ALLAH help me

[anonymous]

I am having some severe problems in my life

No matter what I do, how hard I pray, with pure dedication, with tears nothing happens

i have had a tough life as a child with my dad, in my youth, when i had to live with my relatives and now with my career, i have always believed i wil be rewarded but i aint
ALLAH doesn’t listen to my prayers

I am so frustrated u cant imagine for 7-8 years I just prayed for my career and believe me I am writing this with tears no help has come, I feel so dejected that u cant imagine, I have no parents, but too many responsibilities, plz help me what should I do

I feel like dying

 

[Ghazi]

Allah does listen our prayers trust me hav sabr and the reward will be wating for you, make dua have faith in the Qadar of allah.

 

[Paul Williams]

Dear friend, I will pray for you. I wish I could do more to help

 

[...]

Just remember that any suffering that u might go through means u are being rewarded more. Have sabr. Allah never ignores a single prayer when u ask with sincerity.

Either ur prayer will be answered or Allah will prevent a calamity from befalling u, or u will be rewarded with a much greater reward in the hereafter.

There will be this man on the day of judement who will be given many rewards and he will ask Allah what they are for. Allah will tell him that it's for all the du'as that weren't answered in the world. Then the man will wish that none of his prayers were answered.

Have faith in Allah and he will surely help u inshaallah. I will remember u in my du'as.
salaam

 

[IceQueen~]

may Allah help and guide you, ameen!

 

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[Ayesha Rana]

I am having some severe problems in my life

No matter what I do, how hard I pray, with pure dedication, with tears nothing happens

i have had a tough life as a child with my dad, in my youth, when i had to live with my relatives and now with my career, i have always believed i wil be rewarded but i aint
ALLAH doesn’t listen to my prayers

I am so frustrated u cant imagine for 7-8 years I just prayed for my career and believe me I am writing this with tears no help has come, I feel so dejected that u cant imagine, I have no parents, but too many responsibilities, plz help me what should I do

I feel like dying

Don't give up bro/sis. They say that Allah only tests those that he loves and i read that when Allah doesn't answer our prayers it is because He loves to hear us pray to Him and knows that when we get what we want we will stop praying.
On the Day of Judgement a man will come and Allah will give him great rewards and when he asks what they are for Allah will tell him they were for the Du'as of his that weren't answered in his lifetime. And remember Allah won't place a burden on us greater than we can bear. Do you know the story of prophet Ayub(as)? He was so patient.
Maybe Allah has something else planned for you that you arn'et aware of. Be patient Bro/Sis. The fruit of patience is sweet.
Salaam

 

[lolwatever]

I am having some severe problems in my life

No matter what I do, how hard I pray, with pure dedication, with tears nothing happens

i have had a tough life as a child with my dad, in my youth, when i had to live with my relatives and now with my career, i have always believed i wil be rewarded but i aint
ALLAH doesn’t listen to my prayers

I am so frustrated u cant imagine for 7-8 years I just prayed for my career and believe me I am writing this with tears no help has come, I feel so dejected that u cant imagine, I have no parents, but too many responsibilities, plz help me what should I do

I feel like dying

Who says you are not being rewarded? Allah has guarenteed that the dua of his servant will definately be accepted, either in this dunya or in the hereafter.

I think your comfort should be in the prophets and many companions, some of whom lived in much worse situations than yourself, like Sumeyye and Yasir, yet they where content with what Allah had assigned for them and took it as a challenge and as an opportunity to gain more rewards, rather than a discouragement to rebel against Allah and gain sins and add more pointless stress ontop of themselves.

Don't despair from Dua though, keep at it, it could be that Allah has something in store for you that would benefit you more if the help comes later, and it could be that Allah knows that this hardship might be in the interst of your hereafter as opposed to leasure which could lead some people Astray.

That's the Muslim's creed.

 

[seek.learn]

Salaam,

As the brothers and sisters have repeatedly mentioned above,

There will be this man on the day of judement who will be given many rewards and he will ask Allah what they are for. Allah will tell him that it's for all the du'as that weren't answered in the world. Then the man will wish that none of his prayers were answered.

Remember the above fact, it will bring peace and hope, InshaAllah.

Along with your namaaz, and dua's, Recite the Quran. It holds all the answers. Recite it as often as you can, with its translation if you dont know the arabic. But keep it close and it is indeed your best companion.

Allah says...

"And We send down of the Qur'an that which is a healing and a mercy to those who believe..." 17:82

"On no soul doth Allah Place a burden greater than it can bear..." 2:286

"You who believe! Seek help in steadfastness and prayer. Allah is with the steadfast." 2:153

"Perform prayer and give the alms. Any good you send ahead for yourselves, you will find with Allah. Certainly Allah sees what you do." (2:110)

May Allah ease your troubles and grant you strength and patience. Aameen.

Wassalaam

 

[IceQueen~]

the other thing is if things keep going wrong no matter what we do then sometimes we need to look at ourselves, because Allah is perfect, but we are human and humans make mistakes...
we should ask ourselves are we doing anything wrong/ against islam?
if we can't find anything then like all the brothers and sisters ahve said, we need to do sabr and also remember that Allah only tests those He loves!

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Remember Ayyub AS who was placed in the worst of situations, who had lost all 14 sons, his kingdome, his wives, his home, his HEALTH, his wellbeing and yet he said "Alhamdullilah (praise be to Allah). Its all about sabr and ALLAH DUZ LISTEN!

Surely after every struggle and hardship there comes relief (THIS IS A PROMISE FROM THE QURAN).

Have sabr and inshaAllah your relief will come.
May Allah give you your relief soon inshaAllah and giv you the sabr you need.

 

[MetSudaisTwice]

salam
fasbir sabran jameel
may allah grant you shifa and make your situation easier
wasalam

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ AMEEN!

 

[IceQueen~]

salam
fasbir sabran jameel
may allah grant you shifa and make your situation easier
wasalam

:amin:

 

[Nicola]

I'm sorry to hear of your tough circumstances in life. I will pray for you also...the more prayers the better..their is so much power in prayer.
there will be light at the end...for you
God cares for each and everyone of us..and only wants whats best for us..



God bless

 

[Muslim Soldier]

have always believed i wil be rewarded but i aint
ALLAH doesn’t listen to my prayers

Allah is just and He will reward you. Just remember this life is not permanent and you will be rewarded in the next eternal world.

 

[Ayesha Rana]

I'm sorry to hear of your tough circumstances in life. I will pray for you also...the more prayers the better..their is so much power in prayer.
there will be light at the end...for you
God cares for each and everyone of us..and only wants whats best for us..



God bless

Aww. Nicola that is so cute. I think i made a wrong judgement about you. sorry.

 

[mbaig]

I am having some severe problems in my life

No matter what I do, how hard I pray, with pure dedication, with tears nothing happens

i have had a tough life as a child with my dad, in my youth, when i had to live with my relatives and now with my career, i have always believed i wil be rewarded but i aint
ALLAH doesn’t listen to my prayers

I am so frustrated u cant imagine for 7-8 years I just prayed for my career and believe me I am writing this with tears no help has come, I feel so dejected that u cant imagine, I have no parents, but too many responsibilities, plz help me what should I do

I feel like dying

A'salaam alakyum brother ,

As i can see you have shown a good strength of patience. We cannot escape by telling that i am a muslim, Allah will test all the muslims he love.

Allah loves some person so much that he has alreday given them the place in the holy jannah, that person just has to pass all the test from Allah almighty.

Brother Allah will never test anyone beyound his strength. So just image the strength you are having.


I think allah loves you more than everyone else and inshallah you will have a very good status in Holy Jannah. So don't loose you heart just pray to allah inshallah he will reply to you in any form.

Inshallah we all will pray for you brother.

 

[Hijaabi22]

I am having some severe problems in my life

No matter what I do, how hard I pray, with pure dedication, with tears nothing happens

i have had a tough life as a child with my dad, in my youth, when i had to live with my relatives and now with my career, i have always believed i wil be rewarded but i aint
ALLAH doesn’t listen to my prayers

I am so frustrated u cant imagine for 7-8 years I just prayed for my career and believe me I am writing this with tears no help has come, I feel so dejected that u cant imagine, I have no parents, but too many responsibilities, plz help me what should I do

I feel like dying

BRO/SIS Every1 goes thru hardships, dats wat lifes all about. LIFE is a test, we have our ups we have our dowsn, ur just goin thru a rough patch, Allah (swt) is always there 4 u, u cannot say that Allah(swt) doesnt answer ya prayers- I dunno if u a muslim or not but watever the situation, there is more 2 lyf then your career

And plz dont say u feel like dyin, life is GIFT be grateful 4 all u have

ill leave you with this:

If ALLAH(swt) answers your duas he is increasin your faith

If he delays HEs increasin your patience

If he doesnt answer HE has something better planned 4 U

MAY ALLAH(SWT) ANSWER ALL OUR DUAS

AMEEN^^^ with that thought in mkind you can overcome any hardship trust me

hope all works out 4 u

 

[Lina]

And surely We shall try you with something of fear and hunger, and loss of wealth and lives and crops; but give glad tidings to the patient, Who says, when afflicted with calamity: “To Allah We belong, and to Him is our return”: They are those on whom (descend) Blessings from Allah, and Mercy, and they are the ones that receive guidance.] (Al-Baqarah 2:155-157)


[He Who created Death and Life, that He may try which of you is best in deed: and He is the Exalted in Might, Oft-Forgiving.] (Al-Mulk 67:2)


Abu Yahya Suhaib bin Sinan (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “How wonderful is the case of a believer; there is good for him in everything and this applies only to a believer. If prosperity attends him, he expresses gratitude to Allah and that is good for him; and if adversity befalls him, he endures it patiently and that is good for him”(Muslim).

http://islamonline.net/English/HadithAndItsSciences/ThisHadith/2005/04/01.shtml