My situation..help please

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Let's sum it up as such:
1. If you truly loved someone, you wouldn't call her "filthy"
2. If she becomes Muslim, her past will be forgiven.
3. Although the things she has done are not allowed in Islam, they are allowed for other religions.
4. If you do think she is filthy, then cut contact.
5. Dating is NOT permitted in Islam.
 
lolwatever said:
She isn't even a Muslim yet.. so what's teh fuss about?
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The fuss is i can't understand how a man dare to judge a woman? Is he 100% sure can be a good husband to her? Judging after his queries i presume he event can't respect her-filthy.
 
erm whats the point of this thread going on ( people are posting about the guy )the guy asked some question (S) his questions were answered correctly to my knowledge...
Done!
 
The fuss is i can't understand how a man dare to judge a woman? Is he 100% sure can be a good husband to her? Judging after his queries i presume he event can't respect her-filthy.
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^^ now that's a fare enough statement!

Mara, i definately am not making a judgement of him or her.. but the prophet said we should set our prioty to marry a woman of good religion and character.. such behaviour isn't a characteristic of a religious woman or man for that matter...

but the moemnt she becomes Muslim, it's all over, past is past, as if it didn't happen :D
 
i dont want to argue with anybody but the guy asked a question his question was answered islamicly done.. no matter how twisted his/your opinions are let em be he called her some things that were wrong but by now I'm sure he is aware of that.....
 
mysterious said:
*I think the guys question has already been answered......*
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i think we have to change his attitude too a little bit- can't remain with the impression he is the best and he can judge everyone.
 
doubt that will happen if people will continue insulting him if you would like to help him change his attitude i suggest you do it in a nice islamic manner.....
 
^^ totally agree sis, in meanwhile i'll leave sis quraxabad to get back to room temperature while i do some work.

mara said:
i think we have to change his attitude too a little bit- can't remain with the impression he is the best and he can judge everyone.
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i tooootally agree with ya :D

but it could have been done in a nice way instead of people going thru the roof and acting like superman or something :) I mean the point of the forum is to teach people in the nicest way possible... not give them shrilakkings

all the best
 
lolwatever said:
^^ totally agree sis, in meanwhile i'll leave sis quraxabad to get back to room temperature while i do some work.



i tooootally agree with ya :D

but it could have been done in a nice way instead of people going thru the roof and acting like superman or something :) I mean the point of the forum is to teach people in the nicest way possible... not give them shrilakkings

all the best
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I agree, but both you and I, and others have all acted out of line...I am sorry if I am getting the wrong idea of your post, but it appears that you aren't admitting to have done the same.
 
mlsh27 said:
I agree, but both you and I, and others have all acted out of line...I am sorry if I am getting the wrong idea of your post, but it appears that you aren't admitting to have done the same.
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and i'm sorry if i didn't make my stance clear, but maybe i should hav emphasized that teh case applies both to males as much as it does to females (im sure i said that to crystal in the first page or two)

also made it clear that its haram to date her b4 marriage (i said that in the 2nd or 3rd page)

and i made it clear that the language used may not have been the best way to put it (i made that clear in the middle and towards the end)....

hope that sums up my stance now :D if i'm wrong in any of the above feel free 2 quote me and corerct me..

take care all the best!
 
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Okay Okay

Lolwhatever

My Appologies I Dont Mean To Scream But You Get Under My Skin By Saying Horrible Things Like That


Truce???
 
Quruxbadaan said:
Okay Okay

Lolwhatever

My Appologies I Dont Mean To Scream But You Get Under My Skin By Saying Horrible Things Like That


Truce???
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done deal, i'll remove all the unnice stuff i said too when i get bak. :statisfie - done-

all the best! sorry if i got any1 upset at me
 
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mysterious said:
doubt that will happen if people will continue insulting him if you would like to help him change his attitude i suggest you do it in a nice islamic manner.....
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I can't. I can give him advices only in catholic manner :-[
 
^^ and christians believe that if someone slaps your left cheek u should giv him the other one... :D




















[though that doesnt make sense to me]
 
mara said:
I heard once a man talking about this relations and he said something like that: every man wants to have girlfriends before marriage to live to the full but still when comes the time of marriage he wants his wife to be untouched. So from where so many girls?
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True for some males. I wouldn't call them MEN. Such thinking proves they are limited in their ability to think and take personal responsiblity. Just stay away from this type of person.
 
searchingsoul said:
True for some males. I wouldn't call them MEN. Such thinking proves they are limited in their ability to think and take personal responsiblity. Just stay away from this type of person.
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Thank you for advice...i am talking generally..not a concrete case. :-[
 
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