14 year old minors travelling solo...urgent advice please! only one day left! please!

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greetings and peace be with you Serinity;

yes, we should be truthful before ourselves, but if you always think good of others (obv you should) but when does it border naivity?
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If I look for the good in someone, then I hope to find something good, and when you find good, it is an opportunity to try and build. If I look for the bad in someone and find it, then what? I have found in life it is better to try and encourage something good to happen, rather than correct other people's faults.

This strategy will never make me rich.

Blessings

Eric
 
Eric H said:
greetings and peace be with you Serinity;



If I look for the good in someone, then I hope to find something good, and when you find good, it is an opportunity to try and build. If I look for the bad in someone and find it, then what? I have found in life it is better to try and encourage something good to happen, rather than correct other people's faults.

This strategy will never make me rich.

Blessings

Eric
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But one should beware of the evil of someone. I mean, one should not try to find fault in someone, forcibly, or something. But it depends, I mean, If you only seek the good but ignore the bad.. you might entrench yourself in the bad, etc.

One has to recognise the bad and the good. But how one approaches / tries to correct that, should be with good ettiquette. In some cases, harshness is the tool, sometimes, kindness is.. Or both.

Obv, it only makes someone negative and pessimistic to search for bad qualities, and it isn't a good habit. But when one sees evil, one should not ignore it. Or bad stuff, etc.

I look at both the bad and the good, and then value and see whether the bad outweights the good, etc.
In shaa' Allah, you get what I mean.
 
I hope our sister Ramen is ok she's not active on here anymore:/
 
That distance takes prob. about 9 hours, the layover will add another couple of hours and I don't think she's carrying a cell phone with data signal on her person to be chatting.
 
Bhabha said:
That distance takes prob. about 9 hours, the layover will add another couple of hours and I don't think she's carrying a cell phone with data signal on her person to be chatting.
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Yea I guess always think positive:)
 
Greetings and peace be with you ramen-thelegend;

and i have only one day left, after which..maybe i'm not here anymore for awhile or maybe forever...maybe i die
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You posted this six days ago, can you let us know how you are please?

Blessings

Eric
 
Greetings and peace be with you all,

It is now ten days since ramen posted this and left Pakistan, I would have expected her to have posted something if she was ok, any thoughts?

ramen-thelegend said:
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some of you will most probably know that i'm travelling to the uk and in mid-way meet my grandpa and we'll travel together to our final destination. i.e swansea. so that means i'm travelling alone from islamabad (in pakistan) to southampton, with a layover at paris. all on my own...and thats sounds scary...


and yes, pray for me!

and i have only one day left, after which..maybe i'm not here anymore for awhile or maybe forever...maybe i die...so anyone wants to talk? here:http://www.islamicboard.com/groups/talk-to-me-.html
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Praying for ramen.

Eric
 
Hmmm... People have been saying this is a fake account though lol
 
ramen-thelegend; and yes said:
http://www.islamicboard.com/groups/talk-to-me-.html[/url]
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Whatever people might think about ramen, she has made about 400 posts since March, then has gone silent for 10 days, this sounds out of character. Something does not seem right.
 
Eric H said:
Whatever people might think about ramen, she has made about 400 posts since March, then has gone silent for 10 days, this sounds out of character. Something does not seem right.
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Hmm, maybe she dont have internet access?
 
Greetings and peace be with you all,

Ramen said she was worried about travelling with her adopted granddad and his brother, whom she had not met. If everything was ok, she should be going back to school, she should have contact with the outside world, I believe she would have said something on the forum by now, something does not sound right.
 
....waiting for a response from ramen as well.

Not sure if anyone has her contact details.
 
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

She did tell the forum that she probably won't come back because of Internet/hospital errands or something isn't that right?
 
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