14 year old minors travelling solo...urgent advice please! only one day left! please!

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Stay strong little one and update us if and when you can. Make dua for yourself loads whilst travelling and keep us in there too.

جزاك اللهُ خير‎
 
Dear ramen,

Send one of the sisters here a pm with your real name, address, phone numbers, friends and relatives and anything else about you, that would help someone find you. Maybe your old address as well and a picture of yourself. Any details you know about your granddad and his brother.

Any idea of what time you will be in Southampton?

May Allah bless you with the strength to keep going.

Eric
 
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Eric H said:
Dear ramen,

Send one of the sisters here a pm with your real name, address, phone numbers, friends and relatives and anything else about you, that would help someone find you. Maybe your old address as well and a picture of yourself. Any details you know about your granddad and his brother.

Any idea of what time you will be in Southampton?

May Allah bless you with the strength to keep going.

Eric
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thank you sooo much Mr.Eric for your concern.

i'll do it but i dont understand somethings...

1) which sister and why? i mean how is that going to help or what will she do
2) my grand dad does not live in england or uk so he himself doesn't have a phone number for now and as for the relatives, my mom gave me their phone number but i have never met or talked to them so i dont think it would be nice i give their phone number to some one.
3) i'm arriving at southampton at about 3 am...i dont think anybody can make up plus my grand dad will be there an hour before me and so will his brother...so i dont think i'll be needing anyone plus we have to leave asap
4) internet has never been that good for me..i dont think i can trust anyone with all those details unless i'm a 100% sure. i've already disclosed sooo much about me here
 
Dear ramen,

Just little things you have said, made me feel you might not feel safe with your granddad and his brother. I have been aware for a number of years, that young girls come into this country and disappear. If you were to give any sister any of your details, it would have to be a sister of YOUR choosing.

However you may feel I am panicking over nothing, if so then just please ignore me, and sorry if I am causing you any further stress.

Again, I am just so pleased for you that you tried to make up with your mum, sometimes these relationship problems can carry on for years, but they can get slightly better over time.

May Allah bless you with all the help you need.

Eric
 
can everyone please pray my grand dad turns out to be someone like Mr.Eric?!?!

that would surely help a lot!
 
ramen-thelegend said:
already got someone on hold!

its a secret!
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May Allah SWT forgive me if I adviced you wrong. Ameen.

Try to keep to yourself etc. As much as you can. Please, recite Ayatul Kursi. May Allah SWT, send down Angels to guard you. Ameen.

Remember Allah SWT is The Guardian, your protecting Friend. :D

Al-Wali (الوالي);
 
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If this is a joke, you just blew your cover. I think. It is important that moderators here know which sister it is, so they can confirm, and make ready the right preparations.

Allahu alam.
 
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I've informed the moderators. No action was taken when I reported this issue a couple of days ago but it's being looked into now.
 
Aisha said:
I've informed the moderators. No action was taken when I reported this issue a couple of days ago but it's being looked into now.
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:sl:

We have been keeping an eye on her for more than a couple of days ago. Don't worry.

It's being looked into. :jz: for concern.
 
You guys are doubting a 14 year old that has cancer? Are you for real?
 
:salam: But she did say she coughs up blood. I see that as a sign of the cancer.

Allahu alam.
 
I admit, I have been having my reservations recently.

If it can be confirmed that this is not duplicity, not anything to do with the fakerameen and spencer account business a while ago, then this is amazing and I'll support her every step of the way. But I think the mods do need to look into something as serious as this, what she has written in her posts suggests enough family abuse and possible negligence to get social services involved, particularly as she is adopted.
 
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greetings and peace be with you Serinity;

How do we confirm it isn't deceit?
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How can we possibly know the real Serinity, we can all hide behind a user name on the internet. I think we can only try and be truthful to ourselves, knowing that Allah, the real moderator is overlooking us all.

Blessings

Eric
 
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greetings and peace be with you Serinity;



How can we possibly know the real Serinity, we can all hide behind a user name on the internet. I think we can only try and be truthful to ourselves, knowing that Allah, the real moderator is overlooking us all.

Blessings

Eric
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yes, we should be truthful before ourselves, but if you always think good of others (obv you should) but when does it border naivity?

Obv, thinking negative is no good. And who said being naive is bad anyway lol. but one has to be realistic, tho. I don't like being naive tho. :/
 
Eric H said:
greetings and peace be with you Serinity;



How can we possibly know the real Serinity, we can all hide behind a user name on the internet. I think we can only try and be truthful to ourselves, knowing that Allah, the real moderator is overlooking us all.

Blessings

Eric
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I agree. Also I think we shouldn´t discuss about such matter in the public forum. I prefer if mod would delete all posts from 31 to here? It is not very discreet to discuss whether a person is genuine or not. If someone likes to do so, PM to mod or admin is the right way. Not public forum.
 
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