All girl Islamic boarding school

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^^^ i just said it in the post before yours sis!!!! so come on spill the beans which one did u go 2?
 
Sunflower said:
Jamia Al-Huda in Nottingham - have u heard of it?
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Salam

yes my sisters currently studying there am sure u know her ..lol:D:D:D:D:D
on this forum i mean!!!!

i personally think am sure some peeps already said..depending on ones intention if they really want to study n gain knowlege etc..then alhamdulilallah very good! truely for the pleasure of Allah[swt] & no one else..but now adays ppl tend to get forced to go there..so their intention would be to go doss etc...

so i personly think yes in some schools the adaabh[manner] etc..is very good not all schools this is only hearing experiences from my siters school but with some..the teaching is very good!!..n in most cases they are both good like the one my cousin goes to in Lancaster cant remember what its called but ive got to say compared to my sisters one in Nottingham n the one in Lancaster i'd go for the one in Lancaster so would my sister lol!!!:D:D:D:D:D

wasalam
 
Assalamu alaikum

An interesting discussion.

Hmm.. Islamic boarding schools. I'm not sure. There are pros and cons to all teaching institutions which lay a greater emphasis on a particular ideology. I went to an Islamic school for the first five years of my secondary education and i'm still weighing up the pros and cons.

Pros:
*There is little to no conflicting opinions existing as everybody has the same faith in common. This could prove to provide a good learning environment.
*Greater emphasis is laid on Islam within the teaching curriculum giving pupils the opportunity to build on their faith.
*Little distraction

Cons:
*In entering such a 'closed' place far removed from real life, many students do not learn the vital skills needed to adapt well within society.
*Can lead to narrow-mindedness and brainwashing.
*Although most boarding schools provide excellent religious education, they tend to fall alittle behind on the secular subjects such as English, Maths and Science.

The schooling years are some of the most important years of a childs life and it is where they learn and build on their social skills and such like which are crucial for later life. Although i think parents do have a responsibility to teach children about Islam, a child knowing nothing else but the religion being shoved down their throats so to speak is unlikely to develop into a well rounded, well adjusted individual being tolerant of differences found within the wider society. When they come out of their instituations not having interacted with different people within society, what is to happen to them? That worries me. For this reason, i am not very keen on the idea of Islamic schools.
 
Sunflower said:
^^^ i just said it in the post before yours sis!!!! so come on spill the beans which one did u go 2?
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Wasslaam!

Yah i know the one in nottingham too!!!One my mates went there!!!

Anyway i went to jamea-al-kauthar one in lancaster!!!:D My sister is currently a teacher over there!!
 
no1_outbider said:
Wasslaam!

Yah i know the one in nottingham too!!!One my mates went there!!!

Anyway i went to jamea-al-kauthar one in lancaster!!!:D My sister is currently a teacher over there!!
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salam

thats well cool..yeh once the students qualify they tend to teach there:D:D

my cousin is currently studying there she in here second yr...got 4more yrs to go!!!i think:D:D:D

wasalam
 
Whats her name my sister is maybe currently teaching her class LOL:D

Lets see whether or not shes a good girl :P
 
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If I had kids I wouldn't send them to a boarding school. It's just not right I guess, because the kids aren't in constant personal contact with their parents, and at such a young age, where they begin to detach from their parents anyway, the vital parent- child relationship just breaks up completely.
I guess, the reason for me saying this is because, the kids won't feel the need to answer to their parents any more. They'd probaby just do all the things their parents disapprove of.
However, having said that, I would send my kids to an Islamic School. I've been to one, and feel that my foundations have been strengthened to a degree Alahamdulillah. Fair enough you'll have the kids that mess about and fall in with the wrong crowd. But Alhamdulillah, I feel that I wouldn't be half the person I am today if I didn't go to one. For one thing, I probably wouldn't have had as much confidence in myself (But that's just my point of view!)
It depends on whether your parents provide you with a strong Islamic upbringing I guess, and not force it upon you, because i've seen in the cases where girls are forced to attend an Islamic School, they turn out worse than those who haven't attended one, and haven't had the upbringing, but perhaps I'm generalising?
Has anybody else here attended an Islamic School?
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no1_outbider said:
Whats her name my sister is maybe currently teaching her class LOL:D

Lets see whether or not shes a good girl :P
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salam

i think she'll kill me if i give u her name..she's older than me not younger !!!..same wit my sister they both same age..

how about u give ur sis name n i ask my cousin if she knows her...lol..:D :D

wasalam
 
LOL yah safe

My sisters name is Asmah (apa) LOL!!!

Ask her!! BTW you bengali ??:)

ill PM you the surname :D
 
salam

LOLzzzz.....I THINK my cousin talked about heeerr mmmmhhmmhh...lol...
yes [apa] thats what they call there teacher...

yes am bengali...:D:D:D

eerm i dont when i will see her next lol..coz she's from London...coz Lancaster is nearer to Manchester she does come over to ours to stay..

so inshaAllah i will ask

wasalam
 
LOL cooolllllllll!!

I dont think theres any other Asmah apa currently in jamea!! Does your cousin know she from germany??

If so then yepsss thats my sister!!

Cool Ya bangla!!I got bare Bangla mates!!
 
salam...

lolzz..i will ask her am sure i heard that name...:D:D:D
woooww germany ....mashaAllah ..thats the good thing about jamia u get to meet all diff ppl from diff backgrounds!!!,...so nice i meet them lol when i got to meet my sisters friends in jamia...

good to hear u got loadsa bengali friends....:D:D:D;D;D

wasalam
 
no1_outbider said:
LOL cooolllllllll!!

I dont think theres any other Asmah apa currently in jamea!! Does your cousin know she from germany??

If so then yepsss thats my sister!!

Cool Ya bangla!!I got bare Bangla mates!!
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salam

my cousin was over asked her ..yes she knows ur sis..its her teacher...she teaches arabic right???:D :D

wasalam
 
hi please give me some feed backs on jameal al kauther as i am sending my daughter there,
reson why they make you learn urdo in the first place from the begining senior years, is that most kitaabs be in urdo ...not saying that they arent available in english.......but mostly it is out of respect ....... another reason is one has to face diffrent of people elder ones who maybe arent aware of english....urdo is a lnguage that is known by a huge number of people!!!

In my boarding we had some maulanas in the higher classes that werent too good with english and for most as said it is surely out of respcet.....Even the malunas that knew english yet spoke and taught in urdo!!!

Btw!If your wondering how maulanas MALE members thought???

It was done through a mic & speakers......there were baby links provided if incase the students didnt understand something!!!:)

AND YEP SECULAR EDUCATION IS BEEN TAUGHT........GCSES TO A-LEVEL AND MAYBE OPEN UNI DEPENDING WHO IS INTRESTED .........SO DONT WORRY YOUR NOT MISSING OUT ON AYNTHING!!![/QUOTE]
 
when its uni time, you won't find a gender segregated one, at least not in Europe, so I guess it's better to get your children used to the mixed environment in the early years?
 
salam to all my sistersplease give me any infromation on jameal al kauther,as i am sending my daughter therewhat is the school,teacher,study,food,friendlike i like to get much information,i would be very gratefulallah hafiz
 

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