Who sed marriage was only about physical attention. its much more then that, other wise it wudnt complete half ur deen wud it?
In islam a child becomes an adult at puberty, there is no inbetween like society tells u, theres no such thing as "teenager" in islam, ur either child or adult.
If u treat a kid like a kid then the kid is bound to act like one. u sed times have changed, yep times have changed, time doesnt stop still for any one, things are changing allt he time, but islam doesnt, generations change but the message still remains the same. look at children in poorer countries like india n africa etc, kids get married as young as 7/8 etc, kids around that age are sometimes orphaned n look after their little siblings n sometimes even support their mums if theyre still around, theyre the ones bringing food on the table. etc.
if u treat a kid like a kid because this society tells u this is how u shud be at this age etc then ur gonna be stuck in a rut because ur then following what society tells u n not what islam tells u about things such as marriage. as bro fi sab posted earlier on Hadith - Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number 4, Narrated 'Abdullah (r.a)
We were with the Prophet (peace be upon him) while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
Dnt forget Allah swt is sufficient. How do u think ppl in poor countries get married? they dnt have a penny to their name yet they still get married, u cant use funds as a reason to stop ppl getting married. my husband didnt n still doesnt have a penny to his name yet we still got married. When u ask, Allah swt provides.
