Coping with Depression, stress and anger

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Re: Im so depressed :(

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People, when they want to make a new group usually twist the words around. So in the translation it might say that he [Muhammad, peace be upon him] is the last of the prophets [Nabi], so they'll say that the Ahmadi man is the last Messenger. [Rasool]

Even though anyone who's a messenger of Allaah is a prophet. [Nabi] But a prophet isn't always a messenger. [Rasool]


Why? Because Messenger's of Allaah bring a new law, whereas prophets convey on the message of a previous prophet usually. And because it says in the verse that Muhammad, peace be upon him is the last Nabi [Prophet] - they purposelly take it out of context and say that the Ahmadi guy is the final Messenger [Rasool]



Even though we don't interpret the Qur'an according to the understanding of anyone except the companions of the Messenger of Allaah, Muhammad (peace be upon him.)


This is what it says in tafsir ibn kathir:


He is the Last of the Prophets


[وَلَـكِن رَّسُولَ اللَّهِ وَخَاتَمَ النَّبِيِّينَ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ بِكُلِّ شَىْءٍ عَلِيماً]


(but he is the Messenger of Allah and the last of the Prophets. And Allah is Ever All-Aware of everything.) This is like the Ayah:


[اللَّهُ أَعْلَمُ حَيْثُ يَجْعَلُ رِسَالَتَهُ]


(Allah knows best with whom to place His Message) (6:124). This Ayah clearly states that there will be no Prophet after him. If there will be no Prophet after him then there will surely be no Messenger after him either, because the status of a Messenger is higher than that of a Prophet, for every Messenger is a Prophet but the reverse is not the case. This was reported in many Mutawatir Hadiths narrated from the Messenger of Allah via a group of his Companions, may Allah be pleased with them. Imam Ahmad recorded a narration from Ubayy bin Ka`b, from his father that the Prophet said:




«مَثَلِي فِي النَّبِيِّينَ كَمَثَلِ رَجُلٍ بَنَى دَارًا فَأَحْسَنَهَا وَأَكْمَلَهَا، وَتَرَكَ فِيهَا مَوْضِعَ لَبِنَةٍ لَمْ يَضَعْهَا، فَجَعَلَ النَّاسُ يَطُوفُونَ بِالْبُنْيَانِ وَيَعْجَبُونَ مِنْهُ وَيَقُولُونَ: لَوْ تَمَّ مَوْضِعُ هَذِهِ اللَّبِنَةِ، فَأَنَا فِي النَّبِيِّينَ مَوْضِعُ تِلْكَ اللَّبِنَة»


(My parable among the Prophets is that of a man who built a house and did a good and complete job, apart from the space of one brick which he did not put in its place. The people started to walk around the building, admiring it and saying, "If only that brick were put in its place. '' Among the Prophets, I am like that brick.) It was also recorded by At-Tirmidhi, who said "Hasan Sahih.''


http://tafsir.com/default.asp?sid=33&tid=41783

Allaah Almighty knows best.
 
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Re: Im so depressed :(

So come on sisters, what should I do? :cry:


Hi Tanya..or should I say Salaam aleijkum...

I can see you are hurting desperately over this man and to an extent I am in a similar situation. I am only new Muslim of one week MashaAllah, and I am finding it very hard. Also because in October I divorced from a Muslim man but at that time I was Catholic and the different religions caused lots of damage between us. But in the months I had in the mean time, I finally got to examine Islam on my own without his pressure or interference and Jazak Allah I have seen the truth. I can't tell anyone I know because they will think I converted for him..but no i did not.

He has been helping me since, but he was conversing with an Egyptian girl and now he has decided that although he loves me, he doesn't think we are compatible. I love him soooo much, despite all the hurt we caused each other, and I trust in Allah that it would be a better marriage this time if we did get married now. But he has decided he doesn't want me anymore even though he says he loves me like no other...and this is difficult for me to accept. So I am remembering all our happy days, still reading old texts and emails from when we were good in our marriage, we were so perfect for each other when things were good between us...but its all gone now and I am trying to cope with isolation from family and friends and being alone...so I understand what ur feeling sister.

All I can say is, do your best to find someone else, because there are many good brothers out there, and I would recommend the internet sites where you put up a profile..but do it with good intention and you will see that you are a person worthy of being loved in the same way in which you love others...which is obviously with your whole heart...

I haven't read every post in this thread but I am worried about your immediate living situation, you said you might find yourself homeless..please pm me if this is a real imminent danger of this happening.

Also tell us sisters what your interests are so we can discuss options with you..no one wants to see you alone and suffering...

You are so strong sister I admire you so much for leaving him though you did not want to, and I know the pain of rejection also...but believe me, distracting yourself is the key.
 
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Hi Tanya..or should I say Salaam aleijkum...

I can see you are hurting desperately over this man and to an extent I am in a similar situation. I am only new Muslim of one week MashaAllah, and I am finding it very hard. Also because in October I divorced from a Muslim man but at that time I was Catholic and the different religions caused lots of damage between us. But in the months I had in the mean time, I finally got to examine Islam on my own without his pressure or interference and Jazak Allah I have seen the truth. I can't tell anyone I know because they will think I converted for him..but no i did not.

He has been helping me since, but he was conversing with an Egyptian girl and now he has decided that although he loves me, he doesn't think we are compatible. I love him soooo much, despite all the hurt we caused each other, and I trust in Allah that it would be a better marriage this time if we did get married now. But he has decided he doesn't want me anymore even though he says he loves me like no other...and this is difficult for me to accept. So I am remembering all our happy days, still reading old texts and emails from when we were good in our marriage, we were so perfect for each other when things were good between us...but its all gone now and I am trying to cope with isolation from family and friends and being alone...so I understand what ur feeling sister.

All I can say is, do your best to find someone else, because there are many good brothers out there, and I would recommend the internet sites where you put up a profile..but do it with good intention and you will see that you are a person worthy of being loved in the same way in which you love others...which is obviously with your whole heart...

I haven't read every post in this thread but I am worried about your immediate living situation, you said you might find yourself homeless..please pm me if this is a real imminent danger of this happening.

Also tell us sisters what your interests are so we can discuss options with you..no one wants to see you alone and suffering...

You are so strong sister I admire you so much for leaving him though you did not want to, and I know the pain of rejection also...but believe me, distracting yourself is the key.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. How long did you feel like this for? Does it still hurt you?
Alhumdolilah I am ok with the homeless situation, I have found a room to rent, but I know I will be worse off there as I'll be stuck in one room all the time, I won't be wondering around the house freely like I could in my previous place.

I will be more depressed there, stuck within those 4 walls. This is the first time i'll be moving in with strangers, I was living with a friend before, so moving in with total strangers will be very difficult for me. I'm moving in 2 weeks.

I have left that guy, but i'm not strong at all, I still long for him and I cry every night. Stupidly i'd probably take him back if he wanted me. I only finished it because I felt he lost interest in me and found someone else, not because i'm strong. I don't pray very often, but I do pray as much as I can for my heart to heal, InshahAllah.

People tell me time and time again that time will heal me, but I'm not patient enough, I get very frustrated and angry and I end up thinking stupid things like, Allah will never make me happy, prayer won't make a difference because i'm being punished, this is a test which I will never pass and even if I do, there will be another test waiting for me, maybe a much worse test.

I don't like it when I start thinking like that, it's so wrong. I have faith in Allah (swt) but i'm scared that everytime I break down I lose faith.

For instance, when i'm trying to get over him, I end up having dreams about him, that i'm with him and we are laughing and joking, but when I wake up, reality hits me hard and I cry and cry, my tears and suffering seem never ending. :cry: Nothing can distract me from him, if it does then it's for no more than 5 minutes and i'm thinking about him again, wondering what i've done, why he won't call :cry:
 
Re: Im so depressed :(

salaamz!
you need to keep on praying and also pray salaatul taubah as it is a big sin to have a relation ship without having a nikaah, all i can say sis is that shaytan is ashtraying you and trying to take you back in the wrong path, may allah stay us away from bad and evil shaytaans act. Why not recite surah ya'seen every day inshallah this will help you.
 
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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. How long did you feel like this for? Does it still hurt you?
Alhumdolilah I am ok with the homeless situation, I have found a room to rent, but I know I will be worse off there as I'll be stuck in one room all the time, I won't be wondering around the house freely like I could in my previous place.

I will be more depressed there, stuck within those 4 walls. This is the first time i'll be moving in with strangers, I was living with a friend before, so moving in with total strangers will be very difficult for me. I'm moving in 2 weeks.

I have left that guy, but i'm not strong at all, I still long for him and I cry every night. Stupidly i'd probably take him back if he wanted me. I only finished it because I felt he lost interest in me and found someone else, not because i'm strong. I don't pray very often, but I do pray as much as I can for my heart to heal, InshahAllah.

People tell me time and time again that time will heal me, but I'm not patient enough, I get very frustrated and angry and I end up thinking stupid things like, Allah will never make me happy, prayer won't make a difference because i'm being punished, this is a test which I will never pass and even if I do, there will be another test waiting for me, maybe a much worse test.

I don't like it when I start thinking like that, it's so wrong. I have faith in Allah (swt) but i'm scared that everytime I break down I lose faith.

For instance, when i'm trying to get over him, I end up having dreams about him, that i'm with him and we are laughing and joking, but when I wake up, reality hits me hard and I cry and cry, my tears and suffering seem never ending. :cry: Nothing can distract me from him, if it does then it's for no more than 5 minutes and i'm thinking about him again, wondering what i've done, why he won't call :cry:


I know sister I know ..

I'm the same, always checking my fone and emails to see if there's anything from him....big siiiiggghhhh

I believe Allah knows whats best for us, and I trust in Him that there is a good reason behind this, and that something better must be around the corner for me.

Possibly he is ignoring you now because he realised himself it would not be possible to make it work between you. And maybe it is painful for him to keep speaking with you..
Also if he wanted to leave you and didn't want to hurt you, that would explain why he didn't say anything, its a very difficult thing to say to someone when you know you will break their heart. It is the cowards way out but maybe you would hurt even more or be keeping a false hope (as I do) if you stay in touch.

Sister, life is short on this earth, ask yourself, do you want to be trying to figure this out and crying yourself to sleep everynight this time next year?
I suspect the answer is no. This is painful for you and you want the pain to go away at the same time as wanting answers..

Allah has the answer, and He has chosen not to reveal it to you, so don't get angry for something He has chosen for you..

When I do the Sajdah, I also offer my life to Allah and tell Him that I put my life in His hands, to do with as He wills..

Because He can surely change your situation in a second if He wishes.

I heard something once, someone said, every day of your life that you are happy is a waste because you learn nothing. Every day of your life that you are hurting, thats what makes you the person you are and makes you learn in life.

I get the gist of what the person was trying to say...you have to find the strength within yourself to trust Allah. You are not trusting Him by crying every night... You need to get up tomorrow morning and tell yourself. 'Right..thats it. I will trust in Allah to shape the course of my life and I pray that if Allah wills it, He might give me a true believer.

Then start looking at ways to fill your time. Do an online course if you can't go to college. I did an online TEFL course and then went to teach English to kids for a month in Korea- on my own- and it was so rewarding. Allah loves you Tanya..love Him also and trust in Him and when you feel the depression coming say 'A -U-Dhu-Bil-Lah-Hi-Minash-Shaytanir-Rajim'. Thats what I do continuously during the day and evening.

I would like to help you in anyway I can..please PM me for ANYTHING you need.
:)
 
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I know sister I know ..

I'm the same, always checking my fone and emails to see if there's anything from him....big siiiiggghhhh

I believe Allah knows whats best for us, and I trust in Him that there is a good reason behind this, and that something better must be around the corner for me.

Possibly he is ignoring you now because he realised himself it would not be possible to make it work between you. And maybe it is painful for him to keep speaking with you..
Also if he wanted to leave you and didn't want to hurt you, that would explain why he didn't say anything, its a very difficult thing to say to someone when you know you will break their heart. It is the cowards way out but maybe you would hurt even more or be keeping a false hope (as I do) if you stay in touch.

Sister, life is short on this earth, ask yourself, do you want to be trying to figure this out and crying yourself to sleep everynight this time next year?
I suspect the answer is no. This is painful for you and you want the pain to go away at the same time as wanting answers..

Allah has the answer, and He has chosen not to reveal it to you, so don't get angry for something He has chosen for you..

When I do the Sajdah, I also offer my life to Allah and tell Him that I put my life in His hands, to do with as He wills..

Because He can surely change your situation in a second if He wishes.

I heard something once, someone said, every day of your life that you are happy is a waste because you learn nothing. Every day of your life that you are hurting, thats what makes you the person you are and makes you learn in life.

I get the gist of what the person was trying to say...you have to find the strength within yourself to trust Allah. You are not trusting Him by crying every night... You need to get up tomorrow morning and tell yourself. 'Right..thats it. I will trust in Allah to shape the course of my life and I pray that if Allah wills it, He might give me a true believer.

Then start looking at ways to fill your time. Do an online course if you can't go to college. I did an online TEFL course and then went to teach English to kids for a month in Korea- on my own- and it was so rewarding. Allah loves you Tanya..love Him also and trust in Him and when you feel the depression coming say 'A -U-Dhu-Bil-Lah-Hi-Minash-Shaytanir-Rajim'. Thats what I do continuously during the day and evening.

I would like to help you in anyway I can..please PM me for ANYTHING you need.
:)


Thank you for your help and advice. I don't want to cry, I try to be strong but when I see no difference no changes, I start getting depressed again, I hate 'time' it makes me feel worse :cry:
 
Re: Im so depressed :(

Tell us what you do during the day..has your job ended?
What are your interests?
What would you like to do if money etc wasn't an issue...
 
Re: Im so depressed :(

Tell us what you do during the day..has your job ended?
What are your interests?
What would you like to do if money etc wasn't an issue...


My job hasn't ended... yet, but it will if I carry on the way I do. I don't concentrate at work I make so many mistakes because my mind is wild with thoughts :exhausted

I don't have much interest in anything anymore, I used to go out with friends, go watch movies, go to fashion shows etc, but now I don't want to go out with them because they have that 'special' someone in their lives and they don't stop talking about it when i'm around, it hurts because i'm so lonely, I have no one :cry: and I start remembering him.


I haven't got any single friends, at least I could go out with them without worrying about them going on about their other half.

I don't know what i'd do if money weren't an issue. I'd like to go on Holiday but I lose interest when I think my problems will still be here when I get back.
 
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My job hasn't ended... yet, but it will if I carry on the way I do. I don't concentrate at work I make so many mistakes because my mind is wild with thoughts :exhausted

I don't have much interest in anything anymore, I used to go out with friends, go watch movies, go to fashion shows etc, but now I don't want to go out with them because they have that 'special' someone in their lives and they don't stop talking about it when i'm around, it hurts because i'm so lonely, I have no one :cry: and I start remembering him.


I haven't got any single friends, at least I could go out with them without worrying about them going on about their other half.

I don't know what i'd do if money weren't an issue. I'd like to go on Holiday but I lose interest when I think my problems will still be here when I get back.

Your problem might still be there but your attitude may have changed.

We all need a break. But you need something to make you feel there is more to life than having a man.

Would you do any volunteering work? Thats what I'd recommend.Do it in your local hospital or any local organisation where the people are in need.

Sister spend your time helping others instead of crying over what Allah chose for you and you will get reward and feel better. You need a sense of perspective on whats important in life.

Plus, the longer you are in this frame of mind, the longer you will be on your own. You can't find someone else if you're focusing always on him.
Go to a site like www.muslima.com and just see what happens but in a halal way.:D

Honestly this is the course of action I've taken, and I no longer feel that i need him. You need to get rid of the dependency first.

Come on now sister, you have a right to happiness don't you?
So go get it!
 
Re: Im so depressed :(

tanya i just read 1 of ur last messgaes and noticed u sed u lived alone, wheres ur family?
 
Re: Im so depressed :(

Asalamu Alaikum Sis,

Do not worry about what people have and what they don't have. Everything is a test from Allah swt. Be patient and devote yourself to your Lord. Love Allah and He will Love you in return many folds. Inshallah you'll feel happy with yourself as you are right now. Be thankful that you are fortunate enough to have such bounties from Allah swt... Surely, Allah has plans for everyone... you must wait with patience and reward will inshallah be worth it.

Find Allah in your heart and you will no longer be lonely. Inshallah.

May Allah make it easy for you... Inshallah. Ameen.

W'salaamz
 
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I was just wonderin tanya, that u sed he was an ahmedi. U no it is wrong the relationship u r havin but it sounds 2 me that if he calls u, u wil go bak 2 him, u believe in iman is very weak. U sed that wen u found out he was an ahmedi u were 2 involved wiv him 2 let go. I dnt understand how involved u can possibly be. Do u hav kids by him? R u married 2 him? No! so ur not 2 involved wiv him.
Your luv for theis guy is takin over ur life.
Who do u seriously luv more, This guy who doesnt giv a **** or our creator allah (swt) and our beloved messenger, prophet muhammed (SAW). This guy doesnt even believe that our prohet was the last of our prophets. He's goin sgainst wot it says in the quran, yet knowin this u stil luv him and want 2 be wiv him.
I really dont no wot advice 2 giv 2 u sis as u hav had plenty of very gud advice from all the brothers and sisters on this site.
u mentioned u dont pray very often! but u also sed that u dnt no wot 2 do. Start prayin! how many times do we all hav 2 keep tellin u! read quran, thats the best comfort u can hav and dnt even say it doesnt work coz u probably havnt even tried it!
2 years ago my husband was murdered. he was 21. I had a daughter who was 2 and i was 8 months pregnant. I wasnt practising then. I was abspolutly distraught wiv wot had happend and thought I'd never get over it. I just wanted 2 die. Every nite I couldnt sleep coz i just kept thinkin and thinkin. I then startde 2 read the quran weneva I was upset or I couldnt sleep. That was the biggest and best comfort. I realised this is wot allah wanted I hav 2 accept it and remember why we r here. We r here to serve allah alone and 2 please allah in every way. Look tanya I dnt want 2 sound harsh wiv u, I really do sympathise wiv u but u really need 2 stop feelin so sorry 4 urself and move on. Stop waitin around 4 him, infact change ur numbers so u no he cant ring u anymore and u wont keep lookin at ur fne wonnderin wether he's gona 4 u.
No guy or girl infact is worth leavin ur family over. My family was against my marriage but luk who's here 4 me in the end. I dnt really no if u hav contact wiv ur family or not but try not 2 lose contact wiv them.
inshallah everythin wil be beta soon
 
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I was just wonderin tanya, that u sed he was an ahmedi. U no it is wrong the relationship u r havin but it sounds 2 me that if he calls u, u wil go bak 2 him, u believe in iman is very weak. U sed that wen u found out he was an ahmedi u were 2 involved wiv him 2 let go. I dnt understand how involved u can possibly be. Do u hav kids by him? R u married 2 him? No! so ur not 2 involved wiv him.
Your luv for theis guy is takin over ur life.
Who do u seriously luv more, This guy who doesnt giv a **** or our creator allah (swt) and our beloved messenger, prophet muhammed (SAW). This guy doesnt even believe that our prohet was the last of our prophets. He's goin sgainst wot it says in the quran, yet knowin this u stil luv him and want 2 be wiv him.
I really dont no wot advice 2 giv 2 u sis as u hav had plenty of very gud advice from all the brothers and sisters on this site.
u mentioned u dont pray very often! but u also sed that u dnt no wot 2 do. Start prayin! how many times do we all hav 2 keep tellin u! read quran, thats the best comfort u can hav and dnt even say it doesnt work coz u probably havnt even tried it!
2 years ago my husband was murdered. he was 21. I had a daughter who was 2 and i was 8 months pregnant. I wasnt practising then. I was abspolutly distraught wiv wot had happend and thought I'd never get over it. I just wanted 2 die. Every nite I couldnt sleep coz i just kept thinkin and thinkin. I then startde 2 read the quran weneva I was upset or I couldnt sleep. That was the biggest and best comfort. I realised this is wot allah wanted I hav 2 accept it and remember why we r here. We r here to serve allah alone and 2 please allah in every way. Look tanya I dnt want 2 sound harsh wiv u, I really do sympathise wiv u but u really need 2 stop feelin so sorry 4 urself and move on. Stop waitin around 4 him, infact change ur numbers so u no he cant ring u anymore and u wont keep lookin at ur fne wonnderin wether he's gona 4 u.
No guy or girl infact is worth leavin ur family over. My family was against my marriage but luk who's here 4 me in the end. I dnt really no if u hav contact wiv ur family or not but try not 2 lose contact wiv them.
inshallah everythin wil be beta soon

ahhhhhhhhhhh siiiiiiiiisssssssssssss that is sum top advice gurl!!! All of it in particular the bit highlighted in red! iv read this thread so many tyms n it seems dat as tym goes on the sis is still feelin exactly the same as she did when she first posted the thread- i so wanted 2 say what u sed but was afraid of hurtin th sisz feelins.

And dats awful wat uv been thru yaself sis, omg ya hubby murdered at age of 21! dats awful, May Allah(swt) grant him a place in jannah inshaAllah.

And wat u sed about family, u jus tuk da words ryt outta ma mouth.

well sed sis x x
 
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tanya i just read 1 of ur last messgaes and noticed u sed u lived alone, wheres ur family?

My family don't live too far from me, my dad through me out when my marriage broke down. He was old fashioned, he always blamed the women for everything. Then I moved in with my sister (who is divorced also) but we've never been a close-nit family, i could never talk to my sisters about anything. We had an argument about something and she through me out aswell after a few months. There's no care there at all, i've never been loved in the family. :cry:
 
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My family don't live too far from me, my dad through me out when my marriage broke down. He was old fashioned, he always blamed the women for everything. Then I moved in with my sister (who is divorced also) but we've never been a close-nit family, i could never talk to my sisters about anything. We had an argument about something and she through me out aswell after a few months. There's no care there at all, i've never been loved in the family. :cry:

awwwwwwww
thats really bad! where do u live?
 
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I was just wonderin tanya, that u sed he was an ahmedi. U no it is wrong the relationship u r havin but it sounds 2 me that if he calls u, u wil go bak 2 him, u believe in iman is very weak. U sed that wen u found out he was an ahmedi u were 2 involved wiv him 2 let go. I dnt understand how involved u can possibly be. Do u hav kids by him? R u married 2 him? No! so ur not 2 involved wiv him.
Your luv for theis guy is takin over ur life.
Who do u seriously luv more, This guy who doesnt giv a **** or our creator allah (swt) and our beloved messenger, prophet muhammed (SAW). This guy doesnt even believe that our prohet was the last of our prophets. He's goin sgainst wot it says in the quran, yet knowin this u stil luv him and want 2 be wiv him.
I really dont no wot advice 2 giv 2 u sis as u hav had plenty of very gud advice from all the brothers and sisters on this site.
u mentioned u dont pray very often! but u also sed that u dnt no wot 2 do. Start prayin! how many times do we all hav 2 keep tellin u! read quran, thats the best comfort u can hav and dnt even say it doesnt work coz u probably havnt even tried it! 2 years ago my husband was murdered. he was 21. I had a daughter who was 2 and i was 8 months pregnant. I wasnt practising then. I was abspolutly distraught wiv wot had happend and thought I'd never get over it. I just wanted 2 die. Every nite I couldnt sleep coz i just kept thinkin and thinkin. I then startde 2 read the quran weneva I was upset or I couldnt sleep. That was the biggest and best comfort. I realised this is wot allah wanted I hav 2 accept it and remember why we r here. We r here to serve allah alone and 2 please allah in every way. Look tanya I dnt want 2 sound harsh wiv u, I really do sympathise wiv u but u really need 2 stop feelin so sorry 4 urself and move on. Stop waitin around 4 him, infact change ur numbers so u no he cant ring u anymore and u wont keep lookin at ur fne wonnderin wether he's gona 4 u.
No guy or girl infact is worth leavin ur family over. My family was against my marriage but luk who's here 4 me in the end. I dnt really no if u hav contact wiv ur family or not but try not 2 lose contact wiv them.
inshallah everythin wil be beta soon

I DO read the Qu'ran, I read Surah Yasin almost everyday and I pray namaz as much as I can. I can't believe things have got much worse! How could this be! Do you know, after all this pain and suffering, I thought things can't get any worse, I told myself, 'things will get better, have faith' but they have got WORSE!!!

Now my family won't even speak to me because they told me to move in with my sister but I said i can't, not after she through me out, also because I'm already depressed and I don't get on with her, she will not let me go anywhere or do anything, i'll have no privacy, she will make me feel WORSE!! But as usual my family don't want to understand, they just want me to do what they say, and because I didn't, they have disowned me!!!!! How could things get worse after everything i've been through!!!!!

People on here told me things will get better have patience, but how much more can I take pls tell me HOW MUCH MORE???? I pray, yet I am miserable beyond belief!!!!!!
How can I be facing this many tests all at once, how can I bear this.... I CAN'T ANYMORE!!!! I just want to die!!! :cry:

On no soul does Allah Place a burden greater than it can bear.
[Qur'an, 2:286]


Allah (swt) has put a burden on me which I CANNOT BEAR !!!! HOW COULD THIS BE!!!!! I feel like I will collapse and die with all this misery and depression!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I CAN'T TAKE NO MORE, HOW PATIENT CAN A HUMAN BEING BE?????????
I DON'T KNOW ANYONE WHO IS HAVING IT AS BAD AS ME!!! WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME, WHY AFTER PRAYING AND PRAYING AND PRAYING DID THINGS GET WORSE????????????? JUST WHEN I START BELIEVING THINGS WILL GET BETTER, ANOTHER museebat!!! :cry:

NO, THINGS WILL NEVER GET BETTER NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS!!! LOOK HOW MANY REPLIES ON THIS THREAD, OVER 100!!!! YET I STILL HAVE NO PEACE IN MY HEART, JUST NEVERENDING MISERY AND TORTURE!!!!!! HOW CAN ALLAH (SWT) PUT THIS MUCH MISERY ON ME???? :enough!:
 
Re: Im so depressed :(

awwwwwwww
thats really bad! where do u live?

I have just moved into a rented room, I was staying with a friend a before, but she has just moved into a 1 bedroom place with her husband so I ddin't want to go there. I am more depressed i'm stuck in 1 room all the time, I can't roam around the house like I could at my friends place.
 
Re: Im so depressed :(

In the quran it says that those who fear Allah -He will grant them a way out of every hardship insha Allah

fearing Allah means being aware of Him and being obedient to Him and abiding by His laws

and remember the power of prayer Insha Allah sis
 
Re: Im so depressed :(

In the quran it says that those who fear Allah -He will grant them a way out of every hardship insha Allah

fearing Allah means being aware of Him and being obedient to Him and abiding by His laws

and remember the power of prayer Insha Allah sis


I can't really say anything to that as I've never experienced happiness in my life, and never will.
 

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