not. I am not trying to be harsh, but I have tried to read several of your posts, and I find them hard to read. They are somewhat immature because with maturity comes patience. Don't be in such a rush to post, take your time and make sure people can understand what you are saying.
 
ass salaamu alaykum

i agree with you akhee...that has been on my mind too for quite a while aswell....
it's either childishness/immaturity or this rude/bad person act that really is annoying!!!:heated:
i know ppl do get carried away at times(i do too) and let the inner child comes out or what have you, but plz do try to keep a cap on it for most of the time inshaAllah!!....:-\

i'm glad you bought this up akhee:thumbs_up

wa jazaakumullaahu khayran
 
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I think it is necessary to look at what you write. It doesn't matter if you are a fast typer or not. I am not trying to be harsh, but I have tried to read several of your posts, and I find them hard to read. They are somewhat immature because with maturity comes patience. Don't be in such a rush to post, take your time and make sure people can understand what you are saying.
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:rollseyes WHATS SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT MY WRITING? Its the way every1 writes, all I do is abbreviate a little- like YOU 4 example= U ??? Understand? :rollseyes...plus I think before U judge a persons maturity U shud luk at the CONTENT of the post rather then how they write or type..and i dont be in a rush 2 post
 
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.and i dont be in a rush 2 post
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* I am not in a rush to post. Abbreviations are ok occasionally, like when you are talking to a good friend on instant messenger. However, I would think you would want to be respected. When people use so many abbreviations and poor english, it makes them appear childish and dumb.
 
if u dont understand dis.. or wat sis pink n posh sayz den ignore us.. simple :)

im sorry, we'v had dis topic b4, and i aint changin 4 no-one..
 
If you decide to post like that, then don't expect to be respected by other people in the forum.
 
mlsh27 said:
* I am not in a rush to post. Abbreviations are ok occasionally, like when you are talking to a good friend on instant messenger. However, I would think you would want to be respected. When people use so many abbreviations and poor english, it makes them appear childish and dumb.
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Harsh, but that's reality, we need to learn to accept it, and work on our weak points, the style a person speaks/writes, also reflects on the maturity/wisdom/intelligence of that person.

A person writing like this is far more respected and shows their maturity more, rathr thn wen ppl writ lyk dis, u get me sis?
 
yup i getz u.. but i stik wid ma word yh, i dnt change 4 no1..

sis b4 bro Iqram, u dont speak 4 other people on this forum do u? nope, so speak 4 urself.. iz dat kool? or wait, u want me 2 rite in perfect english so u understand? if u do, lemme kno..
 
I have created a thread on the topic of writing/typing correctly, and there are many people who agree. I have been stating that I would love you and others to write in correct English.
 
many.. not all..

lol dont bother tryin 2 make me type in full english, cuz it aint gonna happen. im not changing 4 anybody.. u mite fink im stubborn, den so be it..
 
well what can i say?? hmm...now this boy has got some reality lolz, anyway well yh i do use slang ahem at times tho but can't help it so am not sorry lolz am soo soo soo soo sorry.
BTW...whats wrong with saying "AWW BLESS"??
 
I don't mean this to sound rude Muslim 4 Life, but are you African American?
 
ass salaamu alaykum

what iqram, and alpha dude and are sayin is right!!....:thumbs_up
but i've seen that sum1's postin direct comments to another person, i believe that if you wanna advise your muslim bro/sis "directly" you should do it privately and with kindness inshaAlah!!!...

wa alaykum ass salaam:peace:
 
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